I kind of enjoy hoe babble in small doses
Cant speak for these young ladies..
But many women acknowledge how some of their comments are out of both sides of their mouth
They are exploring and commenting on this middle ground, the discrepency
I will take a glance at my wife's vision wall every now and then(

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I've seen her clearly mark some of her ideas ,,
And her needs and wants ---
as being in conflict
So i think a lot of woman are self-aware about their inconsistencies and incongruous perspectives
Now hoe babble takes many forms
The first 4-5 months of covid was very tough on my wife
Perhaps she is exposed as someone who can't be alone with their own thoughts
And now, where socializing (in limited form) can re-start
She has "loneliness in a crowd " sensations
..because now she is aware of limitations previously undetected
She is clearly working on stuff
And i think the result will be an improved version of wifey
It's not how I work, though.. I'm more straight ahead with things
But there was an important concept in kaizen management..
I cant remember the term, but it was noticing something is amiss even when evidence suggests all is well
In japan manufacturing .. They would shift their top technical minds to focus on these vague "not quite right" concerns
Versus an american plant.. Wouldnt dream of wasting their top people with such "nonsense" (looking for a problem that doesnt actually exist)
I prefer to sort through what issues and topics can "move the needle"..
And I focus my energy accordingly
Whereas vague hoe babble will have you commonly wasting a lot of time on nonsense
But in a well-centered woman, it can also result in strong growth
I have seen it many times.. including some women I love/loved