Women shytting on 9-5ers in Clubhouse with Joe Budden and King Los

[UberEatsDriver]

She’s talking about the standards of men but praising a drug dealer who has no standards for her?

 

[Deafheaven]

I can find rents that are a little similar to Minneapolis if I lived in the farther areas of NYC.


And I also don’t know what you mean by y’all? I don’t know any black native New Yorker who pays $2,000 for a studio and my mom and dad pay $1400 a month for a large three bedroom.


You probably talking about white and black hipsters from Minneapolis who move to NY and pay those fees

Im just going by what I see on the internet and google brother. This is the coli way

 

[semicko82]

It doesn’t have to be a drug dealer but women are attracted to men who live on their own terms. That’s why they’re drawn to artists, criminals, etc. These people don’t follow what society tells you to be, they do what they want. The reason 9-5s get a bad rep with these type of women is because you’re doing what you’re told to do, not only at work but just in life, by working a 9-5. Even though it’s the “right” thing to do, it implies weakness whereas going your own way shows strength and courage. These qualities are reflected in your personality and the way you think, which is mainly what turns a woman on or off. That’s why the Clubhouse girl says 9-5 guys are “rigid” and drug dealers are more “fun.” Women don’t like doing what they’re told to do and they don’t like men who do what they’re told to do. It’s less about the drug dealer’s occupation (or height or looks) and more about his rebellious attitude that turns women on. Everybody secretly wants to live life on their own terms and the guys with the balls to do it get the most women. Whether it’s an actor, singer, scammer, drug dealer, etc.

 

[Serious]

You live in Southern California, so that makes sense. The median home value where you live is probably like $600k - outside of where you are, I'm sure it's more normal.

I know some regular Black women from LA that are really cool, as well as some from the Bay. If you're painting a brush that broad, it doesn't sound like you're actually f/w normal women. What school do you go to? I know some sweet women in the BLSA chapters of Hastings, UCLA, and USC Gould.

Yeah he's generalizing like hell. I know it requires a bit of work but it's not that bad.

 

[semicko82]

All women like men who possess strength and courage but that takes a different form depending on the culture. Within African-American culture, that would be someone who doesn't conform to white society. The reason this is so hard to accept is because we're conditioned to do just that, go to school, get a corporate job, buy a home, and we're taught that we'll be rewarded for following the straight and narrow. That line of thinking is meant to turn us into modular citizens who are easier for the government to control for their own agendas. Women innately understand this and crave a man who's strong enough to reject societal pressure to be a modular citizen and do whatever the fukk he wants. That's why we see the feminist movement taking over. Women feel repressed by the roles society has given them and they're tired of playing along and they want nikkas who are tired of playing along too.

 

[Action Mike]

I was avoiding this thread for the longest but I gave in and listened to the babble. When said, she'll eventually settle down and marry a 9 to 5 dude, I started cracking up.

It's predictable and demonic.

These are the women some men will start whole families with and raise daughters

 

[Serious]

watch the Girlfriend Experience on Starz. That's how coporate brehs get down

@NaijaProdigy Redux

 

[Serious]

It doesn’t have to be a drug dealer but women are attracted to men who live on their own terms. That’s why they’re drawn to artists, criminals, etc. These people don’t follow what society tells you to be, they do what they want. The reason 9-5s get a bad rep with these type of women is because you’re doing what you’re told to do, not only at work but just in life, by working a 9-5. Even though it’s the “right” thing to do, it implies weakness whereas going your own way shows strength and courage. These qualities are reflected in your personality and the way you think, which is mainly what turns a woman on or off. That’s why the Clubhouse girl says 9-5 guys are “rigid” and drug dealers are more “fun.” Women don’t like doing what they’re told to do and they don’t like men who do what they’re told to do. It’s less about the drug dealer’s occupation (or height or looks) and more about his rebellious attitude that turns women on. Everybody secretly wants to live life on their own terms and the guys with the balls to do it get the most women. Whether it’s an actor, singer, scammer, drug dealer, etc.

Yeah this is basically what I figured she was getting at. It's more of an innocovinance thing. Living life on your own terms and freedom. I mean there's pros and cons to it. I'm a big fan of FIRE, so hopefully I can be at that point in a few years.

 

[Gold]

he problem is when these goofy ass women that spread their legs open for these losers but want to give the guy that has a 9-5 job a hard time. This why I say men should just go overseas or something. American women are straight up trash and it’s not gonna a get better.

If I see a man eating shyt, its not my job to tell him how bad it smells.
At some point these dudes gotta lift their head up and realize this shyt for themselves. You have men MARRYING women who are waving red flags in their face 24/7.

If a woman comes to you and says she expects you to give her 20k when she wants to shop, and feed her moms.... are you even gonna stick around to here what she says next?


Alot of women are treating men badly, true.... but alot of men are letting themselves take that treatment.

 

[Serious]

They do the same thing overseas too

Its an endless cycle. I know cats cant be thinking that chicks in the DR and Brazil don't be doing the same thing and having these same conversation about americans that come down to trick. I know dudes be buying homes and sending money to women down there. You better believe the women down there get just as delusional for American tricks.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Yeah this is basically what I figured she was getting at. It's more of an innocovinance thing. Living life on your own terms and freedom. I mean there's pros and cons to it. I'm a big fan of FIRE, so hopefully I can be at that point in a few years.

That logic is dumb. Like I said before, we all know nikkas who work at walmart and live at the momma's house that be smashin broads

 

[Serious]

That logic is dumb. Like I said before, we all know nikkas who work at walmart and live at the momma's house that be smashin broads

It's not a once size fits all breh. The dude at walmart probably aint knocking down the number #1 trending woman on ig, but they doesn't mean he can't smash reasonably attractive women that he encounters.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

It's not a once size fits all breh. The dude at walmart probably aint knocking down the number #1 trending woman on ig, but they doesn't mean he can't smash reasonably attractive women that he encounters.

Number 1 trending? Breh all them hoes look the same. You can go to any black city and find a woman that looks exactly like them hoes. Those so called 1 trending broads aren't rare at all. And a lot of em are satisfied with just weed and dikk. Yes there's bummy dudes knocking down 8/10s n shyt, the same women in the op, some of em even be professional women like lawyers.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

2Pac said it perfectly and he used to be a mega simp It's not too late to change. 9 to 5 brehs gotta start treating women how that want to be treated

 

[Nigerianwonder]

I would say atleast 50% of bw think like this. Not just "ratchet" ones. A very large portion of "regular" black women think like this up until damn near 30/35.

More like up until 45. These chicks don't learn until its too late. There is a real deep seeded resentment and lack of respect many younger black women have against working class brehs. Its something you don't really see in other groups and communities either. Having a good job, stability, and being provider is more than enough in these other groups. Only black men have to have additional arbitrary and superficial qualifiers like swag, being street, selling drugs etc.

I can only assume that growing up in broken homes, lack of nuclear and traditional family values, and years of conditioning and media consumption of garbage like love and hip hop has contributed to this fantasy world these women are trying to live in. Reality is catching up to them really fast and its too late for most.