Work hard, go to Harvard, become president, and have a wife who disrespects you on a national level, brehs
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Some of yall really don’t no what marriage is like they been married over 25 years. They at love/hate status now. My parents been married for over 43 years and if you think this is talkin crazy you should hear what it’s like when you been with someone for 43 years + 7 years prior.
I will say it ain’t for everyone but to those who stay commited.
Longevity in a marriage doesn’t automatically equal sheer dysfunction. If your idea of a successful 25+ year marriage is trading insults & enduring misery, then you're sadly mistaken.
I have been married for over 29 years. No matter what, neither of us have ever disrespected each other in public like she is doing. We may disagree, we may argue when we are alone, but what we work to never do intentionally is disrespect each other. Where there is no respect, there is no marriage. Being angry at each other is also not considered a reason to be disrespectful.Some of yall really don’t no what marriage is like they been married over 25 years. They at love/hate status now. My parents been married for over 43 years and if you think this is talkin crazy you should hear what it’s like when you been with someone for 43 years + 7 years prior.
I will say it ain’t for everyone but to those who stay commited.
Also, long marriages run in my family. While I have seen disagreements between couples in my family, what we all seem to know is disrespect is not to be done and not to be tolerated. So this idea that what she is doing is normal, is not something normal in my family experience.
GOATganda
It ain't difficult breh:Some of yall really don’t no what marriage is like they been married over 25 years. They at love/hate status now. My parents been married for over 43 years and if you think this is talkin crazy you should hear what it’s like when you been with someone for 43 years + 7 years prior.
I will say it ain’t for everyone but to those who stay commited.
Don't air out your grievances with your spouse publicly
Especially when its one sided and they aren't doing that to you
If it's so bad, divorce.
Why is this so difficult to get? Or have Black men and men in general been conditioned to tolerate disrespect from their women under the guise of supporting women?
The God Poster
LWO representa
Yaboysix
That nikka
I been married bout 9 months... My wife would never try me with something like that?
I'm not saying it always does, but it can happen — and I've seen it happen. Everyone's experience is different in each relationship. Yes, you can set boundaries on how to interact with your spouse from the beginning.
My wife and I joke around and poke fun at each other, but we've never crossed the line into being truly disrespectful — like calling each other names. That’s something I saw in my parents’ relationship, and even now, I don’t think it’s healthy. That said, they’ve been together for over 43 years, so clearly, they feel safe enough in their own way to stay together that long.
At the end of the day, to each their own. Everybody handles relationships differently, depending on what they can tolerate from a partner. A lot of people don’t even make it to five years — sometimes they know early on that someone isn’t right for them and they move on. Others may start off strong and then crash and burn. And some couples work through their issues, take the time to learn each other, and create a healthy, safe space together.
Amo Husserl
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They dont do. I think they even said it themselves that they only he can be teased or something
Michelle Obama says she struck a deal with Barack about teasing each other
The former US president is also known for his own sharp sense of humor, including dad jokes while he was in office.
www.businessinsider.com
They want a slave. The Black man is the lowest human existence in the eyes of many thus no matter what the Black man is what he accomplished, etc. He isn't a human thus his only purpose is to prove himself to you. The same folks demanding the universe for a Black man will proudly turn a non black man into a kept man lol.
NO Marriage is perfect, but in marriage you work on your house internally and do the duty to your family publicly to keep order ,because family legacy is greater than you, and if you don't believe this you should not get married and there is nothing wrong with that.
The Same Michelle is BFFs hugging snd cheesing with George Bush for Christ Sakes.
RamsayBolton
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Im not saying she cant have regular old feelings and banter about her husband
But broadcasting them is wild.
But broadcasting them is wild.
Nah.Remember when y'all used to front like this bitter, irritable broad was the essence of women...the template for which all women and potential wives should be measured?
Remember when y'all would be dap fishing calling Michelle's ugly ass "beautiful" and "gorgeous"...
Remember when y'all was begging for this chick to run for president?
Now she done showed her trifling ass and this board wants to switch up...
It shows that contrary to what it said about, we will go to bat for our women.
It's one of the things that is tiring as Black man. We're not really appreciated for how supporting and accommodating we are.
The black man in America is the most "progressive" and "liberal" man on earth and literally gets the least respect lol
