Women who entertain you for a while

[WheatThins]

its another person and she wants to keep you on the backburner in case it goes wrong.

doesnt want to turn you down just yet but also doesnt really want to be with you either. your the fall back guy, get away quickly

 

[General Mills]

It's a fight, it's a struggle, I suffer, I squirm, I get lucky then it starts over again. I ask, I listen, i'm willing to provide,protect,love unconditional,be fair. Feel like im
Doing all the labor in this but there has been results from all this, i'm not being ignored, real time gets spent and thats what bothers the most is the time spent is awesome and reciprocated back to me but the persistance still has to go on to crack the barriers.

You should pull back breh. If she is not where you are at this point its ok. Thats life.

But dont let her waste your time. You have a objective. Dont think of her as THE ONE. Easier said than done i know.

Dont be that accesible dude. Once you pull away she will either realize she needs and wants you in her life or she will not. Either way you will know where you stand.

 

[Soundbwoy]

True because I want more, this is someone who I want and why is catching feeling bad

Tell her how you feel if she doesn't feel the same way move on

 

[Dixon Cider]

Tell her how you feel if she doesn't feel the same way move on

She already knows and im still around so I must be the backburner. I want to be someone that helps her in life somehow but not being together or whatnot makes it seem like im i would be doing too much but man when I see her smile and her face light up when I see her/compliment her its beautiful.

 

[Soundbwoy]

She already knows and im still around so I must be the backburner. I want to be someone that helps her in life somehow but not being together or whatnot makes it seem like im i would be doing too much but man when I see her smile and her face light up when I see her/compliment her its beautiful.

You need to have that conversation it might hurt to hear but once you know for sure where she stands

 

[Art Barr]

You need to get your labeling system right.
All cause this is a simple fix if you labeled this chick as a roster builder.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

Tell her how you feel if she doesn't feel the same way move on

No,...
She is a roster builder.
She is using him for emotional blanketing and he needs to build him a roster.
So, he does not catch feeling and from his side.
can see what possibly she was doing to him and get real about the whole experience and not the lip gloss covered glasses experience.
he has created in his head with this female roster builder.



Art Barr

 

[HookersandIceCream]

OP, listen up... You might not like what you hear.

Fact is this, no girl would feel comfortable throwing away someone they have feelings for. Period. If she can pull you in and throw you out at will, effortlessly, without a semblance of remorse, there are one of two likely scenarios at play.

One, she isn't feeling you in that way. I dont care what problems she has. Trust issues, love issues, daddy issues.... Them bullshyt excuses are a ploy. If a girl is legitmately attracted to you, she will never be able to easily toss you away, if at all. Especially if you've done nothing wrong... She will try to make it work, try and keep you onboard. try to work through it. Remember that. We all got issues. But trust is no excuse for her taking you out like the trash every quarter of the year.

Which leads me to scenario two, which is the more likely case probably.

She dealing with someone else that she isnt telling you about. Someone she cares about more, more attracted to, more history with. Sure, she probably told you there is no one else, but there is... Not saying she a ho or anything, its just life...

Read this: Attraction Is Black & White. No In Between. The Games End When You Realize That.

Pretty much this
+ online dating so heavily skewed in a females favor means a lot of dudes will play the waiting game....


Best thing to do is just don't get attached and don't take it personal.

 

[Docaveli]

Ex boyfriend, a nikka she just fukking, another nikka entirely etc.

It's almost always another nikka and not some personal issue she's dealing with that's preventing her from committing to you.

Very good point and accurate. Which is why if you are serious about ur happiness and future in life first thing u should do is get urself together, solid stream of income, nice car for bait, and whatever else u can drape ur self with as a source of confidence

Then u make the women fight for ur attention. If u present ur self this way even if it's just smoke and mirrors upfront u will never have to worry about women being in ur life for sex, companionship because if one goes another coming and u doing minimal work, don't even have to leave the house. U got Tinder, instagram where u can bait subtle of course

You hold all the cards, it buys u time to actually strengthen ur base and u eat for the rest of ur life

U can test your strength level periodically by seeing ur ratio of girls initiating convo, sex etc to see where u at

If u ever have to ask a girl out, her number, sex, anything u have to do first when both of yall have the same opportunity to have made the first move then u ain't there yet

When u have your self together girls will find u and do exactly what for decades men have been conditioned to do to win a woman

 

[SheWantTheD]

I initiate sex every chance I can

Have you had sex with her or no?

 

[thewarrior05]

Awww OP I hope things get better for you and you find a woman who has as strong of feelings for you as you do for her

lol you either trolling or you being a little condescending

 

[Dixon Cider]

Have you had sex with her or no?

Yes more than once, i'm all over that any chance I can grab on

 

[SheWantTheD]

Yes more than once, i'm all over that any chance I can grab on

lol you should just keep it moving. If she's the type of woman that can have sex with a man multiple times and not catch feelings then you don't want nothing to do with her breh.

 

[Circle p]

She already knows and im still around so I must be the backburner. I want to be someone that helps her in life somehow but not being together or whatnot makes it seem like im i would be doing too much but man when I see her smile and her face light up when I see her/compliment her its beautiful.

You're in love...

 

[thewarrior05]

She already knows and im still around so I must be the backburner. I want to be someone that helps her in life somehow but not being together or whatnot makes it seem like im i would be doing too much but man when I see her smile and her face light up when I see her/compliment her its beautiful.

SNap out of it you black b*stard. Your a king every man should carry himself as such. What it sound like telling your son" Hey son I was in your mothers back pocket for years, while she was running her body-count to numbers in syria. Find a new girl and stop being a beta