Women initially more hurt by breakups, but recover better: study

[HopeKillCure]

yeah not saying i'm emotionless but once a woman has gone cold its like trying to raise someone from the dead, or start a fire in a thunderstorm.

chicks odnt even care when its done and over, what you did and all that means nothing. I remember at my old job how a dude was there for 25 years and just got escorted out when they let him go, its like these brehettes out there, they dont give a damn.

You there uttering But but I gave you my kidney, and saved you from that burning building, and visited you every day when you were in a coma for two years

and just get a your such a nice sweet guy, thats why this is so hard but you'll find someone great

100% real talk.

I never get well wishes ever. I get, " I dont care anymore what happens to you" or " I hope you learn how to treat the next person" or the crippling, "never call me or message me again" real heartless shyte when they run out of tears. So damn demonic, hard to believe that this is the person telling you how much they love you just months or days ago...

 

[Couth]

That's cuz you handled your break up like a girl. Didn't you cry to her and beg get to change her mind? And a week later you ok

Good job

 

[SpringWater]

yeah not saying i'm emotionless but once a woman has gone cold its like trying to raise someone from the dead, or start a fire in a thunderstorm.

chicks odnt even care when its done and over, what you did and all that means nothing. I remember at my old job how a dude was there for 25 years and just got escorted out when they let him go, its like these brehettes out there, they dont give a damn.

You there uttering But but I gave you my kidney, and saved you from that burning building, and visited you every day when you were in a coma for two years

and just get a your such a nice sweet guy, thats why this is so hard but you'll find someone great

Too late to talk about it. When a Woman's Fed Up....it ain't nothin' you can do about it, breh.

 

[MikelArteta]

100% real talk.

I never get well wishes ever. I get, " I dont care anymore what happens to you" or " I hope you learn how to treat the next person" or the crippling, "never call me or message me again" real heartless shyte when they run out of tears. So damn demonic, hard to believe that this is the person telling you how much they love you just months or days ago...

hell my last ex i saved from being homeless, got her a job when she was unemployed, but at the end didnt even get a thanks

 

[O.G.B]

What I realized in life when a woman about to curb you its like what a job does, when a job is going to fire you they discuss it the manager your supervisor, they slowly start removing tasks from you, you think somethign is probably up but your reassured everything is ok, then you get called into the office and blam. Nothing you can do or say its over, are you going to beg and plead or just walk out that building

just like with chicks they've discussed it already came to a conclusion, if you watch carefully you can see little thigns changing and yeah if you ask if everything is allright you'll get a kiss and reassurance I love you, but then BAM. its over and ntoing you can do or say, you can plead or you can just walk away with your head held high

This is why guys need to pay attention to a womans real actions or behaviors & quit being overly emotional, thinking that things will change for the better or that the relationship will go back to normal again. Most men see their situation going down hill & have a premonition that something isn't right, but due to their feelings & investment in the female, do absolutely nothing about it

When you start seeing it play out like you've described here above so accurately, it's always best to take the upper hand (if you can), cut your losses & dump your chick first, before she actually get rid of you. Even though she no longer wants to be with you, this ploy not only helps you fortify your self-esteem, but you've actually now turned the tables on her game & mentally fukked her up while adding to her laundry list of insecurities/doubts because she didn't see it coming, Men have to learn to always have physiological warfare tactics on hand with females, because one day she could be your No.1 down ass chick, the next day your ardent enemy.

 

[HopeKillCure]

hell my last ex i saved from being homeless, got her a job when she was unemployed, but at the end didnt even get a thanks

Helped get 1 ex her first job after school; got another her first tattoo, as well as took care of her for months; another ex made me the only person she ever confessed to that she was raped as a child, she also took me to a place she swore she would only go to with "the one".... Later they are each telling me that they feel nothing anymore and we should not even be friends. heartless

 

[O.G.B]

Oh no not the I can't read so I'm going to throw an insult post. FOH you scarred ass p*ssy. Its always a sign of fear coward and nobody simping fakkit by saying you don't need to do that. Stupid ass waste of lives I tell ya

It's always some lame, fatherless, simple minded Mangina like you trying to feign outrage & be a Captain Save Em for women. Who are you to determine what's right or wrong for a particular man? Plus, no one asked your opinion anyhow goofy fukkboy, so I don't give a damn what you think is necessary!

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah man,

Build em up water the seeds watch as it grows then some another nikka reaps the harvest

Nah not anymore

Inserts cuba gooding Jr shadow boxing gif


as the years go by I just realized it doesnt mater what you do for a woman, whether you throw her down the stairs or whether you take a bullet for her. If she wants to be with you she will if she doesn't she won't, and if she leaves it doesn't matter what you did whether you treated her like garbage or whether you treated her like a queen

Helped get 1 ex her first job after school, got another her first tattoo as well as took care of her for months, another ex made the only person she confessed to that she was raped as a child, she also took me to a place she swore she would only go to with "the one".... Later they are each telling me that they feel nothing anymore and we should not even be friends. heartless

 

[aXiom]

Some of you were denied oxygen as children.

And some of you should be denied oxygen as adults

 

[MikelArteta]

This is why guys need to pay attention to a womans real actions or behaviors & quit being overly emotional, thinking that things will change for the better or that the relationship will go back to normal again. Most men see their situation going down hill & have a premonition that something isn't right, but due to their feelings & investment in the female, do absolutely nothing about it

When you start seeing it play out like you've described here above so accurately, it's always best to take the upper hand (if you can), cut your losses & dump your chick first, before she actually get rid of you. Even though she no longer wants to be with you, this ploy not only helps you fortify your self-esteem, but you've actually now turned the tables on her game & mentally fukked her up while adding to her laundry list of insecurities/doubts because she didn't see it coming, Men have to learn to always have physiological warfare tactics on hand with females, because one day she could be your No.1 down ass chick, the next day your ardent enemy.

Every day a man is going to work in the morning getting a kiss from his wife and then coming home to a empty house and a note on the fridge door.

ive mentioned before this story when I was dating this chick and she always had our picture we took together by her bedside, one day im at her place and the picture aint there , I knew somethign in my gut was up mentioned it got reassured, just was cleaning bla bla.

next two weeks i got dem deavours

 

[SpringWater]

This is why guys need to pay attention to a womans real actions or behaviors & quit being overly emotional, thinking that things will change for the better or that the relationship will go back to normal again. Most men see their situation going down hill & have a premonition that something isn't right, but due to their feelings & investment in the female, do absolutely nothing about it

When you start seeing it play out like you've described here above so accurately, it's always best to take the upper hand (if you can), cut your losses & dump your chick first, before she actually get rid of you. Even though she no longer wants to be with you, this ploy not only helps you fortify your self-esteem, but you've actually now turned the tables on her game & mentally fukked her up while adding to her laundry list of insecurities/doubts because she didn't see it coming, Men have to learn to always have physiological warfare tactics on hand with females, because one day she could be your No.1 down ass chick, the next day your ardent enemy.

unfortunately, this is true. I had a breh dump me after I had tried to break up with him two weeks earlier. When I tried to break up with him he said, "no, we are not breaking up we can't do that, I'll do better, what do i need to do, blah blah blah"... I stays with the nagga, and two weeks later he is AWOL in person, on text and on phone. Finally he just says I've sabotaged the relationship by being emotionally unavailable (I'm a woman yo!) and it's all good. But we were done. He effectively preempted his heartbreak by reading the writing on the wall (I was sick of him) and turning the tables so he was the dumper rather than the dumpee!



This did two things: 1) confused the hell out of me. When he stood and fought for our relationship when i tried to break up with him, I renewed my concept of him and us and thought I'd better reevaluate how I had been thinking. Very Effective.

2) Made me seek and search for the next several months wondering whether what he said was true and what work I needed to do on myself. Again, VERY EFFECTIVE!



In the end, after time and circumstance manifested, I realized what he had done...avoided being dumped and took the lead. And, also, my concerns about our relationship were valid as HAYLE.

But he had me screwed up for a min with that switch thing. the purpose of this post is NOT to bring dirty, scathing negros up upon GAME but to admit that we are all entangled together in this dance and it bounces from one to the other for sure.

 

[O.G.B]

unfortunately, this is true. I had a breh dump me after I had tried to break up with him two weeks earlier. When I tried to break up with him he said, "no, we are not breaking up we can't do that, I'll do better, what do i need to do, blah blah blah"... I stays with the nagga, and two weeks later he is AWOL in person, on text and on phone. Finally he just says I've sabotaged the relationship by being emotionally unavailable (I'm a woman yo!) and it's all good. But we were done. He effectively preempted his heartbreak by reading the writing on the wall (I was sick of him) and turning the tables so he was the dumper rather than the dumpee!



This did two things: 1) confused the hell out of me. When he stood and fought for our relationship when i tried to break up with him, I renewed my concept of him and us and thought I'd better reevaluate how I had been thinking. Very Effective.

2) Made me seek and search for the next several months wondering whether what he said was true and what work I needed to do on myself. Again, VERY EFFECTIVE!



In the end, after time and circumstance manifested, I realized what he had done...avoided being dumped and took the lead. And, also, my concerns about our relationship were valid as HAYLE.

But he had me screwed up for a min with that switch thing. the purpose of this post is NOT to bring dirty, scathing negros up upon GAME but to admit that we are all entangled together in this dance and it bounces from one to the other for sure.

 

[philmonroe]

It's always some lame, fatherless, simple minded Mangina like you trying to feign outrage & be a Captain Save Em for women. Who are you to determine what's right or wrong for a particular man? Plus, no one asked your opinion anyhow goofy fukkboy, so I don't give a damn what you think is necessary!

Trying to get me outraged troll harder loser? Won't work fakkit take that bad trolling elsewhere loser coward nikka. Ole I'm scarred nikka

 

[O.G.B]

Trying to get me outraged troll harder loser? Won't work fakkit take that bad trolling elsewhere loser coward nikka. Ole I'm scarred nikka

Take your 5th grade, creative writing, remedial ass somewhere clown!

 

[philmonroe]

Take your 5th grade, creative writing, remedial ass somewhere clown!

Try harder fukk boy. Your failure family hasn't taught you better yet?