Women Say Men Not Showing Up to the Single Events
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They should start by advertising these singles events outside of church 
I'm sorry but most brehs in 2025 are just not into church like that anymore
Even on dating apps if chick is talking about Jesus or church too much I'm
just saying. My Sundays are for football, videogames, and edibles.
I'm sorry but most brehs in 2025 are just not into church like that anymoreEven on dating apps if chick is talking about Jesus or church too much I'm
just saying. My Sundays are for football, videogames, and edibles.
Why tf would a desirable man go to a speed dating event when they can log on to a dating app and get some buns within a few hours.
Ladies are so slow with this shyt and they still don’t get it
A good looking, good job, tall, otherwise “normal” man has no shortage of dating opportunities. If they have a bit of self awareness around this fact they’ve also pieced together that they can have several romantic partners and in such are in no rush to settle down and get “serious”. They don’t need conventional methods to get women. Thats the game, supply and demand.
The type of man you’re going to run into in at a dating event isn’t going to be the top tier, that’s just how it works.
Ladies are so slow with this shyt and they still don’t get it
A good looking, good job, tall, otherwise “normal” man has no shortage of dating opportunities. If they have a bit of self awareness around this fact they’ve also pieced together that they can have several romantic partners and in such are in no rush to settle down and get “serious”. They don’t need conventional methods to get women. Thats the game, supply and demand.
The type of man you’re going to run into in at a dating event isn’t going to be the top tier, that’s just how it works.
Busted_Toes
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This is the result of pushing Black men away... "toxic masculinity", "hypermasculinity", "she/her", "emotional intelligence" ... nikkas aint listening to that shyt unless they got low testosterone like FD signifier
I don't know if this thread will go anywhere. But how can there be this many women looking for black men and there are black men on here and ones I know in person who are single and looking?
Cloutius Maximus
with the aid of the Funk...
only busted women go to singles events 
Yeah a lot of brothas see sistas as a unnecessary headache. I know Dr.Umar black love nikkas like to gaslight them type of cats but it been that way for a minute. Not gonna come home to someone being strong and sassy and nagging me all damn day after you come home from work.the story at 3:25breh walked in like
And most them black love nikkas like Umar and Bro.Polight have all type of baby momma/daddy drama but want to talk shyt about you exploring your options elsewhere. Talking about childless men need to date single moms when he don't even raise his own kids like gtfo.
Also christian events are seen as where the hoes that want to retire from the game go. Like Chrisean Rock or Blacc Chyna for example become relgious all of a sudden. That's not to say all are like that but a good number are get used and abused then finally settle down no ma'am not me.
First thing first...
Women need to stop complaining! Nobody wanna hear any sniveling! Smh
Next, women need to go where men like to go as well as take interest in things men like to do..
Perhaps men don't like to go to events that put them in the spotlight. With that comes expectations.
Who wants to go somewhere where they are expected to make an impression upon ppl they don't know??
Dating sucks because it's a one sided event. The men on dates aren't prioritized and men are tired of it!
A woman who wants a man gonna figure out how to get one and she will understand that getting one will not be achieved if she makes it about her or her being a priority over him.
Learn the game and make it about him, then perhaps women will get more favorable outcomes.
Women need to stop complaining! Nobody wanna hear any sniveling! Smh
Next, women need to go where men like to go as well as take interest in things men like to do..
Perhaps men don't like to go to events that put them in the spotlight. With that comes expectations.
Who wants to go somewhere where they are expected to make an impression upon ppl they don't know??
Dating sucks because it's a one sided event. The men on dates aren't prioritized and men are tired of it!
A woman who wants a man gonna figure out how to get one and she will understand that getting one will not be achieved if she makes it about her or her being a priority over him.
Learn the game and make it about him, then perhaps women will get more favorable outcomes.
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Doobie Doo
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All this.
I remember being a teen and in my young 20's and all the excitement I had for a date. I took extra time to put my appearance together, make sure I smelled nice. Having butterflies in my stomach before meeting shorty.
I haven't had those feelings in over 15 years. Now just throw some shyt on and rush thru the first date cuz I know its just us meeting in public to make sure each other ain't crazy so we can just go to each other's house later on down the line to fukk. I go over her house and bring her takeout, her heavy furniture gets moved, her firestick gets jailbroken by me, I fix a bunch of shyt in her house and she gets some dikk. She comes over my house and criticizes everything.
