The Oracle
Expat
"sorry, im not interested."



You my friend made the classic mistake I have made so many times and many men as well. You were not clear with your intentions from the beginning. And that, my friend, is how you end up in the friend zone.I didn't really try and make a move too many times, cause I'm not about public displays of affection but that's gonna have to change if I wanna have sex in the future. Anyways, we went on a total of two actual dates. Towards the end of the first date she asked me out on another one, but cancelled on that one.
After the first one we went to school events together like football games. After a while she started giving me the run around when I would try and set up times for us to hang out, so I stopped chasing her.. then she started chasing me. Eventually I gave in, we planned a date/to hang out but she ultimately cancelled. After that I was completely done with her.
She sensed this and asked me out to lunch after finals which was about two weeks later. I said nah I'm good but eventually agreed when the date came around. I wasn't getting no play from the chicks I was approaching so I said fukk it why not, "I really wanna smash this chick" We had a class together that semester and we went out for lunch on the day of the final. After the date she invited me back to her place, tried to make a move she wasn't having it
. And several weeks later over winter break she hit me with the friend zone. I told her I don't do that friendzone shyt and she cut me off from her life. Wouldn't answer my text messages and avoided me when I saw her on campus. Haven't spoken to her in like 5-6 months
Thing is she was the type of chick where I had to push for shyt to happen. She didn't want to seem to eager, interested, desperate even tho she was.
I learned my lesson though. Bruh I was on nofap for 3 months anticipating smashing this chick and I ain't get sh![]()
Nah, she knew how I felt. I just wasn't sexually aggressive enough. After one of our dates when she invited me back to her place and I tried to make a move.. but she was fronting saying no and pushing me away.You my friend made the classic mistake I have made so many times and many men as well. You were not clear with your intentions from the beginning. And that, my friend, is how you end up in the friend zone.
Any woman over the age of 18 that doesn't know a man wants to fukk her she's a moron. Of course she knew. However I don't mean for you to come across as a rapist or sexually aggressive beast...just verbalize your intentions...you don't have to be crass about it either. This will let you know the date continues a few hours or if it ends in the next 10 minutes.Nah, she knew how I felt. I just wasn't sexually aggressive enough.
I told her how I felt and even before that she knew I was feeling her. She told me this her self. I never brought up anything about being exclusive or anything like that cause I thought the woman was supposed to bring it up. She indirectly brought it up a couple times but when I asked her what she meant she said never mind.Any woman over the age of 18 that doesn't know a man wants to fukk her she's a moron. Of course she knew. However I don't mean for you to come across as a rapist or sexually aggressive beast...just verbalize your intentions...you don't have to be crass about it either. This will let you know the date continues a few hours or if it ends in the next 10 minutes.

What do you mean exactly? You saying I should tell her that I wanna smash during the date?Any woman over the age of 18 that doesn't know a man wants to fukk her she's a moron. Of course she knew. However I don't mean for you to come across as a rapist or sexually aggressive beast...just verbalize your intentions...you don't have to be crass about it either. This will let you know the date continues a few hours or if it ends in the next 10 minutes.

I don't know her to put all the blame on her, but if your stories a hundred percent accurate then she's goofy. I usually tell women I like, "I had a great time and I want to see you again."I told her how I felt and even before that she knew I was feeling her. She told me this her self. I never brought up anything about being exclusive or anything like that cause I thought the woman was supposed to bring it up. She indirectly brought it up a couple times but when I asked her what she meant she said never mind.![]()
What do you mean exactly? You saying I should tell her that I wanna smash during the date?![]()



But I don't like p*ssy and u too pussified for me. 

p*ssy don't get p*ssy around here. We need a man. fukk out of here p*ssy. 
. I turned into a savage about 6 months later didn't get that girl but got one of her friends that was laughing 
I don't know what point your trying to make. There were times when I told her I couldn't wait to see her shortly before we were about to meet up. And she would respond with stuff like "lol" or "me too".I don't know her to put all the blame on her, but if your stories a hundred percent accurate then she's goofy. I usually tell women I like, "I had a great time and I want to see you again."
All the while I'm usually running my finger over her eyebrow or down her cheek bone down her chin. If she's not receptive to that at all then it's my loss and I need to move on. If she sticks with it ... that kiss is, coming please believe it.
At a party at 15 I was always the kinda quiet jock. Walk into this room see this girl I tried to flirt with but idk was just nervous. About 30 ppl in there
Her: here comes this p*ssy
Me: (before savagery) what? What r u talking about?
Her: (drunk) your a fukking p*ssy boy
Me: what I ever do to u. I'm nice to everyone
Her: I was bout to give u some p*ssy.But I don't like p*ssy and u too pussified for me.
Me: I always thought u were cute
Her and her friends:p*ssy don't get p*ssy around here. We need a man. fukk out of here p*ssy.
Me: ok. Walks out the room quietly with laughter in the background
Never again brehs. I turned into a savage about 6 months later didn't get that girl but got one of her friends that was laughing
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At a party at 15 I was always the kinda quiet jock. Walk into this room see this girl I tried to flirt with but idk was just nervous. About 30 ppl in there
Her: here comes this p*ssy
Me: (before savagery) what? What r u talking about?
Her: (drunk) your a fukking p*ssy boy
Me: what I ever do to u. I'm nice to everyone
Her: I was bout to give u some p*ssy.But I don't like p*ssy and u too pussified for me.
Me: I always thought u were cute
Her and her friends:p*ssy don't get p*ssy around here. We need a man. fukk out of here p*ssy.
Me: ok. Walks out the room quietly with laughter in the background
Never again brehs. I turned into a savage about 6 months later didn't get that girl but got one of her friends that was laughing
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At a party at 15 I was always the kinda quiet jock. Walk into this room see this girl I tried to flirt with but idk was just nervous. About 30 ppl in there
Her: here comes this p*ssy
Me: (before savagery) what? What r u talking about?
Her: (drunk) your a fukking p*ssy boy
Me: what I ever do to u. I'm nice to everyone
Her: I was bout to give u some p*ssy.But I don't like p*ssy and u too pussified for me.
Me: I always thought u were cute
Her and her friends:p*ssy don't get p*ssy around here. We need a man. fukk out of here p*ssy.
Me: ok. Walks out the room quietly with laughter in the background
Never again brehs. I turned into a savage about 6 months later didn't get that girl but got one of her friends that was laughing
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I don't know what point your trying to make. There were times when I told her I couldn't wait to see her shortly before we were about to meet up. And she would respond with stuff like "lol" or "me too".

yeah it was and oh ight I got you. Thanks.My dear boy, those were rachet ho's ... of the highest order! How old are they now?? I bet you hey are ALL single moms. Probably to multiple BD's
At 15 though---that would have had me "cryin' in the car"
Was this via text?? You gotta say this to her. And show some physical affection (light touching, rubbing). IF she's not responsive to that, then a kiss and dikk is too damn much for her.
Never waste your time with a woman who does not show you she wants you.