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Would You Date Someone With Multiple Kids If You Had None Yourself?
- Thread starter Snitchin Splatter
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CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
at some point one of the kids will challenge you and hit you with
"you ain't my daddy"
how do you feel about that op
http://www.azvideos.com/videos/hitmansammysam/stepdaddy.html
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
she was scheduled to be married when she had two of em
she seems to have a good head on her shoulders now so who am I to judge someone on past mistakes when she's making the best out of it?
Scheduled??
Like Brandy said, "Almost doesn't count." Boo, you're sprung. And this is coming from the daughter of a former single mother of 3.
Are her tubes tied? Did she learn from before? I can understand she was young with the first two. 19 seems to be the age everyone I know has a kid. I was engaged at 19 too.
And the second baby daddy had to leave abruptly.
Baby girl needs to be responsible. So y'all can have fun and date and all that as long as y'all wrap it up. I don't wanna see you caught up with a "happy accident."
Whatever you do, be careful, be cautious and take it slooooow.
Rose-colored glasses are powerful.
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
this is what single mothers do, you wonder wow we have so much in common she does so many things, she reads books finishes my sentences, keeps my belly full the sex is amazing , its all a act to get caught in their web, next thing you know you'll be babysitting and taking her kids out for dinner.
not 1 not 2 but 3, it doesn't evne matter what the coli says because "you know her better than we do, and shes not like that"
all women have a sob story and script to sell you, all my exes were horrible wah wah keep drinking that kool aid
enjoy having your life destroyed breh
If all her exes are horrible, we need to be looking at the common factor.
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
saw this on yahoo this morning
http://news.yahoo.com/forgotten-facts-george-washington-private-life-094610658.html
Forgotten facts about George Washington’s private life
3. Washington lost two stepchildren and didn’t have children of his own
Martha Washington, a widow, had two young children from her first marriage, Martha and John. George and Martha married in 1759, but didn’t have children of their own. His stepdaughter died at the age of 16 due to a seizure and his stepson died just after the siege of Yorktown in 1781, where he contracted a disease at the military encampment.
Washington was completely sterile.
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
This is the most agreeable thing I've seen you post here.
I remember there was this sexy ass black girl in my chemistry lab back in school. She was the only female in our lab and I lucked out because she was slim black girl with a nice ass, naturally long hair and a pretty face. I started spitting game to her, flirting, I got her number and she was all on me until one day she told me she had to leave the library early to go pick up her son. Shyt had me like 
and I found out she was like 26-27 with like a 3 year old I think. After I found out about the kid, I stopped flirting with her completely. She was hot(Looked like Regina Hall) but I wasn't ready for all of that, especially as a college kid that was barely old enough to drink. It sucked because she was a catch too and would have had so many options had she not had a kid.
Another time I went over to my sister's apartment and there was this pretty ass light skinned girl, skinny with brown curly hair and green eyes.
I put my swag on 
and started spitting game before I heard a baby crying and she said she had to go make sure her son was alright.
Seriously that shyt fukked me up. I came over another day and my sister had another fine ass black roommate(my sister had 3 roommates, it was one of those student apartments) before I knew it I found out she had a kid too!
I'm about to flip out because as much as I sympathize for single mothers, I just can't do it. Not at my age.(Maybe in my 30s). We have to do a better job of taking care of our daughters brehs. I've seen too many bomb ass black women sell themselves short in terms of wife material because they get knocked up by bum ass dusty nikkas out of low self esteem. Then these bum ass nikkas ain't even have the decency to wife the broad or raise the kid. They just run away or if the wife is a smut, she doesn't even know who the baby daddy is.
and I found out she was like 26-27 with like a 3 year old I think. After I found out about the kid, I stopped flirting with her completely. She was hot(Looked like Regina Hall) but I wasn't ready for all of that, especially as a college kid that was barely old enough to drink. It sucked because she was a catch too and would have had so many options had she not had a kid.Another time I went over to my sister's apartment and there was this pretty ass light skinned girl, skinny with brown curly hair and green eyes.
I put my swag on and started spitting game before I heard a baby crying and she said she had to go make sure her son was alright. Seriously that shyt fukked me up. I came over another day and my sister had another fine ass black roommate(my sister had 3 roommates, it was one of those student apartments) before I knew it I found out she had a kid too!I'm about to flip out because as much as I sympathize for single mothers, I just can't do it. Not at my age.(Maybe in my 30s). We have to do a better job of taking care of our daughters brehs. I've seen too many bomb ass black women sell themselves short in terms of wife material because they get knocked up by bum ass dusty nikkas out of low self esteem. Then these bum ass nikkas ain't even have the decency to wife the broad or raise the kid. They just run away or if the wife is a smut, she doesn't even know who the baby daddy is.
nikka if you cuff that hoe, you a fukkin simpleton i can already tell you went raw. 
Let's think about this....In simpletons pace so you'll understand. ..
She a down to earth chick right? Why? Cuz tha bytch lost playin hoe...of course she gone try other techniques now...
Let's think about this....In simpletons pace so you'll understand. ..
She a down to earth chick right? Why? Cuz tha bytch lost playin hoe...of course she gone try other techniques now...
nah, 1 child has become my limit
I can't believe I've read half of another SINGLE MOTHER thread. But, since I'm lurking and dapping, folk;
@O RLY is in lust with an woman in a precarious situation. With three children by two different me; you're set up for a complicated life at a young age, brother.
But, your sprung because your fornicating with her and your emotions are sayin' "COOL." But, logic would say; something's not right.
She's even having sex with you, now. You're on the line up to be Father #3 for kid #4. She's obviously not to worried about another one.
I watched the little back and forth between @TheStripper & @Twyla and I've always been on this;
I want to be with a responsible woman. Your children--if you have no husband--are the most important thing to you. I don't want to have to share you with three other people. But, oh, you'll make time for me?
Nah...
If you have a child; your free time (outside of working for money) should be spent caring for your children. SHE GOT THREE! She doesn't have time for dating!
Again, your lust is clouding your judgement.
If she was past her mistakes, then she'd wait 'til you married her to have sex. You know...to prevent the exact same thing from happening for the 4th time.
The Rough Guide to Single Moms
I thought I would set down a “rough guide” for men thinking about starting a relationship with a single mom and what some of the ramifications are of dating and entering into a deeper relationship with a single mom could be. Of course this guide does not apply to all women or all men but it will list the main problems I have observed through over the years.
Contrary to popular media-myth I have yet to meet a single mom who was career driven, carefree, balanced, happy; doing it all type gal as often portrayed in most media outlets. The reality I have seen over the years is usually a stressed out, overworked, debt stricken woman who really had no idea children cost so much in time, effort and money. Their careers are on hold as they need to balance their child with sickness, school activities etc… versus moving up whatever career ladder they are on. Most single moms are raising their children with help of an extended family member (usually their mom), a bevy of friends and other single moms they find in support groups. It is usually not a pretty picture at all.
Somewhere along the way, usually quite quickly they come up with the idea that they need a “partner” to help them in their new enterprise of having a child and the sooner they can get one the better. Realizing they have a bit of a disadvantage with having a child and being in the dating scene they resort to several well known strategies to get a partner.
One of the first strategies is to engage men who do not have children of their own. This allows the woman to portray the semblance of having and raising a kid is easy and there will always be a balance between their relationship with their partner and their child. Sometimes they will portray themselves as helpless victims, victimized by an evil and absent father – they need saving and you can save them. Another popular scheme is to make themselves look accomplished and together by extending their debt to ridiculous levels to portray they are all right and don’t really need a partner. There are quite a few more, but like I said, this is a rough guide.
One of the strategies is to involve the child with the prospective “partner” almost right away and foster a relationship between the man and her child. This allows a lot of leverage on several levels as time goes by. It allows for huge amount of guilt and shame if the man wants to break off the relationship, allows a bonding to take place that is hard to shuck off and other factors… You will hear phrases such as “any man who loves me must love my children!” etc…All designed to appeal to a mans sense of chivalry and protection. This hopefully facilitates a sense of belonging together and in the end marriage.
Most single men are unaware of what is going on when they start to date a single mom. It seems that the child is around, but it is pleasant, there is a clear distinction between adult and child time etc… it seems actually for most men, not a bad time at all. This allows the single mom to get the man closer and farther into the relationship.
What is really going on is a shyt-load of help from the single moms friends and other helpers. Tons of babysitting services, tips on dating, comparing notes and plans etc… No matter what you see as a man there is something else going on – do not forget that. Her plan is to eventually get a partner one way or another. You are the prize and she is going to earn it.
One trait that seems to come to the forefront with most men who are dating single moms is just how wonderful a woman they really are. Most men cannot for the life of them figure out why another man would abandon a woman like her. It has been stated hat single moms are more caring, compassionate, great lovers, excellent cooks, laugh at all your jokes etc…they seem to be ideal mates.
What is actually going on is well planned and orchestrated strategies to get a man into a relationship. I don’t know how many men have loudly complained that after marriage they were suddenly now doing most of the cooking, cleaning, and repairing around the house with zero time like they had before. I don’t know how many have said it was like night and day after they moved in. The kind compassionate woman the men met had some how now been replaced by a truly different woman, it was like another personality type than the one they married. In short a single mom knows she has to work harder to get a man and she will work harder, but for many the act cannot last that long and the real woman reveals herself. Usually his occurs just after marriage.
A lot of men though go for it and involve themselves in marriage with a single mom and do not really know some of the problems they will encounter. Here is a short list of several common problems that begin to creep up:
1. Being a “partner” means you get to pay for half- if not more. I have noticed after marriage a single mom works at dizzying speed to make sure her mans name is on all of the bills. She also will usually demand money also for a huge amount of her child’s expenses. It is also expressed as a part of “loving her and showing it”. I have seen men putting money away for college for a kid that’s not his. Buying ridiculous amounts of brand name clothes, expensive homes etc… all in an effort to be in a so-called “family”.
2. The Family you just got into is by invitation only. In most traditional marriages that produce children, the man, woman and child or children make up he basic family unit. In being a step- parent you are not the basic unit. The mother and child together are the basic unit. You are invited in and can be un-invited whenever mom feels it to be so. No matter what is said or mentioned before marriage, you will never come before her child. You will always be in a family and relationship where you come second, maybe third.
3. No matter what you think… her ex is going to be there forever. In just about every case the child’s father does not seem to be in the picture during the dating and courtship stage but seems to suddenly show up after. The reality is he was always there, your partner just never mentioned it…. The father will most naturally want to have a relationship with his child and he is going to be quite involved most of the time. Just about every time you will be dragged into the endless bickering and fights they have and you will not be liked by him…its only natural remember… also be sure to take into account the grandparents, uncles and aunts and all the family functions you will be attending with him, his child, his ex (your partner) and his side of the family. Get used to being uncomfortable.
4. Her kid will most likely not like you very much. Let’s face it you’re sleeping with their mom and most of the time the child will see you as a roadblock to his parents getting back together. Most likely the mom has made you the giver of discipline in the relationship, being the man and all…which results in the kid hating you. Or after watching the child run amok for weeks after you arrive you change juniors’ schedule to include some discipline and then you also hated even more. An amazing amount of men involved with single mothers report how the child hates them, but he can keep buying gifts to try to win their affection. Some call it the ATM effect of diminishing returns.
5. All that time you had together with your new love will end after marriage. The number one job of a single mom is simply to be a mom. She is not a party girl, hiker, camper, biker, clubber etc… Just be prepared for a frontal assault on your time and money after marriage. You will find your weekdays taken up with homework, PTA meetings, suppers at home, and early bed times. Weekends will be the time for the child’s extra-curricular activities and other activities. If a single man is wondering what happens ask any father of children how their time is spent, it will not be on hobbies. You will hear endlessly the phrase “we are a family now and this is what a family does” of course your idea on family will differ…but it is her family and she will make the choices.
6. You will wonder what happened to all your money. Most men involved with a single mom report that their money seems to dry up. Children are expensive- expensive like most men have no idea. Between school supplies, clothing, vast amounts of food, babysitters if you ever want to go out, medications, fees, sports, supplies, toys and such… well, there will be little left.
As a footnote there is also another ploy by some single moms that men also forget about. The child’s father is paying for a lot of these things. Quite a few men have reported that their wife or girlfriend was getting them to pay for such things as sport fees, equipment, university funds, school supplies and such but at the same time getting the child’s father to pay for these things also. Double billing, also called fraud, is quite common but it does allow the single mom to have almost zero expenses for her child as two men are now paying for junior….
Another ploy that is quite horrific was a man whose wife owned a home and he moved in with her and her child. Although he fixed it up, paid half the mortgage and expenses- she had willed the home to her children. When confronted she said since she would be dead she did not care if he had a home or not, her child came first. So be careful with matters of money. Very careful.
7. You will never really be accepted. I have observed time and time again the heartbreak of a step parent as the child gets older. After putting them through school, providing a place to live, food, getting the child all kinds of gifts and honestly really caring about the child and such I keep hearing this one story over and over. The time comes for a grad or a wedding, the step parent thinks he might be lauded for his sacrifices but instead is shunted to a back seat or not invited as the child invites mom and dad to the party…and thanks them for all their love and work. Usually there is not even an acknowledgement of effort.
8. You will now be part of the single moms’ network. Be prepared to help out all her buddies as they helped her out. Endless weekends and nights of babysitting the other single moms kids so that they too may date and get a man. You will also discover why 75% of all people in jail come from single mother households. Try not to have any expensive items around…
9. Now that the single mom is now married she will need to impress her single mom friends with her new found happiness. Her happiness will usually include a new home in a good neighbourhood, new clothing, new items for the home, new car etc… there is an unwritten law it seems among a lot of single moms that they compete ruthlessly with their friends. If she does get married she needs to show them her new found prestige. Be prepared for huge new expenses.
10. You will have no time for errors. A lot of single men get involved with the single mom and her kids when the child is a bit older. Being inexperienced with children becomes a huge burden as the single man has no time to learn parenting skills…and mistakes are not readily forgiven nor forgotten when a kid is 4 compared to 14.
11. You may think it ends, but it never does. I know many men whose single mom wife promised them a completely different life after junior turned 18 or so. At the beginning of the relationship it looked like just a few years and then total privacy and freedom. Then years later they found out that junior is going to go to university for 6 years after taking a gap year off and not worry about a job as he will live at home. After that the story usually is that the child gets married and has kids and needs a ton of babysitting services. The dream of trips abroad, moving to a nicer place etc… evaporates for most men. They just wind up being early grandparents. The other option that happens a lot is the girls have children early and stay at home. Not only is the man taking care of his wife’s child he also has to care for her grandchild now!
12. You will have nothing to show for it. In the end when most men have their own children the work and effort is well worth it. The men did their best and raised a family, continued a line, get grandchildren…etc… As a step-parent you have contributed as much but you have nothing. Nobody carries on your name and most men realize they are not even ever thanked for their sacrifice.
13. The legalities can kill you. There have been numerous cases where a man has divorced or left a single mom and then found himself liable financially for her child. Although not the father he will be responsible for child payments, extra fees and most certainly university far after they are 18….check the laws out, it’s a raw deal. Couple that with some alimony and you get the whole effect of being a divorced and homeless dad with not one child of your own….
In the end women have asked for their freedom to make their own choices now for decades. I would advise all single men to let single moms make their choice of having a child by themselves and then live with it. Don’t involve yourself with these women under any circumstances. It can be in many ways, the death of a man.
Well it’s a rough guide and you were warned….
http://happybachelors.wordpress.com/2010/07/28/the-rough-guide-to-single-moms/
I thought I would set down a “rough guide” for men thinking about starting a relationship with a single mom and what some of the ramifications are of dating and entering into a deeper relationship with a single mom could be. Of course this guide does not apply to all women or all men but it will list the main problems I have observed through over the years.
Contrary to popular media-myth I have yet to meet a single mom who was career driven, carefree, balanced, happy; doing it all type gal as often portrayed in most media outlets. The reality I have seen over the years is usually a stressed out, overworked, debt stricken woman who really had no idea children cost so much in time, effort and money. Their careers are on hold as they need to balance their child with sickness, school activities etc… versus moving up whatever career ladder they are on. Most single moms are raising their children with help of an extended family member (usually their mom), a bevy of friends and other single moms they find in support groups. It is usually not a pretty picture at all.
Somewhere along the way, usually quite quickly they come up with the idea that they need a “partner” to help them in their new enterprise of having a child and the sooner they can get one the better. Realizing they have a bit of a disadvantage with having a child and being in the dating scene they resort to several well known strategies to get a partner.
One of the first strategies is to engage men who do not have children of their own. This allows the woman to portray the semblance of having and raising a kid is easy and there will always be a balance between their relationship with their partner and their child. Sometimes they will portray themselves as helpless victims, victimized by an evil and absent father – they need saving and you can save them. Another popular scheme is to make themselves look accomplished and together by extending their debt to ridiculous levels to portray they are all right and don’t really need a partner. There are quite a few more, but like I said, this is a rough guide.
One of the strategies is to involve the child with the prospective “partner” almost right away and foster a relationship between the man and her child. This allows a lot of leverage on several levels as time goes by. It allows for huge amount of guilt and shame if the man wants to break off the relationship, allows a bonding to take place that is hard to shuck off and other factors… You will hear phrases such as “any man who loves me must love my children!” etc…All designed to appeal to a mans sense of chivalry and protection. This hopefully facilitates a sense of belonging together and in the end marriage.
Most single men are unaware of what is going on when they start to date a single mom. It seems that the child is around, but it is pleasant, there is a clear distinction between adult and child time etc… it seems actually for most men, not a bad time at all. This allows the single mom to get the man closer and farther into the relationship.
What is really going on is a shyt-load of help from the single moms friends and other helpers. Tons of babysitting services, tips on dating, comparing notes and plans etc… No matter what you see as a man there is something else going on – do not forget that. Her plan is to eventually get a partner one way or another. You are the prize and she is going to earn it.
One trait that seems to come to the forefront with most men who are dating single moms is just how wonderful a woman they really are. Most men cannot for the life of them figure out why another man would abandon a woman like her. It has been stated hat single moms are more caring, compassionate, great lovers, excellent cooks, laugh at all your jokes etc…they seem to be ideal mates.
What is actually going on is well planned and orchestrated strategies to get a man into a relationship. I don’t know how many men have loudly complained that after marriage they were suddenly now doing most of the cooking, cleaning, and repairing around the house with zero time like they had before. I don’t know how many have said it was like night and day after they moved in. The kind compassionate woman the men met had some how now been replaced by a truly different woman, it was like another personality type than the one they married. In short a single mom knows she has to work harder to get a man and she will work harder, but for many the act cannot last that long and the real woman reveals herself. Usually his occurs just after marriage.
A lot of men though go for it and involve themselves in marriage with a single mom and do not really know some of the problems they will encounter. Here is a short list of several common problems that begin to creep up:
1. Being a “partner” means you get to pay for half- if not more. I have noticed after marriage a single mom works at dizzying speed to make sure her mans name is on all of the bills. She also will usually demand money also for a huge amount of her child’s expenses. It is also expressed as a part of “loving her and showing it”. I have seen men putting money away for college for a kid that’s not his. Buying ridiculous amounts of brand name clothes, expensive homes etc… all in an effort to be in a so-called “family”.
2. The Family you just got into is by invitation only. In most traditional marriages that produce children, the man, woman and child or children make up he basic family unit. In being a step- parent you are not the basic unit. The mother and child together are the basic unit. You are invited in and can be un-invited whenever mom feels it to be so. No matter what is said or mentioned before marriage, you will never come before her child. You will always be in a family and relationship where you come second, maybe third.
3. No matter what you think… her ex is going to be there forever. In just about every case the child’s father does not seem to be in the picture during the dating and courtship stage but seems to suddenly show up after. The reality is he was always there, your partner just never mentioned it…. The father will most naturally want to have a relationship with his child and he is going to be quite involved most of the time. Just about every time you will be dragged into the endless bickering and fights they have and you will not be liked by him…its only natural remember… also be sure to take into account the grandparents, uncles and aunts and all the family functions you will be attending with him, his child, his ex (your partner) and his side of the family. Get used to being uncomfortable.
4. Her kid will most likely not like you very much. Let’s face it you’re sleeping with their mom and most of the time the child will see you as a roadblock to his parents getting back together. Most likely the mom has made you the giver of discipline in the relationship, being the man and all…which results in the kid hating you. Or after watching the child run amok for weeks after you arrive you change juniors’ schedule to include some discipline and then you also hated even more. An amazing amount of men involved with single mothers report how the child hates them, but he can keep buying gifts to try to win their affection. Some call it the ATM effect of diminishing returns.
5. All that time you had together with your new love will end after marriage. The number one job of a single mom is simply to be a mom. She is not a party girl, hiker, camper, biker, clubber etc… Just be prepared for a frontal assault on your time and money after marriage. You will find your weekdays taken up with homework, PTA meetings, suppers at home, and early bed times. Weekends will be the time for the child’s extra-curricular activities and other activities. If a single man is wondering what happens ask any father of children how their time is spent, it will not be on hobbies. You will hear endlessly the phrase “we are a family now and this is what a family does” of course your idea on family will differ…but it is her family and she will make the choices.
6. You will wonder what happened to all your money. Most men involved with a single mom report that their money seems to dry up. Children are expensive- expensive like most men have no idea. Between school supplies, clothing, vast amounts of food, babysitters if you ever want to go out, medications, fees, sports, supplies, toys and such… well, there will be little left.
As a footnote there is also another ploy by some single moms that men also forget about. The child’s father is paying for a lot of these things. Quite a few men have reported that their wife or girlfriend was getting them to pay for such things as sport fees, equipment, university funds, school supplies and such but at the same time getting the child’s father to pay for these things also. Double billing, also called fraud, is quite common but it does allow the single mom to have almost zero expenses for her child as two men are now paying for junior….
Another ploy that is quite horrific was a man whose wife owned a home and he moved in with her and her child. Although he fixed it up, paid half the mortgage and expenses- she had willed the home to her children. When confronted she said since she would be dead she did not care if he had a home or not, her child came first. So be careful with matters of money. Very careful.
7. You will never really be accepted. I have observed time and time again the heartbreak of a step parent as the child gets older. After putting them through school, providing a place to live, food, getting the child all kinds of gifts and honestly really caring about the child and such I keep hearing this one story over and over. The time comes for a grad or a wedding, the step parent thinks he might be lauded for his sacrifices but instead is shunted to a back seat or not invited as the child invites mom and dad to the party…and thanks them for all their love and work. Usually there is not even an acknowledgement of effort.
8. You will now be part of the single moms’ network. Be prepared to help out all her buddies as they helped her out. Endless weekends and nights of babysitting the other single moms kids so that they too may date and get a man. You will also discover why 75% of all people in jail come from single mother households. Try not to have any expensive items around…
9. Now that the single mom is now married she will need to impress her single mom friends with her new found happiness. Her happiness will usually include a new home in a good neighbourhood, new clothing, new items for the home, new car etc… there is an unwritten law it seems among a lot of single moms that they compete ruthlessly with their friends. If she does get married she needs to show them her new found prestige. Be prepared for huge new expenses.
10. You will have no time for errors. A lot of single men get involved with the single mom and her kids when the child is a bit older. Being inexperienced with children becomes a huge burden as the single man has no time to learn parenting skills…and mistakes are not readily forgiven nor forgotten when a kid is 4 compared to 14.
11. You may think it ends, but it never does. I know many men whose single mom wife promised them a completely different life after junior turned 18 or so. At the beginning of the relationship it looked like just a few years and then total privacy and freedom. Then years later they found out that junior is going to go to university for 6 years after taking a gap year off and not worry about a job as he will live at home. After that the story usually is that the child gets married and has kids and needs a ton of babysitting services. The dream of trips abroad, moving to a nicer place etc… evaporates for most men. They just wind up being early grandparents. The other option that happens a lot is the girls have children early and stay at home. Not only is the man taking care of his wife’s child he also has to care for her grandchild now!
12. You will have nothing to show for it. In the end when most men have their own children the work and effort is well worth it. The men did their best and raised a family, continued a line, get grandchildren…etc… As a step-parent you have contributed as much but you have nothing. Nobody carries on your name and most men realize they are not even ever thanked for their sacrifice.
13. The legalities can kill you. There have been numerous cases where a man has divorced or left a single mom and then found himself liable financially for her child. Although not the father he will be responsible for child payments, extra fees and most certainly university far after they are 18….check the laws out, it’s a raw deal. Couple that with some alimony and you get the whole effect of being a divorced and homeless dad with not one child of your own….
In the end women have asked for their freedom to make their own choices now for decades. I would advise all single men to let single moms make their choice of having a child by themselves and then live with it. Don’t involve yourself with these women under any circumstances. It can be in many ways, the death of a man.
Well it’s a rough guide and you were warned….
http://happybachelors.wordpress.com/2010/07/28/the-rough-guide-to-single-moms/
this is what single mothers do, you wonder wow we have so much in common she does so many things, she reads books finishes my sentences, keeps my belly full the sex is amazing , its all a act to get caught in their web, next thing you know you'll be babysitting and taking her kids out for dinner.
not 1 not 2 but 3
all women have a sob story and script to sell you, all my exes were horrible wah wah keep drinking that kool aid
enjoy having your life destroyed breh
that single mother game
Wakes you up with breakfast in bed and your cock in her mouth
F*cks the first night
Knows how to f*ck
Acquiesces to all your demands
Cleans and knows her place
Does her best to help with the bills
Real talk if childless women had single mother game every nikka on the planet would be married
and all this is nullified because she is a single mother with 3 kids, again this is the game they run on anyone, sex is amazing to ramp up them dophamine levels and draw you in, all logic goes out the window as you jut thtink emotionally now and fall further in the quick sand. Look at you already knowing the situation is messed up but trying to justify it with a few little things
Just like a old basketball player like kobe bryant, he can no longer rely on speed and athleticism like he did as a young player, so he has to adapt his game, work on tha tpull up jumper, coming off screens and his jumper to still stay relevant, hsa to be more crafty on d to not get blowed by a single mother works on her personality, works on teh craft of appearing great so yu think (damn ima treat her better than all those wicked men shes telling me about), basically shes a great used car salesman selling you that rusted ford pinto with the transmission failing but go in breh
@Emperor_ReinScarf is like is that Matrix pill.
You almost don't wanna listen because the fake world being presented to you is so 
I almost got game ran on me too by a single mother, why even lie, she was a top 3 f*ck, super freak, no problems whatsoever, until she tried to pass a baby off as mine that was from another cat. Bish was just a straight nympho, which didn't bother me, but how you gon' let two different nikkaz nut inside of you? 
A lot of single mothers are super freaks and/or women who habitually make bad choices. A single mom is the type of bish that will throw away her marriage for one night with Tyson Beckford. You can f*ck/date, but please my man, please be careful, before you the next one to end up on that mammogram screen
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