Women really love older men

UpAndComing

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It also feels from the description you gave. He knew who he was. Like if he wanted something from you he made it clear. Which indicates to me he most likely made it that way or the high way type of vibe right?

I know for a fact us younger dudes would let shyt slide, not be clear, and damm near put our morals n beliefs aside basically to get some.


Maaaaan you took me back with that one. I'm 27 now. Back when I was like 20/21, I used to do exactly like the bolded. I thought it would make the girl comply more. Nah, it did the opposite. Girls want to test you, see how strong your balls are

Now, whenever I talk to girls, I never do that. My thoughts are clear, I don't show emotion, I tell a girl how it's gonna be. I lay out my personality, and if she doesn't want to go forward, ok. If he does, than great. I'm busy and making moves in life, I don't got time for games
 

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Currently dating a chick 8 years younger than me and I feel weird.

But she feels safe with me as I’m more grown than the others she’s dated.

She literally kept asking if I’m real and what’s wrong with me whenever I do something for her, they is normal to me e.g cooking and bringing her lunch/dinner

Only fear is her “hoe-stage”. No idea if she’s been through it already or it’s waiting to rear it’s ugly head
 

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Currently dating a chick 8 years younger than me and I feel weird.

But she feels safe with me as I’m more grown than the others she’s dated.

She literally kept asking if I’m real and what’s wrong with me whenever I do something for her, they is normal to me e.g cooking and bringing her lunch/dinner

Only fear is her “hoe-stage”. No idea if she’s been through it already or it’s waiting to rear it’s ugly head

18-25 ... It's going to rear its ugly head.
 

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Sound like a whiny little fukkboi to me :yeshrug:
 

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No, but it did have a lot to do with it. I met him wearing a very expensive suit. He was also very dominant, but not in the way guys my age try to be. For example just look at the how to get a girl to not stay over after sex thread for the antithesis of that.

We’d go out to dinner and he’d order my food for me, he bought me dresses to wear etc. He was very very polite, mixed in with very clear commands- that’s a dangerous combination. He was also very knowledgeable, which made me a bit insecure because I felt like I couldn’t keep up. Because the age gap wasn’t so wide, he was still very relatable when it came to things like music etc.

On his part, originally he didn’t want to date me when he found out my age. He’s mid 30s, I’m younger than you. So much so that he was shocked when I still expressed interest in him. Was it all about money? No- but a combination of things.

I know my place in the world, what I’m primarily focused on and how that will be perceived, but he was a very pleasant experience


Awwww. This is why girls who are 18-23 (If you get the right one), are the GOAT
 

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I've always liked older guys.

But I'll say some women do it for the stability.

Some to be taken care of, which is hilarious when they get that young minded older guy :russ: like what's the point for a old nikka to be stressing you.

But yeah people have different reasons it's not one size fits all.
If a girl is between 18-22 and she dates someone that's a decade older (30+) don't you think there may be an underlying issue connecting them all :jbhmm:


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Currently dating a chick 8 years younger than me and I feel weird.

But she feels safe with me as I’m more grown than the others she’s dated.

She literally kept asking if I’m real and what’s wrong with me whenever I do something for her, they is normal to me e.g cooking and bringing her lunch/dinner

Only fear is her “hoe-stage”. No idea if she’s been through it already or it’s waiting to rear it’s ugly head

One of those "you're too good to be true" chicks, eh?

:huhldup:
 
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