"Women can go weeks without seeing a man she finds attractive when she’s out in public."

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in 2022.... a 6/10 man gets less attention than a 3/10 woman....

men have much higher standards to live up to in the sexual marketplace

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Umm

What a man is worth is not equal to only how he looks.

If she’s in a major city then she’s clearly lying.
 

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This is my opinion but women are approached so much that they take men for granted. So if they see a man they’re attracted to they don’t feel any pressure to make a move like men do in the same situation

Funny radio story I heard a couple years ago, the founders of some travel guide were talking about how they met. The wife was walking through a park but she didn’t see any empty benches. She didn’t wanna have to sit down and have a man start a conversation with her but since there were no empty benches she ended up sitting next to her future husband. They struck up a conversation and eventually get married.
Heard something similar yesterday

Homie met his wife at a tennis tournament.. she didn’t even notice him at first, they met accidentally.

Exchanged numbers and would talk everyday

Now they’re married. Chicks probably be missing out on potential husbands because of “tunnel vision” or w/e other excuse
 

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Man, I don’t see how y’all arguing with women about this :mjlol:. Let’s be real, if a woman’s standard of attractive is a dude that looks like Rome Flynn or some shyt, she very well could go weeks with without seeing a dude she deems “attractive.” Most men do not look like that. In that regard, if a woman has really high standards, I believe it. I’m pretty sure black pearl has said the same thing before. :yeshrug:
 

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what’s the biggest indicator of someone’s vibe since it can be picked out so quickly

When I said a man can have a vibe about him, I am talking about something unique or special about the person that is noticeable immediately. It can be a walk, manner of speaking, or the way he smiles. A man can stand still and do nothing and women can pick up on his essence.

It's a combination of masculinty, confidence and sex appeal that shines through. I saw a post about Sofia Vergara and someone said she must have an aura, because they did not see why the men were falling over her. She has a vibe that attracted men to her. You can tell.
 

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Umm

What a man is worth is not equal to only how he looks.

If she’s in a major city then she’s clearly lying.
nobody is talking about "worth"

we talking the sexual marketplace/dating world....

lets just say the rating takes into factor income, personality, looks, and morals....

a woman who is a 3/10 can stack up WAAAAY more bodies and interest (even if its short term) than a 6/10 guy

3/10 woman walks into a room of 100 random guys...

6/10 man walks into a room of 100 random women...

both of them say they will fukk anybody who wants to...

the woman will have a VASTLY higher number of willing partners....
 

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a woman can't gather enough info in passing to really be truly attracted to a man

they might see a dude that appearance catches their attention but they take it in like seeing a nice vehicle outfit a pair of shoes

it doesn't carry that same testosterone fueled charge like when the average undisciplined dude sees a female & starts acting like he has rabies

the few joints that really hound nikkas off appearance are generally ran as fukk

ready & willing to buss for whatever nikka activates her thirst in the moment

no standards beyond image

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When I said a man can have a vibe about him, I am talking about something unique or special about the person that is noticeable immediately. It can be a walk, manner of speaking, or the way he smiles. A man can stand still and do nothing and women can pick up on his essence.

It's a combination of masculinty, confidence and sex appeal that shines through. I saw a post about Sofia Vergara and someone said she must have an aura, because they did not see why the men were falling over her. She has a vibe that attracted men to her. You can tell.
do your perceptions usually translate accurately when you actually get to know the person. like did you ever expect something out of the man at face value and they ended up not fulfillIng it. and do you set expectations unrealistically higher for certain people more than others.

i feel like a lot of women nitpick and project personalities on people, so if they mess up the smallest, shallowest thing the perceived attraction dies.
 

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do your perceptions usually translate accurately when you actually get to know the person. like did you ever expect something out of the man at face value that they ended up not fulfillIng. and do you set expectations unrealistically higher for certain people more than others.

i feel like a lot of women can nitpick and project personalities on people so if they mess up the smallest thing the perceived attraction dies.

In my initial post I talked about a man having a vibe and how that can draw me in, because I don't base my attraction to a man from what he looks like. I also mentioned how things like that can override looks for a lot of women. I have heard this said from numerous women. There are many threads on various outlets online that talk about men being unattractive to the vast majority of women.

From my dating experiences, when I picked up on the vibe, no matter how things turned out, it remained the same. I don't set my expectations in an unrealistic manner either way. I observe and act accordingly. I don't read into a personality and create a vision of who I think a man is, I was just speaking on initial attraction. I would probably say it's half and half when it comes to women and whether they care about a man's looks or not. I talked about real world situations when people meet, not fantasies of what people think things will be like when they meet someone.

This is real life and whether people realize it or not, people utilize a trade off system. A man sees a woman and he likes a fat booty, but he sees a girl with a pretty face and a soft demeanor. He may take her, even though she is missing a trait he likes. Men should understand that women overlook things too, regarding looks.
 
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In my initial post I talked about a man having a vibe and how that can draw me in, because I don't base my attraction to a man from what he looks like. I also mentioned how things like that can override looks for a lot of women. I have heard this said from numerous women. There are many threads on various outlets online that talk about men being unattractive to the vast majority of women.

From my dating experiences, when I picked up on the vibe, no matter how things turned out, it remained the same. I don't set my expectations in an unrealistic manner either way. I observe and act accordingly. I don't read into a personality and create a vision of who I think a man is, I was just speaking on initial attraction. I would probably say it's half and half when it comes to women and whether they care about a man's looks or not. I talked about real world situations when people meet, not fantasies of what people think things will be like when they meet someone.

This is real life and whether people realize it or not, people utilize a trade off system. A man sees a woman and he likes a fat booty, but he sees a girl with a pretty face and a soft demeanor. He may take her, even though she is missing a trait he likes. Why don't men understand that women overlook things too?
girls i come across will be digging me, take the initiative to get MY number, but if i ever stutter once after i will never hear from her again like i shattered their romantic fantasy by making a small mistake. just waiting to nitpick my shyt
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