Women who entertain you for a while

[Dixon Cider]

OP, listen up... You might not like what you hear.

Fact is this, no girl would feel comfortable throwing away someone they have feelings for. Period. If she can pull you in and throw you out at will, effortlessly, without a semblance of remorse, there are one of two likely scenarios at play.

One, she isn't feeling you in that way. I dont care what problems she has. Trust issues, love issues, daddy issues.... Them bullshyt excuses are a ploy. If a girl is legitmately attracted to you, she will never be able to easily toss you away, if at all. Especially if you've done nothing wrong... She will try to make it work, try and keep you onboard. try to work through it. Remember that. We all got issues. But trust is no excuse for her taking you out like the trash every quarter of the year.

Which leads me to scenario two, which is the more likely case probably.

She dealing with someone else that she isnt telling you about. Someone she cares about more, more attracted to, more history with. Sure, she probably told you there is no one else, but there is... Not saying she a ho or anything, its just life...

Read this: Attraction Is Black & White. No In Between. The Games End When You Realize That.

Scenario #2 is very spot on, as there is someone with more history etc. i'm let in to a certain degree and intimacy but trying to become a priority is really baffling me and thinking about falling back seems like it wouldn't do anything although it did in the past but after a while of falling back. We are at a level to talk about really anything. What else can I do. When we spending time its awesome but same time the other part of my brain isn't happy because I don't know when the next time will be. Tried before going after numerous women to get over her. After I fukked the other women it's still her I want. This is eating away at me daily all I can do is keep composure.

 

[Music Fiend]

Breh. Stop beating yourself up about it.

9 times out of 10, she is somewhat attracted to you but in the way you look at random chicks you talk to that you really ain't into but sometimes you are. Hell, sometimes they like you but think you are corny, not cool enough, whatever to be their partner. They might even have an ideal partner or an old nikka in their sight BUT they will let you smash. Best offense is just continuously spittin at em when u see em, with no desire to really win and no feelings. It might be a year, but she gon bust it open for you.

I've dealt with countless women like this.

It's easy af at this point. She ain't the type you catch feelings for. Not that she's a hoe, just she don't see you as a prize. Maybe a good time, entertaining. Etc. but the dude she wants to be with, nah.

 

[Dixon Cider]

Breh. Stop beating yourself up about it.

9 times out of 10, she is somewhat attracted to you but in the way you look at random chicks you talk to that you really ain't into but sometimes you are. Hell, sometimes they like you but think you are corny, not cool enough, whatever to be their partner. They might even have an ideal partner or an old nikka in their sight BUT they will let you smash. Best offense is just continuously spittin at em when u see em, with no desire to really win and no feelings. It might be a year, but she gon bust it open for you.

I've dealt with countless women like this.

It's easy af at this point. She ain't the type you catch feelings for. Not that she's a hoe, just she don't see you as a prize. Maybe a good time, entertaining. Etc. but the dude she wants to be with, nah.

It's hard to tell when the intensity of the connection is crazy and the time spent is quality like the kind you spend with someone you really enjoy being around. So I will continue my persistance which has got me this far.

 

[General Mills]

Nothing, absolutely nothing at all. I'm exhausting myself trying to win.

Stop. Your probably being too accessible.

Do you. All you can do is put it out there that you like her and want more. If she does not immediately reciprocate then fall back breh

I had a girl i was feeling. Dark skin sista with big titties. Asked her to brunch on a sunday. Instead of saying yes or no. She says where. I tell her. All she says is i have never eaten there before.

I did not ask anything else. Just moved on . She hits me up about a month later talkinbout that brunch. i told her are you asking me out?


Women are fickle creatures. She is probably juggling a couple of dikks and 4 serious online convos right now.



Also remember..Its very rare that two people wilo like each other at the same intensity at the same exact time. Usually one likes the other more at the start then it evens out over time. We get this notion of love being like Hollywood.

 

[Dixon Cider]

Stop. Your probably being too accessible.

Do you. All you can do is put it out there that you like her and want more. If she does not immediately reciprocate then fall back breh

I had a girl i was feeling. Dark skin sista with big titties. Asked her to brunch on a sunday. Instead of saying yes or no. She says where. I tell her. All she says is i have never eaten there before.

I did not ask anything else. Just moved on . She hits me up about a month later talkinbout that brunch. i told her are you asking me out?


Women are fickle creatures. She is probably juggling a couple of dikks and 4 serious online convos right now.



Also remember..Its very rare that two people wilo like each other at the same intensity at the same exact time. Usually one likes the other more at the start then it evens out over time. We get this notion of love being like Hollywood.

The kissing, the deep discussions the physical the mental its like one big mindfukk

 

[SheWantTheD]

They shove you back out of their life

what the heck does this mean?! She shoved you outta her life or she tried to come back into your life? Which one is it?

 

[AlainLocke]

True because I want more, this is someone who I want and why is catching feeling bad

Love isn't what you think it is...

If a woman has something that they want from you...they'll stick around....until you give it to them...and when they decide what you gave to them can't be given to them by anybody else, they'll commit to you...

 

[SheWantTheD]

Stop. Your probably being too accessible.

Do you. All you can do is put it out there that you like her and want more. If she does not immediately reciprocate then fall back breh

I had a girl i was feeling. Dark skin sista with big titties. Asked her to brunch on a sunday. Instead of saying yes or no. She says where. I tell her. All she says is i have never eaten there before.

I did not ask anything else. Just moved on . She hits me up about a month later talkinbout that brunch. i told her are you asking me out?


Women are fickle creatures. She is probably juggling a couple of dikks and 4 serious online convos right now.



Also remember..Its very rare that two people wilo like each other at the same intensity at the same exact time. Usually one likes the other more at the start then it evens out over time. We get this notion of love being like Hollywood.

These be the same women that whine and complain about not having a man but they play games and are not cooperative. But that's not what they'll tell their social media followers.

And what happens is all these "options" they have slowly die out and the dude they give it up to smashes then doesn't contact them or wants to keep it as just sex.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Ex boyfriend, a nikka she just fukking, another nikka entirely etc.

It's almost always another nikka and not some personal issue she's dealing with that's preventing her from committing to you.

 

[SheWantTheD]

It's hard to tell when the intensity of the connection is crazy and the time spent is quality like the kind you spend with someone you really enjoy being around. So I will continue my persistance which has got me this far.

The kissing, the deep discussions the physical the mental its like one big mindfukk

LMAOOO just reemmber.. she's probably getting donkey fukked by a nikka she don't do none of that shyt with

Intense connection, deep discussions LOL. And where she at?

 

[Dixon Cider]

LMAOOO just reemmber.. she's probably getting donkey fukked by a nikka she don't do none of that shyt with

Intense connection, deep discussions LOL. And where she at?

I initiate sex every chance I can

 

[Woman of god]

Awww OP I hope things get better for you and you find a woman who has as strong of feelings for you as you do for her

 

[Dixon Cider]

Awww OP I hope things get better for you and you find a woman who has as strong of feelings for you as you do for her

It's a fight, it's a struggle, I suffer, I squirm, I get lucky then it starts over again. I ask, I listen, i'm willing to provide,protect,love unconditional,be fair. Feel like im
Doing all the labor in this but there has been results from all this, i'm not being ignored, real time gets spent and thats what bothers the most is the time spent is awesome and reciprocated back to me but the persistance still has to go on to crack the barriers.

 

[LEEeveryday]

These women just be preparing for the next situation while they are in a situation that is failing. Women be setting up an exit plan that won't really be enacted for another 2 years...lol..

so they get flighty as fukk....

 

[Mordith]

Watch this movie 500 Days of Summer (2009) - IMDb