Would You Date Someone With Multiple Kids If You Had None Yourself?

[Snitchin Splatter]

Breh, that's a MAJOR red flag, why are you still dealing with this scallywag? How is she surviving without some sort of financial support from her baby fathers? I'd drop her if I was you.

the first father of the 1st two kids supports them and even helps out with the 3rd... (he's some club party promoter cat with bread...)

Only thing I'm supporting now is her back after blowing it out nightly.....

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

the first father of the 1st two kids supports them and even helps out with the 3rd... (he's some club party promoter cat with bread...)

Only thing I'm supporting now is her back after blowing it out nightly.....

Another flag breh, I would advise against getting emotional drawn to this chick, but it sounds like it's too late for you

 

[*Angel*]

That wasn't directed at u

But

This lady has three

And I'm sure she was thinking about protection when BD #2 was with her

And that produced another kid

I'm still trying to figure out how you balance a job, giving the proper attention they deserve (looks like the oldest is barely five), and carrying on with men

Sometimes its time to shut it down and get your self together

Get all them kids in school b4 ur out trying to get men

Yeah, I wish most of you had started your posts with "Im an extremist/ this is an extreme opinion but here me out" so I would have known which posts to skip.

 

[Brandon M.]

lmao. is this even a question

 

[Typical Simp]

You are not a real man unless you have dated a woman with kids.

 

[KOOL-AID]

You are not a real man unless you have dated a woman with kids.

SHUTUP U IDIOT U DNT KNOW THE FIRST THING BOUT SIMPIN U FAKER, STOP GIVING OUT FALSE INFO OR ELSE I'LL BEAT U UP

 

[4fossa]

and all this is nullified because she is a single mother with 3 kids, again this is the game they run on anyone, sex is amazing to ramp up them dophamine levels and draw you in, all logic goes out the window as you jut thtink emotionally now and fall further in the quick sand. Look at you already knowing the situation is messed up but trying to justify it with a few little things

Just like a old basketball player like kobe bryant, he can no longer rely on speed and athleticism like he did as a young player, so he has to adapt his game, work on tha tpull up jumper, coming off screens and his jumper to still stay relevant, hsa to be more crafty on d to not get blowed by a single mother works on her personality, works on teh craft of appearing great so yu think (damn ima treat her better than all those wicked men shes telling me about), basically shes a great used car salesman selling you that rusted ford pinto with the transmission failing but go in breh

Ayyo breh. This post makes me realize that I'm taking a L.

See, I'm with a girl who is 7 years older. I'm 23 ad she's 30.

She's really nice and all the blablabla.

Anyway, I always thought about myself being a decent player. But now I see that I got caught on this analogy that u said.

At least she ain't got no kids lol

 

[Easy-E]

Yeah, I wish most of you had started your posts with "Im an extremist/ this is an extreme opinion but here me out" so I would have known which posts to skip.

I just believe a child's life is very important to their parents.

She has three and is raising them herself.

 

[kevm3]

lol@high school friend who disappeared before going into witness protection... and her husband jetted. what does that tell you? All them men that were in her life done got out. babygirl seems awesome and yet none of the dudes that kidded her up are still around? You better thank the dudes here for giving you that lashing before you get your butt caught up. Women know how to do this little thing called role playing. They know how to act and draw you in.

she is this sweet, nerdy girl but her man is a party promoter? Nerdy women can ho it up too. You better get out before you end up as daddy number 3.

 

[Mike Ock]

Good question idk what my intentions are...part of the reason this thread was made. She's a social worker btw...pretty stable and she was able to finish school even with the kids..

If she don't got her masters in that field, she's barely making decent money.

Sounds like she trying to soften you up to start babysitting for free for her while she hit the streets trying to make kid #4.

 

[I_Got_Da_Burna]

the first father of the 1st two kids supports them and even helps out with the 3rd... (he's some club party promoter cat with bread...)

Only thing I'm supporting now is her back after blowing it out nightly.....

you're a grade A simp breh

 

[Docaveli]

before this turns into another black woman bashing-single mothers have ruined the world thread...

I've been recently "seeing" a girl....she's awesome.....she's the very rare black nerdy chick.....very intelligent, good convo, the box is we spent yesterday watching walking dead, playing some game where you guess logos, fukking, arguing about possible endings to game of thrones (she reads the books )....she even posts at internet forums (not here and i'm not linking her )

but here it comes yall.....she's 24 with THREE kids she was engaged at 19 and had 2 babies with that guy before they fell out....then popped out another one last year from a high school friend who then preceeded to go into witness protection and has since disappeared.....

whats yall thoughts in situations like these brehs? as always with coli consensus I will look at yalls most suggested plan of action and do the exact opposite

i'm semi young with no kids and just starting to come out of my whore phase...i dont wanna settle down and the thought of children terrify me but this girl yall.... idk

If you had options, this wouldn't even be a question, u cant tell me if they put a single chick on the right side, and they put her on the left with her 3 kids we gun even have this discussion. Therefore I would tell you specifically because I damn sure ain't gun date a hoe with 3 kids because she give me a sob story.

But if that's the best you can do then that's the best you can do and in that case if she not a liability which I don't see how she not then do it.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

As a guy with NO kids..

Been there, done that, FUKK THAT!!

2 kids, 1 marriage, baby daddy, still on public housing at 35+, bad credit...



New chick has NO kids, and her own shyt, and qualified for a 250k loan..and thick as hayl..

 

[MikelArteta]

lol@high school friend who disappeared before going into witness protection... and her husband jetted. what does that tell you? All them men that were in her life done got out. babygirl seems awesome and yet none of the dudes that kidded her up are still around? You better thank the dudes here for giving you that lashing before you get your butt caught up. Women know how to do this little thing called role playing. They know how to act and draw you in.

she is this sweet, nerdy girl but her man is a party promoter? Nerdy women can ho it up too. You better get out before you end up as daddy number 3.

every woman got a sob story to sell you, and of course they were perfect in their relationship it was just the men that were horrible.

 

[Regine Hunter]

why not?
as long as the kids like me and are approving of their father dating.
it would help me figure out if i'd want some of my own.