Yup. But in order to fix it they have to give up power. They aint doing that. Which lets me know they don't want a functional community. They find with it as is. Black girls rock is great, but what about the boys? Their reading levels are fukking horrible and they are trying to dope them up with pills to keep them still.Because seeing that would mean holding women accountable for the state of the community after it was literally handed over to them. Of course we cant have that...
who are in charge of the children?
The Mothers and the state................... The women run the community. from Mommy to grandma to aunty. Most nikkas don't even know who were grandfathers or great grandfathers or even know anything abut them.The mothers.
But I still wouldn't call it a matriarchy because its not like its a purposeful, respected decision.
They are defacto in charge because WS has separated the household, sent the men away for 80 years for possession charges, told the women they can get more benefits as a single mom, etc. That's why I wouldn't call it a matriarchy. Its brokenness
Look at how the average person in this country acts, I gotta agree with that other poster, we live in a society where there is more incentive to be immature and act like an a$$hole cause of apps like Tik Tom and it blowing people up.Mentally and maturity wise, if someone is remotely the same person at 24 as they were at 17, they did something very, very wrong. Wasting seven pivotal years walking on a treadmill instead of walking uphill and covering ground. Three guesses as to how life turns out for them.
centered on or concerned exclusively with women; taking a female (or specifically a feminist) point of view....
Which best describes the black community....

Yup. But in order to fix it they have to give up power. They aint doing that. Which lets me know they don't want a functional community. They find with it as is. Black girls rock is great, but what about the boys? Their reading levels are fukking horrible and they are trying to dope them up with pills to keep them still.
You want better men? Don't try to fix the broken ones, You use all that energy and all resources for younger ones. Give them a chance.......
Underrated commentI swear Black people becoming more corny and white like
Didn't read the whole thread, but y'all do know 17 is the legal age of consent in over 40 states right ? It's only an issue depending on if she was in the 10 other states.
The Mothers and the state................... The women run the community. from Mommy to grandma to aunty. Most nikkas don't even know who were grandfathers or great grandfathers or even know anything abut them.
They use the government by proxy. They took the welfare and kicked the men out the house. They made that decision, and they were find with the outcome. Lets just call a spade a spade.
White men are going through the same shyt. But when the white community catches a cold the black community catches the flu.
This is why the community is never going to get better. We don't tell the truth for what its really is. We want to protect peoples feelings. nikkas want to Hotep and sell them bullshyt ass incense(not you).
I believe it was/is a conflict of interest
Is that not exactly whats happening in the black community? If you do what she says she going to call the police on your ass. even her own child.....What you are describing is not a matriarchy.
In a matriarchal society, the women are given the task of leading and ruling. Their rule is respected (even if not liked) by the members and is the chosen way to move forward.
What we have in the black community is a defacto matriarchy. They are raising the kids because they are the ones who are there. I'll say it for a 3rd time. The government has destroyed the black family unit and removed the black man from it.
If black Americans are matriarchal, how come the 1940s weren't matriarchal? or the 30s? or the 20s? You cant remove the men from a patriarchy and then declare it a matriarchy. No, you remove the head and you get anarchy. Just like removing a dictator doesn't lead create a democracy, it creates anarchy or a power vaccum (something American foreign policy should learn).
The power vaccum was filled by the state. All by design.
I'm not trying to absolve blame. Women who assisted the government in the destruction of the black nuclear family are clearly at fault. i'm just saying that this notion that black Americans are inherently matriachal is nonsense. The destruction of the nuclear family did not lead to a matriarchy, it lead to brokenness with women unable to do much without the aid of the government.
This is why you nikkas shouldnt listen what these broads say. Everything you need to know is in the literature. Combine that with your experience and you have your answer.No it does not!
I don't understand what power you are talking about, what kind of power do you want that you currently don't have and can be given to you by women??
Are black women holding your money hostage?
Are black women your majority employer?
Are black women the majority in incarcerating you?
Are black women holding you back from owning property?
Are black women the majority in courts who separate you from your children?
Are black women the majority of doctors and nurses prescribing Ritalin and Adderal for ADHD? I thought women are the majority child raisers so are you suggesting they're intentionally neglecting their sons and giving them drugs to hold them back?
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I'd like to know what this imaginary power is that "we" don't want to give up.
C'mon breh... That's not why everyone's outraged in here