Would You Date Someone With Multiple Kids If You Had None Yourself?

[Groanman]

I had a buddy of mine who moved his girlfriend and her three kids into his house.

One day, the kids were acting up.

Buddy; "Hey! Y'all stop that shyt now!"
Kid: "You ain't our daddy!"


My friend told me that he got up and went out a rented a u-haul truck.
He backed it to his front door and began throwing all of his girls' shyt into the back of the truck.

Buddy (telling me the story): "I got one of them small u-hauls cause the bytch didn't have too much shyt."


Anyway, the girlfriend is confused and crying.

Girlfriend (to my Buddy): "Why are you doing this?! What's going on?!"
Buddy (to girlfriend): "I'll be damned if you let your kids disrespect me in my own damn house. Y'all gots to go."


After he loaded all of their shyt, he told his girlfriend, "Y'all get in. Y'all going to your mammy's house!"


My buddy is a big guy. Like obese big. So, there was only enough room in the front of the u-haul for him, the girlfriend, and one of her kids.

Girlfriend: "Well, we're just gonna have to come back for my other two kids."
Buddy: "No. We're making one trip."

This nga made the other two kids get in the back of the u-haul!!!


Me: "You cold, man! You cold!"

 

[Snitchin Splatter]

this shyt holds more weight coming from women

 

[A.V.]

nikkas is in here furious Yall really hate single moms
I have not spent a single dime on any one of these children. shyt, I haven't even seen them all together at the same time. Me and this girl are not dating, I have not wifed her up, nor is she pregnant by me or moving in. And probably has more common sense than a lot of these hoodboogers with no kids yall stick yall dikks in

On second thought, with this logic. I think you should stay with her OP. You're made for eachother

 

[Medicate]

O dont worry......stick around for longer... u will :scumbag: :thatsright: :biggapls:

Where do u really see this going... u have to think beyond your next nut

The nerve of any nikka paying for other nikkas seeds. I mean even in the animal kingdom, the other lion come in and get rid of those and put his own in there.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

never said that, I know math nikka..... lol
But I think he said her 1st was at 19 or something like that

So I guess that makes her daughter 5 huh

 

[karim]

Why are you talking about friends with benefits when the thread is obviously about moving beyond that? Just b/c you "like" someone doesn't make them good relationship material and just b/c you have been dealing with them on a very low level doesn't mean you "might as well" go beyond that. People should actually think about the relationships that they put themselves into. Glad he is actually using his brain and thinking beyond "might as well." It's just not a good decision. He is way too young to be taking on so much when he doesn't have to.


Off topic but...young...your girls need to get themselves together. Your single mother friends are running playing fukk buddy with dudes and paying for their own babysitters.You consider a dude paying for dinner and pizza as "taking on a father role?" Wow. No, those are things that he is suppose to be doing if he wants to be around. SM are always a package deal even if it's just casual. Ya'll seriously messing with dudes were breaking bread is optional? This is baffling to me. I've had a dude I just met pay a $100 parking ticket for me w/o even touching me and ya'll are spending your own money for dikk. What is the world?

you are a whore, he was a trick,of course he paid your parking ticket. it's like paying a delivery fee. i know you live in a world where it is normal that soulless trollops leech off of the gullible, so you have a hard time comprehending this, but woman who are not whores have to pay for shyt themselves. paying for their own shyt instead of living off of their vagina is what makes them not a whore.

 

[Midrash]

I don't think there is nothing wrong with dating an older single mother if the woman had the kids in a previous marriage and she got divorced. I know a lot of divorced single mothers that are happily married and the kids respect the stepfather. Sometimes two different single parents get together and make one huge super family ala Brady Bunch. Different strokes for different folks.



Now on the other hand this chick 24 with THREE kids by two different nikkas and has never been married. This just screams irresponsible and shows she lacks the ability to make intelligent life decisions. It sucks that the guys bailed on her but if she can't use intelligence to screen partners or even use some form of birth control, that right there shows she has some serious issues she has to work out. How do you expect her to make intelligent life decisions over the next 20 something odd years with you if she doesn't even have the common courtesy to use birth control? Think about this shyt my nikka. This didn't happen once and she learned her lesson, this happened TWICE!!



Hang around college campuses, frequent the coffee shops, go to stores often, go to the gym regularly, go to the bars, try and have your classy friends set you up with their single friends and I guarantee that you can find a girl in her early 20s without kids, good prospects of a careers and a lot more wife material for you breh. The girl doesn't have to be perfect but three kids by two dudes at 24 is someone who won't be very compatible for you my dude. Save those women for the single fathers.


Again don't sleep on the networking. A lot of my happily married friends now had somebody set them up on a blind date with somebody that was compatible with them. There are a lot of single nurses, teachers, secretaries, etc in their early to mid 20's who are childless and on the prowl for a husband because they already have their careers and they don't want the biological clock to expire. That's EASY childless p*ssy breh and you can start your family at any moment since she's already done with college.

 

[A.V.]

you are a whore, he was a trick,of course he paid your parking ticket. it's like paying a delivery fee. i know you live in a world where it is normal that soulless trollops leech off of the gullible, so you have a hard time comprehending this, but woman who are not whores have to pay for shyt themselves. paying for their own shyt instead of living off of their vagina is what makes them not a whore.

goddamn



whole Coli flaming this bytch

 

[Data-Hawk]

If I had no kids..than no. As a parent raising a child is time consuming and expensive. If things get serious between yall. Prepare to chip in. Maybe one kid, but kids.naw

No lie, my son told me this the other day.

Son: "Dad, I don't want a step mom"
Me: "Huh? I'm suppose to be lonely forever?"
Son: "You should of did it when I was younger".

Convo word for word.

 

[Killer Instinct]

She's 24 with three kids.
When this shyt blows up in your face - and it will - you're not going to have anyone to blame but yourself.

Chicks smile at dudes and they melt like butter and lose all cognitive functions.

 

[karim]

goddamn



whole Coli flaming this bytch

rightfully so. the audacity of this whore . she thinks she has it all figured out, the bytch considers herself a goal getter when all she did was trade her sould and dignity for a few lousy dollars. we can't just let this trollop poisen the minds of innocent coli brehettes. she needs to be put in her place.

 

[AkaDemiK]

never

 

[CinnaSlim]

@O RLY Whatever you do, do not become her next baby daddy!

 

[ThatTruth777]

fukk what everybody else saying breh, you can be #4

 

[Data-Hawk]

I just read the OP's first post. I mean obviously anything we say here, you aren't going to listen to anyway. We've all been there, where we want advice , but we really don't want to hear the truth.

Ehh I dont know man. I dated a girl who had 2 children by 2 different guys. She was smart, cool , went to U. Of Maryland and made around 50k+ a year. But she was CRAZY, her father tried to rape her when she was a kid. She use to cut herself. I cut it off because we worked in the same dept and I just got tired of talking to her literally all day.

Guess what? A week after we broke up, she went back to her 2nd childs Father and within 2 months was pregnant again. They seem to be happy though ( She's still on my FB ).