Would you be open to dating a bisexual woman?

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Been with them in my past and had no issues whatsoever...

Got with my current a year ago, and the issue is that she's a closet bisexual, something I didn't really think existed amongst women in this day and age. Her lying and denying of it is what scared me earlier on, and to a lesser extent now...

She's 27, was with a woman once when she was 21 and says she didn't enjoy it. Later on she contradicted that "bad" experience with fond memories of that woman; has stated she would date that woman and fukk her again; has stated she would date and fukk a different woman; has stated she'd have a threescore with me and another woman as long as it's a woman we don't know; has stated she's only attracted to black and Latina women; has stated she likes female ass; enjoys lesbian porn...

Has also stated she doesn't like p*ssy; has stated she isn't attracted to women; has stated she'd never date a woman; has stated she'd never fukk a woman; has stated she'd never have a sexual experience with a woman again; has stated no threesome for us; etc...

I got to learn her more over the last year and I think it ultimately boils down to this. She is sexually attracted to women, and in the right situation she'd have sex with a woman again, whether just her or with us, but I dont think she wants to be with a woman. I do think in the right situation she'd date a woman, but it would probably be low because she doesn't want to be viewed as a lesbian---->even though she obviously likes men...

She doesn't want to be viewed as bisexual. The right woman could probably get her to claim her publicly, but I think its more likely she fukks women on the low than publicly date a woman...

If this sounds confusing, it's because it is but I also have some clarity after a year of dating, it's hard to explain. I've never dated a woman who was closeted with or in denial with her bisexuality. Today's culture promotes that especially for women, so it's interesting and she has an interesting personality...

The way she's described it is there are too many characteristics about men that women can't replicate, that she loves. She'd smash a woman, and even if she dated a woman, I think ultimately she'd end up with a man because she would never leave dikk alone. And she isn't into polyamory or sharing partners...
Thanks for sharing but this seemed kind of redundant. It’s a similar situation with my wife. She’s been with a woman long-term before but isn’t inherently attracted to women. Her curiosity when she was younger just turned into a thing that she doesn’t like to count as a relationship :francis:. She has expressed thoughts in her mind about another woman being involved in a sex episode with us but doesn’t want to actually act on it. Then shes open to it but not now. I’m happy and content with us but I believe it’s all circumstantial. :yeshrug:

Hi, wife. Love you. :shaq:
 

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Would you treat her differently than you would a straight woman?


I get that a lot of degenerate brehs would be like “hell yeah, we gon pull threesomes and everything :ooh:


But in practice, dating a woman who is bisexual and knowing that she is interested both in exclusive relationships with both women and
men…

How would y’all feel about that? I feel like it would def be a different experience than that of a straight woman

Idk the thought of my girl potentially leaving me for another girl would make me feel kinda weird :leostare:

So many women nowadays already act like they bisexual anyways--shyt they be more geeked up over other women than men are.
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There is a huge difference between being curious, which i see some brehs referencing, and being full on bisexual. The bisexual women i know started off as extremely freaky women, then embraced bisexuality, then moved on polyamory. One of them is a close friend of mine and to say this woman is out there sexually would be an understatement. From the 1st week i met her i was like :whoa: you a lil too much for me. I wasnt ready to jump from normal sex to the type of shyt she was whispering in my ear.

So in my experience they tend to go down the path of "love is love/sex is sex" path and at some point i think there is a chance another dikk might be suggested to enter the fray and im not with that.
 

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I think I’ve said on here before my woman is bi

I don’t think I could go back

:wow:
 

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Absolutely.

Having done it, the bish was all over the place and ended up in prison last I heard but it lead to all kinds of debauchery with other women that most dudes only imagine.

She had a chick living with us for a couple of months. Sleeping in the bed all together. Chick was not into sex with men but as a show of gratitude for letting her stay there (and be with my gf) she made a point to suck me real good here and there.

And I would classify that as mild in comparison
 

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I wouldn't. I believe many women are attractive to other women which is fine. I get it.

But there's a level of sneakiness and conniving I find bisexual women have that I'm not on board with. If she is playing with the idea and has not come out open about, I definitely don't trust it. Down low gay women,nah.

Same homegirl she going on trips with, visiting the house, coming to all the events is jealous of you and is trying to undermine your relationship and take your girl.

Gay women are very sneaky.
 

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Friends with her since high school. Thrown countless p*ssy my way. Always valued her perspective on things, especially regarding OPs issue. Why would I end a solid friendship like that cause she likes girls? :what:
Don't even worry about breh. He's exposed himself with that statement. You can tell the ones who don't actually go out and talk to people by how they act on here. I was cool with a dyke chic as well and at times she was more solid than some brehs I hung out with. And I'm not even gonna mention the perks since you already did:wow:
 

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I was told young don't wife a part time or full time lezbo. Only ends up bad after the freaky shyt wears off and you have to raise kids.
 

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I actually just ghosted a chic that worked at the Range Rover dealership after she revealed that.

She got a lil too comfortable and thought she was more than what she was.....silly bytch
 
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