women cannot “love” unconditionally Like we do?

[Youseenmywork]

People believe what they want. It's not a gender thing. It's a generational thing. Disney, romance and chick flicks have people confusing infatuation with love. Simply put infatuation is about what you can get from a person, love is about what you give to a person. Love the love who loves you. Reciprocity is to be cherished. If I love you, I want to see you happy.

Oh my damn. A WOMANS happines is moment to moment. A mans happines is VER simple. The list of things that makes me happy is a hell of a lot shorter than most women. Women forget there is no skill in the wsy women HUNT ....men have to have a skill level to get the women that man so desires . Women wish they HAD the skill level to HUNT LOVE. Most men get sex before a women can get love ...because a women is NOT special UPFRONT in the beginning. Men are special because most of us give you a GLIMPSE of what it might be like being with us in the long hual...being a man takes a skill level women and children just need to exist.

 

[Shadow King]

because love dont exist ......humans are naturally selfish creatures.....u have to treat an relationship the same way u treat a business

she get:children, my money, stability, guidance, protection

We get: sex, somebody to run errands, somebody to do chores, somebody to raise the kids

thats all this shyt is....and the moment u cant provide one, shell find a man that can

This is actually how I've been feeling about shyt lately. A mutual agreement to safely continue a bloodline. It's crazy.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #6
Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.

In its simplicity this speaks volumes about about the condition of Men. It accurately expresses a pervasive nihilism that Men must either confront and accept, or be driven insane in denial for the rest of their lives when they fail to come to terms with the disillusionment.

Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of.

In the same respect that women cannot appreciate the sacrifices men are expected to make in order to facilitate their imperatives, women can’t actualize how a man would have himself loved by her. It is not the natural state of women, and the moment he attempts to explain his ideal love, that’s the point at which his idealization becomes her obligation. Our girlfriends, our wives, daughters and even our mothers are all incapable of this idealized love. As nice as it would be to relax, trust and be vulnerable, upfront, rational and open, the great abyss is still the lack of an ability for women to love Men as Men would like them to.

@J-purp @Emperor_ReinScarf @kevm3

this is just better said ...from the grest Rollo Tomassi

The resulting love that defines a long-term couple’s relationship is the result of coming to an understanding of this impossibility and re-imagining what it should be for Men. Men have been, and should be, the more dominant gender, not because of some imagined divine right or physical prowess, but because on some rudimentary psychological level we ought to realized that a woman’s love is contingent upon our capacity to maintain that love in spite of a woman’s hypergamy. By order of degrees, hypergamy will define who a woman loves and who she will not, depending upon her own opportunities and capacity to attract it.

-rollo tomassi

This one sounds like women gonna cheat and men gotta take it...is that the gist or...?

 

[DrX]

That's actually all it really is, men just want to be heard instead of having to be this constant rock . . . they don't hear us tho

all man want is a warm meal, a back rub and some box before bed...and were satisfied....but to deserve that, women expect u to be superman

 

[#SOG_soldier]

op is not a fakkit

 

[TwistedMetal]

My heart's big but it beats quiet

 

[MoonGoddess]

I wasnt rude to you don't be a dikk to me. I didnt even see @DrX post and was pretty confused about why you tagged me but thought i'd reply to the thread anyway.

 

[Beerus]

All those times i thought I foud my "topanga" all those times what a fukking fool I was.
Corey and Topanga are not real

 

[thatdude954]

@Emperor_ReinScarf Exactly. They fall in love with everyone after a month. When a man tells a woman he loves her, it really is a big thing (outside of dudes lying to cut).

 

[Malta]

All of them are witches

except my Grammy. She's an angel

I heard your grandmother thinks Timothy Theodore Duncan is a fine and upstanding gentleman that's also the best player of his generation

 

[Youseenmywork]

This is actually how I've been feeling about shyt lately. A mutual agreement to safely continue a bloodline. It's crazy.



This one sounds like women gonna cheat and men gotta take it...is that the gist or...?

NO but here the articlue so this may help you put everthing in proper context

Women in Love

 

[#SOG_soldier]

People believe what they want. It's not a gender thing. It's a generational thing. Disney, romance and chick flicks have people confusing infatuation with love. Simply put infatuation is about what you can get from a person, love is about what you give to a person. Love the love who loves you. Reciprocity is to be cherished. If I love you, I want to see you happy.

i agree these kids look for impossible standars people need to learn to settle for what they can get and shut the hell up. Being an adult is all about settling for what you can get :stupidmofo:

 

[MikelArteta]

For the most part when a man tells you he loves you take it with a grain of salt, it's easy to love when everything is going right, you have your looks, know how to cook and give him great sex. You can test anyone until circumstances are not in you favor.

The same man that loves you do and feels such warmth for you can be as cold as ice in the morning

women end the majority of relationships and usually emotionally withdrawal before dropping dem thangs.

a woman can date a man for a week or even less and not even know him but because of the endorphins.

typical of female posters to never admit their flaws, aint you in a relationship where you "love" your man, but you admitted you have issues flirting with other men, even pming male posters on here


my point exactly

 

[KravenMorehead™]

fukk this

chill lil homie

repped tho

 

[QuavoFlow]

most women r sociopaths....never trust them.....theyre bandwagon fans...they just roll with the winners.....they dont stay on a sinking ship...


my advice is to always have manipulate your women into needing u....the moment she figure out she have leverage shell destroy u

too much work breh
i say just build short term stables, rinse and repeat,

i wasn't always like this

 

[Malta]

Truthfully I don't believe in unconditional love outside of family structures, your parents / siblings / grandparents can and will love you unconditionally and vice versa, but relationships in this day and age are always built on certain conditions. That applies to men and women alike, whether it's the condition that she's pretty, or that he's handsome etc. there was 1 thing that led you to talk to that person, and if that condition (likely superficial) wasn't met you wouldn't give them the time of day.



I will say that Women do fall in love more often than men, without question. bytches fall in and out of love with the seasons, shyt is incredible how many dudes are the "loves of their lives"