Women initially more hurt by breakups, but recover better: study

[philmonroe]

Trying to tell me something about that life you craving breh

 

[CinnaSlim]

Because you're stupid and illogical. You bring nothing to the table, but a p*ssy and a mouth. Yet we gotta be everything under the sun and exciting. If it wasn't for men you c*nts would be dead in the wild.

Wow. You sound upset. Who hurt you?

 

[philmonroe]

It's called insurance. Just because you're "in a monogamous relationship" with a female doesn't mean it will last forever or that it will ultimately be a successful one. So there's nothing wrong with having platonic, friendly casual relationships with women or randomly keeping in touch with prior, past sexual hook-ups in such a way that doesn't break the boundaries, jeopardize or betray the trust of a dedicated, committed union.

shyt I don't need insurance and neither does anybody else. You scarred get a dog. If you the dude you think you are you can get a new girl like that don't need to be hanging on to old,chicks because of,that.

 

[RhymesWell]

a woman talks to the wolfpack, her mom, reads blogs and while shes kissing you, sucking your dikk, telling you how much she loves you she is slowly killing her emotions for you, until she finally reaches a place where she is ready to go and then she drops them thangs.

It's like when you have a job how you still go to work every day smile and do your work, but behind the scenes your applying for other jobs but you keep that smile on your face, yeah ill be helping out with that project in two months, yeah ill be on the fall volleyball team even though your waiting on that job offer. Once you get that job offer boom

It's why if you cheat on a woman and she dumps you out of anger she will prob come back and give you another chance, because she hasn't had the chance to neuter her emotions and emotionally detach.

It's why guys cant fathom how there with a girl for 2 years talking texting every day hanging out all the time and they had sex on friday and she said she loves him, but saturday morning shes ice cold and the love is gone and she doesnt even text or call and she moves on with her life and never looks back

Truly demonic beings

 

[HopeKillCure]

Last breakup I had no one to talk to.. no one to hold me

I just slept all the time.. People kept asking me why was I sleeping so much... I told them I was tired

I just wanted to sleep... it hurt to be awake

They are cold blooded. They are supposed to be yours forever, then 1 day they wake up and know they can do better.

They remember that last fight, the daily arguments, all the tears shed, and when they stop crying for you, only hate is left... Then some other dude comes and gives her hope, she starts realizing it's "fuk that nikka he dont respect deep down" and her friends were all right.

You pour your heart out, "dont go, I really do love you, im gonna change, I cant lose you." But by then they only answer to talk shyte to you and talk about the new man.

The shame..

 

[O.G.B]

Boundaries in a relationship like that sounds flimsy to be honest.

Well this really depends on the boundaries within the relationship itself. Some women or men don't care about their significant other having casual friendships with the opposite sex, while others may find this type of behavior totally unacceptable. Furthermore, one way or the other, either of these two scenarios above doesn't automatically mean that someone will cheat or that the person won't be completely faithful. Again, there are so many guidelines or variables between two parties that are involved exclusively which could work great for one particular couple while being a complete disaster for another.

I wouldn't be thrilled if my chick has male friends that she's hanging out with or talking to in private.

Personally, I wouldn't either, but that's basically the problem with boundaries altogether because at the end of the day there aren't any guarantees that your girlfriend or wife is living by the same standards that she or you both agreed to abide by, even if you're living up to your end of the bargain & actually doing the right things. This is one of the pitfalls of being in a serious relationship or marriage, because in essence you're putting your complete faith or a large amount of trust into someone which could at anytime blow up in your face & possibly ruin or demolish many aspects of your life.

Now it'd seem like a double standard if I said it's all cool for me to do it though.

I'm of the opinion that certain things people don't know, won't hurt them. If I were in a dedicated relationship, I wouldn't have a problem talking to other women as strictly friends as long as it wasn't a regular, everyday occurrence because:

1. I really don't know what my LTR girlfriend or wife is actually doing & if she's actually faithful or "Livin La Vida Loca" behind my back.
2. Insurance just in case something between me and my woman goes wrong, or we both just decide to call it quits & go our own separate way.
3. I'm not actually cheating or discussing anything sexual, nor am I building a emotional bond with these women, I am just communicating with them in a amicable, cordial manner to build friendly rapport. Nothing more, nothing less.

Seems like not being in tthat relationship in the first place is better OR you establish rules first and foremost

I concur!

 

[MikelArteta]

They are cold blooded. They are supposed to be yours forever, then 1 day they wake up and know they can do better.

They remember that last fight, the daily arguments, all the tears shed, and when they stop crying for you, only hate is left... Then some other dude comes and gives her hope, she starts realizing it's "fuk that nikka he dont respect deep down" and her friends were all right.

You pour your heart out, "dont go, I really do love you, im gonna change, I cant lose you." But by then they only answer to talk shyte to you and talk about the new man.

The shame..

if a woman is leaving open the door for her.

not since the first time i was dumped have i ever "poured my heart out" at the ending

its like a job and there firing you, no amount of pleading begging, all those years and things i did means nothing your gone

What I realized in life when a woman about to curb you its like what a job does, when a job is going to fire you they discuss it the manager your supervisor, they slowly start removing tasks from you, you think somethign is probably up but your reassured everything is ok, then you get called into the office and blam. Nothing you can do or say its over, are you going to beg and plead or just walk out that building

just like with chicks they've discussed it already came to a conclusion, if you watch carefully you can see little thigns changing and yeah if you ask if everything is allright you'll get a kiss and reassurance I love you, but then BAM. its over and ntoing you can do or say, you can plead or you can just walk away with your head held high

 

[KingFreeman]

When I was younger I used to try and 'save' relationships and get all sad when splits would come. Then, after I put myself on game after finally figuring shyt out, I'm just like when it happens. Was in a relationship with a woman I thought was nearly prime wifey material, and her body wasn't even close to being on point so you know the boy was feelin' Didn't work out, and so I just deuced up out that bytch with nary a single glance back

 

[Elle]

Some of you were denied oxygen as children.

 

[O.G.B]

shyt I don't need insurance and neither does anybody else. You scarred get a dog. If you the dude you think you are you can get a new girl like that don't need to be hanging on to old,chicks because of,that.

Take that simp cape off & choke yourself. Having extra assurances or safeguards in life isn't a sign of fear, it's a sign of true savvy & being able to understand how to foresee & take advantage of potential drawbacks which happen in the real world.

 

[HopeKillCure]

if a woman is leaving open the door for her.

not since the first time i was dumped have i ever "poured my heart out" at the ending

its like a job and there firing you, no amount of pleading begging, all those years and things i did means nothing your gone

What I realized in life when a woman about to curb you its like what a job does, when a job is going to fire you they discuss it the manager your supervisor, they slowly start removing tasks from you, you think somethign is probably up but your reassured everything is ok, then you get called into the office and blam. Nothing you can do or say its over, are you going to beg and plead or just walk out that building

just like with chicks they've discussed it already came to a conclusion, if you watch carefully you can see little thigns changing and yeah if you ask if everything is allright you'll get a kiss and reassurance I love you, but then BAM. its over and ntoing you can do or say, you can plead or you can just walk away with your head held high

That shyte is always professional as fukk. You right, when they plan to take you back it's in their voice. When they ready to curb your ass for good, they turn into hiring managers. No mention of what you did together means shyte to them. When she run out of tears, and her friends or a new dude manages to give her hope and open her eyes...It's a wrap. I always pour my heart out tho, i feel like that girl is mine forever, and im her's, no matter what, but she hear those emotions and those good memories you bring up and she turn.

 

[philmonroe]

Take that simp cape off & choke yourself. Having extra assurances or safeguards in life isn't a sign of fear, it's a sign of true savvy & being able to understand how to foresee & take advantage of potential drawbacks which happen in the real world.

Oh no not the I can't read so I'm going to throw an insult post. FOH you scarred ass p*ssy. Its always a sign of fear coward and nobody simping fakkit by saying you don't need to do that. Stupid ass waste of lives I tell ya

 

[MikelArteta]

That shyte is always professional as fukk. You right, when they plan to take you back it's in their voice. When they ready to curb your ass for good, they turn into hiring managers. No mention of what you did together means shyte to them. When she run out of tears, and her friends or a new dude manages to give her hope and open her eyes...It's a wrap. I always pour my heart out tho, i feel like that girl is mine forever, and im her's, no matter what, but she hear those emotions and those good memories you bring up and she turn.

yeah not saying i'm emotionless but once a woman has gone cold its like trying to raise someone from the dead, or start a fire in a thunderstorm.

chicks odnt even care when its done and over, what you did and all that means nothing. I remember at my old job how a dude was there for 25 years and just got escorted out when they let him go, its like these brehettes out there, they dont give a damn.

You there uttering But but I gave you my kidney, and saved you from that burning building, and visited you every day when you were in a coma for two years

and just get a your such a nice sweet guy, thats why this is so hard but you'll find someone great

 

[SpringWater]

;dead: I always think you guys' "if you're single at 30 you'll be single forever" thing is hilarious. As if every single man on from 18-60 are only dating women 18-29 year olds. but i guess it makes you guys feel better. so carry on.

THANK YOU. Such bullshyt. White women are ruthless to find a husband and they always do and Black women in their 30's still holding like they in their 20's so there's really no "past her prime" issue either way.

 

[SpringWater]

As head of "Hurt Brothas of America" I second this message. At my worst, no one wanted to hear me, and whileI didn't wanna whine to anyone, i couldnt make sense of how dirty i was done. I had no support, just guys telling me to "get some p*ssy" when what i really wanted was for someone to sit there sharing and listening to tales about women.

Only logical choice was to swallow the anguish and share it with as many women as i could for as long as i could.

this is good. More honestly needed from men. Men have feelings too. Damn, why does it have to be such a secret? I'm not mad at it.