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They are out there but you have to NETWORK to find them 
Women Ask Where ARe The Real Men, But Where Are The Real Women ?
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Mr.Forte
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They are out there but you have to NETWORK to find them
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I feel there are lots of women that fit OPs description, but good luck pulling one. women date up, not down... combined with their entitlement and inflated egos from social media, they feel like they are too good for 90% of men anyway. so even If you're her equal she will feel deep down she can do better.
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Was thinking about this shyt today and I posed this question to another member, maybe in another thread ... but what do y'all want out of a female? If you believe her domestic and parenting skills are/can be slightly above average... is that enough? Even though she might not be mentally engaging to you? Or do you want a female who offers more than that? Like a female who can take your guidance and teachings, and add on with you, stimulating you mentally and not on the conventional shyt? Yall Africans gotta know what yall want... because I'm telling you the latter, especially coupled with attractiveness, is extremely rare. that's unicorn shyt.
I get at some wives that really seem to be holding their household down and doing a more than decent job at raising their kids, but when I converse with them, they ain't talkin' about shyt substantive.
... that doesn't mean she can't or wont hold her husband down emotionally when shyt gets real... but you gotta ask yourself are you OK with that and should we expect her role to be Assata Shakur (in her prime) in lingerie? (
, no disrespect)
I get at some wives that really seem to be holding their household down and doing a more than decent job at raising their kids, but when I converse with them, they ain't talkin' about shyt substantive.
... that doesn't mean she can't or wont hold her husband down emotionally when shyt gets real... but you gotta ask yourself are you OK with that and should we expect her role to be Assata Shakur (in her prime) in lingerie? (, no disrespect)
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Art Barr
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If someone gets cheated on, I feel sorry. If someone gets treated bad, I feel sorry. And I feel like they deserve sympathy
He posted an opinion and I posted mine. If you want to pick my post apart because I'm not a professor on domestic abuse who can expertly pick apart some saying that someone just made up on the spot, whatever
all the sympathy women look for.
is nuffin but deflection and a ploy to place blame on another party erroneously.
after, they tried to take from said party and use their already recognized errant behavior.
As a scapegoat, when things naturally go awry.
as, they should and always will because women purposefully choose badly.
all in an effort to take and be absolved of blame.
as men, gravitate towards adjusting our behavior in general to attract.
females, purposefully looking for the wrong guy to take from and place blame when things go awry.
which is why I don't buy into any ideaology of thinking.
based around cheater swag and giving a female grounds to feel she is warranted to take.
this country and other matriarch based nations have created a pass system for women to take.
as, their ideaology is based around a female in power[UK england/before indie day north American territory]
then, solidified when women were allowed to be preyed upon via capitalism.
by their own hands and laws, made from their bitterness and the white man giving into this ideaology.
formerly, from emotional and capitalistic positives.
that group felt they were above harming their own because they had large established prestige and capital.
yet, those capitalist or devil worship based ways have harmed them more than anyone else.
plus, any other group they felt to hinder, beyond repair.
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Art Barr
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I feel personally, those types became extinct.
from mental to physiologically in the coming of the class of 1994.
my year and after the women genetically, and all across the board took a nose dive from crack and the damaging of the American household in that era.
There was a noticeable difference between that class beforehand physically/mentally.
that ws so extreme, it could not be hidden.
gals and guys, in the class of 1993 and before were much larger and were slave gene big and grown up.
to the current crop of guys and gals afterward.
Who were tiny,in comparison.
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