Would You Date Someone With Multiple Kids If You Had None Yourself?

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it depends on the age of the children, what her economic situation is like and if the kids father is still in the picture.

:mjlol:....

Fam...Its not like this nikka is 36 years old and divorced with kids...

Why would a nikka with no kids take on that?
 

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before this turns into another black woman bashing-single mothers have ruined the world thread...

I've been recently "seeing" a girl....she's awesome.....she's the very rare black nerdy chick.....very intelligent, good convo, the box is :wow: we spent yesterday watching walking dead, playing some game where you guess logos, fukking, arguing about possible endings to game of thrones (she reads the books :wow: )....she even posts at internet forums (not here and i'm not linking her :ufdup: )

but here it comes yall.....she's 24 with THREE kids :mjcry: she was engaged at 19 and had 2 babies with that guy before they fell out....then popped out another one last year from a high school friend who then preceeded to go into witness protection and has since disappeared.....

whats yall thoughts in situations like these brehs? as always with coli consensus I will look at yalls most suggested plan of action and do the exact opposite :smile:

i'm semi young with no kids and just starting to come out of my whore phase...i dont wanna settle down and the thought of children terrify me but this girl yall.... idk

Why did she pop out a third kid with a guy who she wasn't even married and/or engaged to? And he had to go into witness protection, which speaks to his character.

She doesn't sound like she exercises good judgment. Save yourself the headache and deal with a childless woman, breh.
 

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Only a retarded fukk boy would get on a fukking plane with a backpack full of issues and willingly sit next to a hoe with 3 suitcases' worth of drama that originated from some other nikka's balls. Not to mention all the other baggage she checked that yo dumb, thirsty ass don't know bout.

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this is what single mothers do, you wonder wow we have so much in common she does so many things, she reads books finishes my sentences, keeps my belly full the sex is amazing , its all a act to get caught in their web, next thing you know you'll be babysitting and taking her kids out for dinner.

not 1 not 2 but 3 :dahell:, it doesn't evne matter what the coli says because "you know her better than we do, and shes not like that"

all women have a sob story and script to sell you, all my exes were horrible wah wah keep drinking that kool aid

enjoy having your life destroyed breh
 

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Why did she pop out a third kid with a guy who she wasn't even married and/or engaged to? And he had to go into witness protection, which speaks to his character.

She doesn't sound like she exercises good judgment. Save yourself the headache and deal with a childless woman, breh.

dudes love them fixer uppers and being captain save a


relationships are hard alreadly with just TWO people let alone 7 her and her 3 kids and two baby daddies and you
 

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24? Don't do it breh. Assuming you are around the same age, there has to be someone out there that fits the same bill WITHOUT the baggage. No offense to the young lady, but 3 kids that young...something is off or something is going to be off in the long-run. But you already sound sprung, so what I'm saying is going to be irrelevant :heh:
 

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this is what single mothers do, you wonder wow we have so much in common she does so many things, she reads books finishes my sentences, keeps my belly full the sex is amazing , its all a act to get caught in their web, next thing you know you'll be babysitting and taking her kids out for dinner.

not 1 not 2 but 3 :dahell:, it doesn't evne matter what the coli says because "you know her better than we do, and shes not like that"

all women have a sob story and script to sell you, all my exes were horrible wah wah keep drinking that kool aid

enjoy having your life destroyed breh

Yeah. Single mothers learn to be chameleons to try to attract a man. They have to. Otherwise, they'd never get any play in the dating game.

Single mothers are only meant for smashing this day and age. 30-40 years ago, it was a different story.
 

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saw this on yahoo this morning


http://news.yahoo.com/forgotten-facts-george-washington-private-life-094610658.html

Forgotten facts about George Washington’s private life

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3. Washington lost two stepchildren and didn’t have children of his own

Martha Washington, a widow, had two young children from her first marriage, Martha and John. George and Martha married in 1759, but didn’t have children of their own. His stepdaughter died at the age of 16 due to a seizure and his stepson died just after the siege of Yorktown in 1781, where he contracted a disease at the military encampment.
 

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I've dated a chick with kids before and the only way I'd do it again is if the daddy wasn't in the picture.

That nikka and his family was always and I didn't like that shyt at all. I understand it because they did have kids together but fukk that

i wouldn't even date a girl whose still friends with her ex, let alone some nikka she will always have a connection to, baby dad in them guts :shaq:
 

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Yeah. Single mothers learn to be chameleons to try to attract a man. They have to. Otherwise, they'd never get any play in the dating game.

Single mothers are only meant for smashing this day and age. 30-40 years ago, it was a different story.

:myman:
 

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:mjlol:....

Fam...Its not like this nikka is 36 years old and divorced with kids...

Why would a nikka with no kids take on that?

:yeshrug: Hell if I know....Im just trying to give the nikka some real life variables to consider.

p*ssy gets many nikkas caught up, Ain't shyt me or you can say that's gone make a difference if the nikka got his mind made up.
 

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:yeshrug: Hell if I know....Im just trying to give the nikka some real life variables to consider.

p*ssy gets many nikkas caught up, Ain't shyt me or you can say that's gone make a difference if the nikka got his mind made up.

Yeah your right...

I hope he listens..

I wish I did on some of the stupid shyt I've done
 

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.she's the very rare black nerdy chick.....very intelligent, good convo, the box is :wow: we spent yesterday watching walking dead, playing some game where you guess logos, fukking, arguing about possible endings to game of thrones (she reads the books :wow: )....she even posts at internet forums (not here and i'm not linking her :ufdup: )

and all this is nullified because she is a single mother with 3 kids, again this is the game they run on anyone, sex is amazing to ramp up them dophamine levels and draw you in, all logic goes out the window as you jut thtink emotionally now and fall further in the quick sand. Look at you already knowing the situation is messed up but trying to justify it with a few little things :snoop:

Just like a old basketball player like kobe bryant, he can no longer rely on speed and athleticism like he did as a young player, so he has to adapt his game, work on tha tpull up jumper, coming off screens and his jumper to still stay relevant, hsa to be more crafty on d to not get blowed by a single mother works on her personality, works on teh craft of appearing great so yu think (damn ima treat her better than all those wicked men shes telling me about), basically shes a great used car salesman selling you that rusted ford pinto with the transmission failing but go in breh
 
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