Women: Making a man wait for sex usually works against you.

[Turbulent]

Well, if the guy is actually looking for a relationship and the woman is well, holding out on the puss doesn't work against the purpose she has. I doubt not having sex will stop you from considering someone who still exhibits the qualities you look for.

naw, i think a lot of times it's like the thread started said.

even if at first you were looking for a relationship, if you feel like the girl is trying to use the puss for emotional blackmail (to get a relationship) or you feel like she's not the type of girl who usually makes people wait but for some reason she's making you wait, just the fact that you're thinking that (right or wrong) now you feel like she's playing you for a sucker. and since you feel like she's playing you, you're gonna want to win the game. and to win the game, now it becomes about sex. eventhough that wasn't your original intention. both genders need to just learn to keep it real. (this will never happen)

 

[DaChampIsHere]

naw, i think a lot of times it's like the thread started said.
even if at first you were looking for a relationship, if you feel like the girl is trying to use the puss for emotional blackmail (to get a relationship) or you feel like she's not the type of girl who usually makes people wait but for some reason she's making you wait, just the fact that you're thinking that (right or wrong) now you feel like she's playing you for a sucker. and since you feel like she's playing you, you're gonna want to win the game. and to win the game, now it becomes about sex. eventhough that wasn't your original intention. both genders need to just learn to keep it real. (this will never happen)

If she's using it for that and youre not cool with it then she's obviously not the one for you. Just, Keep it moving. No biggie.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

The thing is, most men don't know exactly how they feel until after sex. Women want commitment before sex.

And a guy could really be feeling you and want to be with you, but the strings women attempt to attach to sex can be a major turn-off to a lot of guys.

Once again, I'm not saying that anyone is right or wrong, it's just how it is

i think if most guys stopped thinking so much with their dikks, they'd probably be able to know before the sex. knowing how you might feel about a woman really comes from knowing a lot about yourself, how you operate and knowing what really appeals to you and why. sometimes that's why it is a good thing to not have sex too quickly...

 

[Kenny West]

i think if most guys stopped thinking so much with their dikks, they'd probably be able to know before the sex. knowing how you might feel about a woman really comes from knowing a lot about yourself, how you operate and knowing what really appeals to you and why. sometimes that's why it is a good thing to not have sex too quickly...

nikkas aint gonna stop thinking with their dikk though. 9/10 thinking with is what got you to her in the first place.

Think about it.

You saw a nice chick at the supermarket: Your head goes "Approach her?! It's too awkward. What if she says no and all these people hear?". But the dikk says "fukk all that noise she got a fat ass we goin in!"

You see a dime in the club Your head goes "No way she'll go for me! I just watched her turn down 6 nikkas!" But your dikk went "Dem titties "

Even them ugly bytches Havoc be posting, your head be screaming "ewwww" but dikk goes "She's got a p*ssy dawg...work with me here "

Once the "relationship" is about sex, AND she new p*ssy, AND you not fukkin on the side, there aint no way you not thinking with ya dikk.

 

[Ninjaz In Paris]

It's crazy that dudes used to wait months for the p*ssy & now a week is considered too long, lol...

In the future it'll be a matter of hours... oh wait...

 

[thoushallhustle]

I have had sex on the first date several times. Sometimes it ends well sometimes it doesnt. I need to know if you have a little dikk or buss quick before i get attatched

 

[twan83]

I have had sex on the first date several times. Sometimes it ends well sometimes it doesnt. I need to know if you have a little dikk or buss quick before i get attatched

Sex on first date just happens if the chemistry is right and you both feeling each enough to do it. Now whether or not its gonna lead to something else is not my top priority i look at is this. We both wanted it and got it. Let's focus on date 2. Just cuz we did it don't mean im your MAN.

Now as far as waiting for sex. Im one of them dudes not going in thinking hey i need to smash that. If it happens it happens whenever that maybe im on date with you cuz Im curious enough to want to get to know you as a person not to get in your draws. When you focusing on getting sex it drags out ant then when u get it you tend to wanna bounce on to the next one. So what's the point on thinking if you can get it or not. Instead enjoy their company and things will go from there on there own

 

[Ninjaz In Paris]

I'll make a female wait... nikkaz should try it... intrigues them...

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

nikkas aint gonna stop thinking with their dikk though. 9/10 thinking with is what got you to her in the first place.

Think about it.

You saw a nice chick at the supermarket: Your head goes "Approach her?! It's too awkward. What if she says no and all these people hear?". But the dikk says "fukk all that noise she got a fat ass we goin in!"

You see a dime in the club Your head goes "No way she'll go for me! I just watched her turn down 6 nikkas!" But your dikk went "Dem titties "

Even them ugly bytches Havoc be posting, your head be screaming "ewwww" but dikk goes "She's got a p*ssy dawg...work with me here "

Once the "relationship" is about sex, AND she new p*ssy, AND you not fukkin on the side, there aint no way you not thinking with ya dikk.

sounds like you can't have a normal conversation with a woman unless she's ugly to you...

 

[Kenny West]

sounds like you can't have a normal conversation with a woman unless she's ugly to you...

And it sounds like you need to put your simp cup down. This thread aint about normal conversations nikka. It's about sex and possible relationships. Shooting the breeze all the time with a bytch you want is a easy way to get friendzoned.

Whenever you choose a mate, it's based off attraction. For dudes, attraction is largely physical. If I were to not listen to my dikk and chose a mate from my brain and logic, you'd choose a ugly, probably masculine lookin bytch because you that would slim your chances of rejection and being cheated on in one swoop.

So as I said before, thinkin with your dikk is largely responsible for why she's there in the first place. You can resist it as you like, but you never know if you truly like a chick till you fukk.

 

[Stuntone]

If the sex is good and she wants to be in a relationship and you dont, would that change your mind?

I agree that it could possibly be a major turnoff. Thats why I try to be upfront with whatever role I feel like taking..If I just want some "D" I say, "hey boo, umm Im not looking for anything serious right now"
or "hey boo, Im looking for something long term and Im not having sex until Im in a committed relationship".. So that way no feelings are hurt, no roles are misinterpreted..My motto has always been "know your role"

If the I'm leaning towards being with her and the sex is great and she's still cool afterwards, I'd probably wife her.


I'm sure being up that upfront hasn't worked well for you. No way a guy knows he wants to be in a serious relationship with you when you both first start chilling, unless you're extremely mindnumbing attractive. Or he's a extremely mindnumbing simp.

 

[Stuntone]

I have had sex on the first date several times. Sometimes it ends well sometimes it doesnt. I need to know if you have a little dikk or buss quick before i get attatched

I've had sex with a girl on the first night and ended up wifing her. Sometimes the chemistry can be so powerful, u cant help. We were both from Louisiana, but met in DC, so we both let our guards down and gave each other passes. Afterwards we continued to chill and found out how she really was.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

And it sounds like you need to put your simp cup down. This thread aint about normal conversations nikka. It's about sex and possible relationships. Shooting the breeze all the time with a bytch you want is a easy way to get friendzoned.

Whenever you choose a mate, it's based off attraction. For dudes, attraction is largely physical. If I were to not listen to my dikk and chose a mate from my brain and logic, you'd choose a ugly, probably masculine lookin bytch because you that would slim your chances of rejection and being cheated on in one swoop.

So as I said before, thinkin with your dikk is largely responsible for why she's there in the first place. You can resist it as you like, but you never know if you truly like a chick till you fukk.

yeah but that's the point i'm trying to make, just because some woman looks good doesn't mean you have to slobber all over her. that's what i mean by thinking with your dikk instead of your head. that's the problem, most guys are always on a pursuit for some p*ssy because they feel that's the only way to get it. which it isn't. especially if a girl is already feeling you.

it ain't about simping at all for me. you're talking about chasing and pursuing which lands guys in the simp zone more than just being casual about things...