Would y’all date a girl who works a thot job?

[Shadow King]

3 yr relationship with a dancer aka stripper…any questions?

Did you know in the talking/early dating stage?

Were there any specific moments or occupational standards that instigated insecurities or treated your relationship?

What did your friends and family think, and did it matter?

Her occupation is sexual, was she actually a true sexual person in private or is there a dissonance and she fell short of the idea men have about strippers in bed?

Was there a traumatic origin story that (possibly) guided her to that work?

 

[Won Won]

I've learned here that if it isn't a lawyer/surgeon/banker it's a hoe job so

Naw.

If she’s a lawyer, she’s fukking other lawyers. If she’s a doctor, she’s fukking nurses and other doctors. If she’s a banker, she’s fukking her manager and a couple regular customers.

 

[WIA20XX]

wrong thread

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Yes...casually of course

 

[Brandsdale]

dont see the problem

plenty women work service jobs through college or maybe use it as a second job for extra income

 

[re'up]

absolutely

you just have to know what you are doing

strippers, bottle service girls, bottle service girls at strip clubs, models, IG influencers,

just like most things, there are all types in those professions. One of my boys who is kinda nerdy, his girl did bottle service for years, before getting her degree from UCLA and now is going into a profession. I know her well. She's more than solid. Another one did bottle service at Hakkasan, and then did hair. Very solid people. And then there's the trainwrecks, disasters, who burn themselves out and everyone that gets next to them.

 

[ChatGPT-5]

I’m sure she was at nights when you weren’t around

good for her cause I was too.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

If I'm a generally attractive person it's going to happen anywhere....I'm supposed to quit life cuz you are insecure?

 

[LunaticVillage415]

If I'm a generally attractive person it's going to happen anywhere....I'm supposed to quit life cuz you are insecure?

I think it’s ok to work a thot job in your 20’s. But I know brehettes that is literally 40 years old still dressed in a sports bra and spandex behind the bar in a three star random establishment that plays nothing but 2000’s Rap looking miserable as all fukk giving horrible service because she tired of making $100 a night on a good night. Is that what you want your future to look like?

 

[The ADD]

Yes...casually of course

^^^

 

[skyrunner1]

absolutely

you just have to know what you are doing

strippers, bottle service girls, bottle service girls at strip clubs, models, IG influencers,

just like most things, there are all types in those professions. One of my boys who is kinda nerdy, his girl did bottle service for years, before getting her degree from UCLA and now is going into a profession. I know her well. She's more than solid. Another one did bottle service at Hakkasan, and then did hair. Very solid people. And then there's the trainwrecks, disasters, who burn themselves out and everyone that gets next to them.

There is exception to all the rules.. These would be in that exception category

 

[RennisDeynolds]

Yeah. I'll be her annoying ass BF sitting at the end of the bar

 

[Brandsdale]

Yeah. I'll be her annoying ass BF sitting at the end of the bar

get free drinks and nachos while ya girl finish her shift seems fine with me

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I think it’s ok to work a thot job in your 20’s. But I know brehettes that is literally 40 years old still dressed in a sports bra and spandex behind the bar in a three star random establishment that plays nothing but 2000’s Rap looking miserable as all fukk giving horrible service because she tired of making $100 a night on a good night. Is that what you want your future to look like?

that's who YOU know though. look inward

 

[RennisDeynolds]

get free drinks and nachos while ya girl finish her shift seems fine with me

Don't forget ruin the night of all those tryna flirt