Would you break up with your GF over this?

[987654321]

Yeah, first offense. It's only been a couple of months. Damn shame because she's hella cool. Cooks, cleans, supportive. So this really hit me out of nowhere. If the issue is just her being faded, I can understand. But the stuff she was saying is particularly red flaggy and weird.

As the devil’s advocate… she was happy to come by and do nothing, she on hyper auto alert to keep you out of trouble, she walked somebody else’s dog and probably don’t even like dogs, and she claimed you and showed you off bout a rental room… sounds like she’s potentially a rawnopullout rider for life.

 

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

How old is your girl?

I try to keep personal details vague but lets say between 10 and 15 years older.

 

[Abstract83]

Yeah, first offense. It's only been a couple of months. Damn shame because she's hella cool. Cooks, cleans, supportive. So this really hit me out of nowhere. If the issue is just her being faded, I can understand. But the stuff she was saying is particularly red flaggy and weird.

If this is her first offense I'd say have a long talk with her. Lol at her friend telling you not to be harsh because of her past should be a red flag in itself. She's the problem if her relationship history is shaky. And she's 33 acting like that. Weigh out the pros and cons. But know that it might be hard for her to change her behavior in the future.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I'm saying. Basically, if I let this ride I'm signing up for more bullshyt.

Her friend called me and said she got shorty home safely. And she suggested that I don't be too harsh because she hasn't been in a decent relationship in a while, so she's maybe too excited or self sabotaging.

That's whatever, but I ain't got time for all that.

I would bush off this alone. I’m too old to be helping a chick heal from prior poor relationships and self sabotaging. If this is the case she needs to focus on healing herself before trying to get in a relationship with someone. Like @The BasedFather said, it typically doesn’t get “better” from here especially as her emotions become more dug in.

Also, if this how she acts when she drinks then

 

[Fiji Water]

you have a gf and are begging for porno links at the same time?

sounds like yall should break up with each other.

I'm gonna burp the worm whether I got a gf or not. She ain't always on deck and if I have a long day of work ahead of me or I just need to clear my head, I'm going to masturbate a few times to get right.

Most of my jacking off is holistic. Self care is important for my mental health.

 

[Trav]

Sounds like a mess lol

 

[Unbothered]

No, if she's good in other areas of the relationship, I wouldn't dump her, but it sounds like you're dating an airhead due to how comical her emotional outbursts are set off on nonsensical stuff such as hearing a woman's voice on song triggering her.

 

[Won Won]

My girl was over because I had the day off

I'm renting a room from my friend while I'm in town.

she's showing the friend my bedroom

This woman says "oh, I can't show my friend OUR home?"

 

[Born Rich]

like the other brehs said if this the first red flag and she good otherwise, have a convo and make sure she understand where you coming from…

if she has unresolved trauma tho, it’s better to cut it loose early before y’all get too deep…

not even just relationship trauma either, breh…my last 3 exes had family trauma that affected our relationship too so take all things into consideration…

 

[Born Rich]

i was a lil confused about that too…

 

[Fiji Water]

I'm tryna figure out where I wanna move and I couldn't stay in my city anymore. Too much shyt going on, so I'm renting a room from my homie because on of the issues was losing my job. Just getting back on my feet but we be fukking bytches, so here I am lol.

The other shyt has me confused as well lmao

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I'm gonna burp the worm whether I got a gf or not. She ain't always on deck and if I have a long day of work ahead of me or I just need to clear my head, I'm going to masturbate a few times to get right.

Most of my jacking off is holistic. Self care is important for my mental health.

sounds like miserable existence tbh.
i mean.... especially the begging for porno links part. maybe if you just kept it to yourself
like... imagine you had access to your gf chats and you see she in there begging for pornos

so that might be some insight into your question. when you are judging the faults of your spouse... maybe compare it to yourself and ask yourself if you deserve better

 

[b_b]

bro what

 

[mag357]

Who iz you nikkaz

 

[DJSmooth]

Too old for this lmao. 33.

Lmaooooo how she end up your gf? Would have bushed her a long time ago can't stand slow women.