Women: Making a man wait for sex usually works against you.
- Thread starter Stuntone
- Start date
Petty Crocker
Looking GREAT in my 30s
I just think there needs to be an understanding before we reach that point..because women catch feelings, as Im sure you know..." are we fwb or is this headed somewhere?" That usually determines whether Im still down...sometimes Im down for a tuneup, other times Im needing something more..just be clear either way...we all grown.
Its usually opposite for me. I have signs I can hit but don't act on them, even direct fukktual consent.
It usually frustrates the chick to some extent and makes them question themselves due to most thirst buckets attempting to jump right into it or chasing them. I don't do it purposely to frustrate them. I just dont tend to jump into p*ssy without feeling out the girl a bit and seeing what her intentions are.
It usually frustrates the chick to some extent and makes them question themselves due to most thirst buckets attempting to jump right into it or chasing them. I don't do it purposely to frustrate them. I just dont tend to jump into p*ssy without feeling out the girl a bit and seeing what her intentions are.
Khalil's_Black_Excellence
The King of Fighters
I can respect the female's decision to having sex whenever she's ready. I think it's silly though to put some sort of definitive time frame status on it though, unless it's like waiting until marriage or something, which while is still rather impractical on one hand, I can understand the reasons behind it on the other.
ExpensiveThrillz
Head In The Cloudz
mad for why? lol is this your response to anything women post thats more than 1 word or 1 sentence?
The thing is, most men don't know exactly how they feel until after sex. Women want commitment before sex.
And a guy could really be feeling you and want to be with you, but the strings women attempt to attach to sex can be a major turn-off to a lot of guys.
Once again, I'm not saying that anyone is right or wrong, it's just how it is
Kenny West
Veteran
Alright look.
Females shouldn't give it up the first night because we'll file you as a hoe. Simple as that.
That said a lot of that "making you wait" bullshyt is....bullshyt. The OP is spot on. It makes the relationship about sex. Steve Harvey and other bytches don't understand this.
If the man going for the woman has any type of worth (i.e. has options) and is willing to wait HE CAN STILL SWITCH UP AFTER YOU fukk DUMBASSES. There are 4 types that wait.
1. The lame. He's well adjusted to life in the desert. What's another 90 days? He'll wait on you. But ironically these simps aint the type you choosing on in the first place. His place on the list is damn near fallacy.
2. The Playa. Most real nikkas fall in this catagory. Simply put, he'll stick it out only because he's gettin p*ssy somewhere else. Chicks underestimate how easy puttin in work is in this generation. I've sent text while getting head. I've sent texts while takin shyts. I've texted chicks while driving to another chick's place to fukk.
3. The Egoist. Regardless if his initial intention was a relationship or a smash and dash one day a horrible epihpany hits this nikka. He realized he dumped cash or a large amount of time on a woman and has absoultely nothing to show for it. You've hurt his ego. Now he will go through the motions with fueled with bitterness and the motivation of the fukkin Terminator just so he can smash and validate his spending and break your heart in the worst way. And it's your own fukkin fault for playing games.
And last but not least
4. The innocent brainwash victim. Females don't understand this, and probably neither do you nutless simps, but real nikkas know; your dikk has a mind of it's very own. And that muthafukka is POWERFUL like Professor Xavier. He may honestly think he likes you. And he sticks it out because he may think you're worth it. All of a sudden though once he busts a nut and Professor X is satisfied, it's over. He starts noticing your annoying ass laugh. He starts not being able to stand your conversations. You don't look as good as you did when you left him stranded in his own horny thoughts for 90 days. The shyttiness of your personality is no longer masked by the allure of new p*ssy so eventually you get dumped.
Honestly the best solution? Give up the p*ssy.
Not on the first night, but don't hang it over his head like a donkey with a carrot either. It makes the lame feel himself enough that he'll probably get whipped, the playa will leave, the egoist will never get hurt and the brainwash victim will be lifted and think with the head on his shoulders. Every girlfriend I've ever had I had sex with prior to dating.
Every chick who tried this garbage I've dipped out on. There will be chicks out there who aren't playing games. Chances are, if your personality ( or p*ssy for that matter) was worth a shyt, nikkas wouldn't dip out on you in the first place.
Females shouldn't give it up the first night because we'll file you as a hoe. Simple as that.
That said a lot of that "making you wait" bullshyt is....bullshyt. The OP is spot on. It makes the relationship about sex. Steve Harvey and other bytches don't understand this.
If the man going for the woman has any type of worth (i.e. has options) and is willing to wait HE CAN STILL SWITCH UP AFTER YOU fukk DUMBASSES. There are 4 types that wait.
1. The lame. He's well adjusted to life in the desert. What's another 90 days? He'll wait on you. But ironically these simps aint the type you choosing on in the first place. His place on the list is damn near fallacy.
2. The Playa. Most real nikkas fall in this catagory. Simply put, he'll stick it out only because he's gettin p*ssy somewhere else. Chicks underestimate how easy puttin in work is in this generation. I've sent text while getting head. I've sent texts while takin shyts. I've texted chicks while driving to another chick's place to fukk.
3. The Egoist. Regardless if his initial intention was a relationship or a smash and dash one day a horrible epihpany hits this nikka. He realized he dumped cash or a large amount of time on a woman and has absoultely nothing to show for it. You've hurt his ego. Now he will go through the motions with fueled with bitterness and the motivation of the fukkin Terminator just so he can smash and validate his spending and break your heart in the worst way. And it's your own fukkin fault for playing games.
And last but not least
4. The innocent brainwash victim. Females don't understand this, and probably neither do you nutless simps, but real nikkas know; your dikk has a mind of it's very own. And that muthafukka is POWERFUL like Professor Xavier. He may honestly think he likes you. And he sticks it out because he may think you're worth it. All of a sudden though once he busts a nut and Professor X is satisfied, it's over. He starts noticing your annoying ass laugh. He starts not being able to stand your conversations. You don't look as good as you did when you left him stranded in his own horny thoughts for 90 days. The shyttiness of your personality is no longer masked by the allure of new p*ssy so eventually you get dumped.
Honestly the best solution? Give up the p*ssy.
Not on the first night, but don't hang it over his head like a donkey with a carrot either. It makes the lame feel himself enough that he'll probably get whipped, the playa will leave, the egoist will never get hurt and the brainwash victim will be lifted and think with the head on his shoulders. Every girlfriend I've ever had I had sex with prior to dating.Every chick who tried this garbage I've dipped out on. There will be chicks out there who aren't playing games. Chances are, if your personality ( or p*ssy for that matter) was worth a shyt, nikkas wouldn't dip out on you in the first place.
My neck and my back
All Star
the time a woman makes a man wait to have sex doesn't determine if she's "wifey material". you can be dealing with a reformed hoe who's trying to overcompensate for her whorish past by making men wait.
This thread made me think of that episode of The Game where Melanie was whorin it up with the doctor and playin board games with Derwin, and refusing his sexual advances.
Derwin took a huge L. Doctor got the
@ her
Derwin took a huge L. Doctor got the
@ herPetty Crocker
Looking GREAT in my 30s
The thing is, most men don't know exactly how they feel until after sex. Women want commitment before sex.
And a guy could really be feeling you and want to be with you, but the strings women attempt to attach to sex can be a major turn-off to a lot of guys.
Once again, I'm not saying that anyone is right or wrong, it's just how it is
If the sex is good and she wants to be in a relationship and you dont, would that change your mind?
I agree that it could possibly be a major turnoff. Thats why I try to be upfront with whatever role I feel like taking..If I just want some "D" I say, "hey boo, umm Im not looking for anything serious right now"
or "hey boo, Im looking for something long term and Im not having sex until Im in a committed relationship".. So that way no feelings are hurt, no roles are misinterpreted..My motto has always been "know your role"
DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
Well, if the guy is actually looking for a relationship and the woman is well, holding out on the puss doesn't work against the purpose she has. I doubt not having sex will stop you from considering someone who still exhibits the qualities you look for.
it's not about the time, it's about chemistry.
if you're using your p*ssy as currency to be traded for something else (money, attention, relationship, etc) you could give it up in the first hour of meeting or you could give it up after 2 years, you're still a whore. just know that if you made someone wait two years and tried to play games, that person will be that much more resentful and bitter.
the bottom line is: don't play games with the puss. women are often tempted to use the power of puss to manipulate men. uncle Ben said that with great power comes great responsibility. you might play some chumps and lames but trust it's a game you really can't win in the long run. so instead, my advice is to fukk only when you feel comfortable and are not expecting anything else but pleasure. it's not about if you fukk or not. it's about why you're fukking. most guys can tell the intent.
if you're using your p*ssy as currency to be traded for something else (money, attention, relationship, etc) you could give it up in the first hour of meeting or you could give it up after 2 years, you're still a whore. just know that if you made someone wait two years and tried to play games, that person will be that much more resentful and bitter.
the bottom line is: don't play games with the puss. women are often tempted to use the power of puss to manipulate men. uncle Ben said that with great power comes great responsibility. you might play some chumps and lames but trust it's a game you really can't win in the long run. so instead, my advice is to fukk only when you feel comfortable and are not expecting anything else but pleasure. it's not about if you fukk or not. it's about why you're fukking. most guys can tell the intent.