Would u let your kids step mom or step dad spank your kid

[BmoreGorilla]

My son is my "stepson" and I've been raising him since 1 and "father" is nowhere in the picture. That said you damn right I'm spanking that ass if he's out of line. Any man that changes his life for a child not biologically his has the right to discipline him or he's not doing the job he signed up for. I'll be DAMNED if my son doesn't have his mind right for this fukked up world he has to survive in.

This. If I ever choose to remarry the first thing on my mind is the relationship between my spouse and my child. The actual relationship between me and my spouse would be secondary. Selfish people put their relationship above their kids

 

[So-Chi]

"You ain't my real dad."

If I'm doing my job I'll never hear those words

 

[lowkey0z]

Nothing abnormal about close family members disciplining u if u get outta line

 

[Methodical]

hell nah

i'm hearin' dudes were getting their asses beat by their uncle's/aunt's/cousin's? the fukk they do that at?

You must have shytty family.

That's normal to do that.

 

[4North1Side2]

If you marry someone and don't trust that person to discipline your child you prolly shouldn't have married that person

I'm not being funny at all, this is a serious question.

If your ex wife married that personal trainer, you are OK with him putting his hands on your kids when they get out of line?

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

Im a step dad too....raised em since 2 yrs old nd he 11 yrs old now. Plenty of times Ive wanted to take dis lil ngga head off nd I love em. But I show his fakkit ass pops (we dnt fuk wit each other...but we cordial) that much respect. I would have an issue wit a ngga disciplining my seed. Luckily his mom is a STRONG ass black woman nd she'll handle the beats to not put me in that position. Do I got the green tho??? fukkin right...but he dont take it to THAT level wit me once I base him on sum ngga shyt. Once he grown tho???who knows...? He be a grown man than tho so he gtta deal wit his repercusions.

EDIT... Pops got life for a body....otherwise I couldnt deal with the BD situation. Wouldve kept it G nd hit it...nd quit. Nothin but drama

 

[4North1Side2]

You must have shytty family.

That's normal to do that.

No that's your shytty upbringing.

Nobody but my parents could put their hands on me and it's the same with my children.

 

[lowkey0z]

You must have shytty family.

That's normal to do that.

you must have a terrible excuse for parents, so much that they needed other people to beat your fakkit ass

fukk outta here

 

[BmoreGorilla]

I'm not being funny at all, this is a serious question.

If your ex wife married that personal trainer, you are OK with him putting his hands on your kids when they get out of line?

Nah I wouldn't be ok with it. But you learn fast that you can't control what goes on in the other household. You can only control yours. That's the part that sucks about split up families. But you just have to hold up your end of the bargain and hope that the other parent does the same

 

[Colin X]

How long they been in the kids life?

 

[Silkk]

No that's your shytty upbringing.

Nobody but my parents could put their hands on me and it's the same with my children.

So if you staying at your cousin's house for the weekend and yall get into some fukkery. You were excused from the ass whipping?

 

[Methodical]

you must have a terrible excuse for parents, so much that they needed other people to beat your fakkit ass

fukk outta here

When you're a kid so don't you have sleep over with your cousins? If you did something bad your aunt or uncle spank you and tell your parents what u did and your pop be like "Wait til you get home and you gonna get this belt"

 

[Methodical]

So if you staying at your cousin's house for the weekend and yall get into some fukkery. You were excused from the ass whipping?

Exactly.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

So if you staying at your cousin's house for the weekend and yall get into some fukkery. You were excused from the ass whipping?

I got my ass whooped by my aunts more than a few times. But my parents wouldn't have let me stay with them if they didn't trust them

 

[4North1Side2]

Nah I wouldn't be ok with it. But you learn fast that you can't control what goes on in the other household. You can only control yours. That's the part that sucks about split up families. But you just have to hold up your end of the bargain and hope that the other parent does the same

Then you know your original bold statement is bullshyt.

Yes the fukk you can still control what goes on in the other household. My ex wife boyfriend is like the very same cats in this thread on some foot up the ass militant old school shyt with his sons.

Well one day when my son spoke back to his mom, her boyfriend boxed with my son as discipline. Soon as I heard this, I drove up to the house and told that dude I get it, you the man of the house and kids need disciplined when out of line but dont you ever put your hands on my kids again. Also told my ex wife don't ever let me hear that he put his hands on them again too.


Haven't heard shyt since.