Women initially more hurt by breakups, but recover better: study

[Chelsea Bridge]

I asked if he was your friend and you answered like that was the situation...then you say you're not friends and that's what you'd be okay with. Which one is it? Can't be both.

We're not friends.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

The logic people use is truly mind blowing at times. They don't have no kids or anything together but still need to be friends? Some people might just be lonely and take any "friend" they can get/keep. If I see somebody I used to date I'm cool towards them but "friends" nah son shyt doesn't make sense IMO.

We're not friends.

 

[philmonroe]

We're not friends.

Maybe you should be more clear (no offense either) then cause if your doing what I said in the post you quoted that's nothing a lot of people do that. It sounded like you were still buddy buddy type friends in your other post.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Nah women change like the wind.

I'd have more respect for a woman to just dump a man when she knows it ain't going to work to be honest. But mah you'll string a dude along for weeks months until your emotions are nullified and you drop them thangs.

Like I said I know the games women run I'm a step ahead

How long do you think I felt that way before our relationship ended?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Maybe you should be more clear (no offense either) then cause if your doing what I said in the post you quoted that's nothing a lot of people do that. It sounded like you were still buddy buddy type friends in your other post.

Definitely not buddy buddy type. I should have clarified that. We talk but it's definitely not on a friendship level.

 

[MikelArteta]

Probably months in advance
Maybe even communicated it to him and he said he'd change but you already made up your mind, but due to selfishness you dragged it out till all romantic feelings were eradicated.

You still loved him but not in love with him

How long do you think I felt that way before our relationship ended?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Probably months in advance
Maybe even communicated it to him and he said he'd change but you already made up your mind, but due to selfishness you dragged it out till all romantic feelings were eradicated.

You still loved him but not in love with him

Lol It wasn't months more like a few weeks but what can I say? I don't like to hurt people I love.

Plus, I'm a pushover so doing what people want me to do is kind of my thing, lol.

 

[philmonroe]

Lol It wasn't months more like a few weeks but what can I say? I don't like to hurt people I love.

Plus, I'm a pushover so doing what people want me to do is kind of my thing, lol.

Why are you scarred to put yourself first? That's a wack way to live my friend. Better switch that up pronto.

 

[KingFreeman]

This is why I'm like at cats that try to get with chubby females with decent faces and try to workout with em' to get the weight down. I always wonder what happens when those women go from fat and ignored to slimmer and dikk-magnet

Forget the dimes, them be the hoes that will cheat out of a 10-year marriage

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

You guys never think about what you do to cause such a change. Like we're supposed to put up with all your bullshyt without it ever affecting how we feel about you. YOU know when you're fukking up but want to act all surprised when your actions have consequences. My ex knew when I got to the point of being fed up but he wanted to keep trying.

If ya didn't play games

Guys wouldn't do what they do

Dont hate the player

Hate the game

 

[xoxodede]

1st Post on the Coli - but I think men are way better at getting over breakups due to them usually immediately finding another woman (hitting up a ex or "friend") to help them get over it faster. All the men I know (including my ex) was on Match.com, some other dating site or clubbing looking for some new chick to get under while I was at home listening to self-help books and meditating.

 

[Fatboi1]

1st Post on the Coli - but I think men are way better at getting over breakups due to them usually immediately finding another woman (hitting up a ex or "friend") to help them get over it faster. All the men I know (including my ex) was on Match.com, some other dating site or clubbing looking for some new chick to get under while I was at home listening to self-help books and meditating.

You're the exception. Most chicks I've seen bounce back easy. They usually got cock lined up.

 

[xoxodede]

You're the exception. Most chicks I've seen bounce back easy. They usually got cock lined up.

Yeah it was options, but I was really hurt. And "cock" and talking to a new dude isn't the answer when you trying to heal and get over someone that you really cared about. Most people, men or women don't take the time to just chill out and be themselves for awhile. When a person does that it seems like don't know how to be alone or rushing the process.

 

[ellessij]

Yeah it was options, but I was really hurt. And "cock" and talking to a new dude isn't the answer when you trying to heal and get over someone that you really cared about. Most people, men or women don't take the time to just chill out and be themselves for awhile. When a person does that it seems like don't know how to be alone or rushing the process.

It's ironic though how most people think to heal your heart you have to go through your genitals.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

This begs the question... What's the point in a monogamous relationship If I gotta do all that??

This. Any relationship entails risk. If you can't deal with that then stay single.