Would You Date Someone With Multiple Kids If You Had None Yourself?

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and all this is nullified because she is a single mother with 3 kids, again this is the game they run on anyone, sex is amazing to ramp up them dophamine levels and draw you in, all logic goes out the window as you jut thtink emotionally now and fall further in the quick sand. Look at you already knowing the situation is messed up but trying to justify it with a few little things :snoop:

Just like a old basketball player like kobe bryant, he can no longer rely on speed and athleticism like he did as a young player, so he has to adapt his game, work on tha tpull up jumper, coming off screens and his jumper to still stay relevant, hsa to be more crafty on d to not get blowed by a single mother works on her personality, works on teh craft of appearing great so yu think (damn ima treat her better than all those wicked men shes telling me about), basically shes a great used car salesman selling you that rusted ford pinto with the transmission failing but go in breh

:banderas: @ that used car salesman and Bean analogy.
 

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24? Don't do it breh. Assuming you are around the same age, there has to be someone out there that fits the same bill WITHOUT the baggage. No offense to the young lady, but 3 kids that young...something is off or something is going to be off in the long-run. But you already sound sprung, so what I'm saying is going to be irrelevant :heh:

The bolded text only billboard size!! I tried a similar situation as yours, after all the fun settled down we just realized it wasn't gonna work. Took some smart thinking of my own and some friends to knock some good advice in my head for me to get it.
 

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Idk bout 3 kids.. my shorty got one kid that she had when she lost her virginity,and her baby father moved an hour away as soon as she had it.. I can't front I think everything going good now because we don't live together.. Her daughter be mad fukking annoying sometimes to the point I be ready to whoop her ass.. I don't know if I would be able to handle that shyt if we lived together..
 

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Honestly, unless you hate kids, I don't see what the big deal is. She clearly owns up to her decisions and is taking care of her crew, and you two actually get along well. The real question is why NOT talk to her......to follow some strict ideal??!

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I prefer him to not have kids at all. But the most I could tolerate is two kids. It has nothing to do with the kids it's the automatic life connection he has with another woman or more.
 

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DON'T DO IT! The same tricks she used to trap that 2nd guy are the same tricks she's using on you! The devil really knows how to play mind games in order to make you fall into his trap. It's so demonic brehs! :to:
 

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No.

If the baby daddy ain't dead he a constant threat to come over and fukk

You'll never be able to give her her first kid so she'll always have some sort of link/connection (what if/we can make it work/ I miss you /let's do it for the kids etc) to the first baby daddy (which links to first pt)

having 3 kids before you 25 just shows poor decision making and a chick who does not think long term.

I personally would never date anyone with kids unless dude was dead, and even then there are to many chick's out here to settle for used goods (I tell females the same thing in regards to dudes)


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