Would you let your daughter have a sleepover with her friend who is from a single dad household?

[jdubnyce]

Them the main ones who be doing the molesting
The perpetrator is usually someone the victim knows

I dont disagree
No males in my family are demons though so Im comfortable with my decision

 

[boogers]

What man what to have a bunch of young girls screaming and yelling in your house especially when sports or a good movie is on

This nikka need help

i think most dads have the sense to know that its not a good idea in the first place. i generally believe kids, and it seems like the adults doing the most/too much end up being diddlers. like john wayne gacy and south park mexican, both loved in their communities

i remember my grandma and moms arguing in the other room about me and my cousin going to a sleepover. they argued all the damn time but i remember that time because my mom said i was too heavy to get molested

unless the parents were close friends of mine id prolly have to say no

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

The same men that vote no then turn around and say women hate men because they feel threatened by them lmao

I can imagine myself as a single father. And I can imagine if I was a single dad with a daughter who wanted to have a sleepover with her friend(s) I would be posted up in the living room enjoying my peace and quiet whilst gaming or watching tv.

I would also be the kind of parent who actually wants to be on good terms with the parents of my children's friends and if I dont trust them regardless of gender, that sleep over is not happening. So if im the parent of a daughter that wants to go to a sleepover at a household run by a person(s) I dont trust, thats a no.

Nggas gon fukk around and send their kids to a household with parents who runoff and a child dies or gets hurt because no adults were there, or they're white parents who get on some racist shyt. Could not be me

 

[Caca-faat]

So my 16 year old daughter is an idiot who isn’t able to not only remove herself from the situation and call an Uber, but also call me to address the situation according to you, random guy on the internet who doesn’t know her?

You sound creepy and weird.

How the hell am I supposed to know ur daughter is 16 when we are talking about children not teenagers who can more vouch for themselves. Are u dumb? Do I know ur personal life; how the hell am I supposed to know that!?

 

[Caca-faat]

I may be wrong but I let her know she can NEVER get in trouble with me. She's never been spanked and I've only yelled at her maybe twice in her 13 years.

She tells me everything...

I’m not saying ur approach is wrong. As u say she knows she can tell u everything and talk to u that’s fine. I’m just saying sometimes especially with girls we may view a reaction as our fault especially when we are young. If a PDF manipulates her she may view the situation as her getting someone else in trouble and she knows ur reaction may be rough justice but not understand the order in the process. Children internalise adult problems and reactions as their fault. I hope that makes sense.

 

[Bigblackted4]

I don’t believe in sleepovers period

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

What man what to have a bunch of young girls screaming and yelling in your house especially when sports or a good movie is on

This nikka need help

a man who prioritizes trying to appease and make positive memories for his daughter

 

[drederick tatum]

Friends asked me to babysit their 3 daughters once, and the oldest one had friends there for a sleepover. I was uncomfortable, but they didn't tell me any of the parents had an issue with it, and I'd never met any of them. We've been friends since we were kids ourselves, so I'm sure that helped.

 

[Unbothered]

I don't have any daughters, let alone any kids at this particular time, but hypothetically speaking, no, I would not allow my daughter to sleep over at a single father's house.

Even if there were other little girls present, I wouldn't trust it because, you know, there are a lot of variables at play, and then there are the underlying optics, such as the one the bruh and many of us are alluding to, that could be problematic.

I feel like women are a little better when it comes to planning and organizing events for little kids, especially, and obviously when it comes to girls and their personal needs, etc. Although I'm sure the bruh in the video understands a little girl's needs since he's raising his daughter alone, it's still a bit controversial to have a bunch of little girls by themselves spending the night at a man, who isn't kin to them, house.

I say kin because you should be able to give them the benefit of the doubt, I mean, if you can't trust your family, then shyt who do you trust? However, I understand some families have dark histories and the trust within has been broken in some cases, so for many, they may not trust their kin either.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Way more than u think. If u were in a room with 10 Women and asked who has been sexually assaulted or molested they would probably all put their hands up. If you asked how many of them had been molested as a child it may be 7 out of 10.

while we can only go on what's reported, even if doubled, it wouldn't be this high (based on available stats/research).

i think yall are letting our willingness to talk about SA more openly and report this behavior more often skew your views on how often it happens. in the 70's, if an uncle touched his niece, the family would keep it hush out of shame, denial, ignorance, "keeping family business private", and protecting their own (the abuser usually...smh). Now, a mom will turn in her brother, make a report, try to get her kid help/therapy/etc. Doesn't mean its more prevalent, just the willingness to overlook and hide it has decreased

 

[Caca-faat]

while we can only go on what's reported, even if doubled, it wouldn't be this high (based on available stats/research).

i think yall are letting our willingness to talk about SA more openly and report this behavior more often skew your views on how often it happens. in the 70's, if an uncle touched his niece, the family would keep it hush out of shame, denial, ignorance, "keeping family business private", and protecting their own (the abuser usually...smh). Now, a mom will turn in her brother, make a report, try to get her kid help/therapy/etc. Doesn't mean its more prevalent, just the willingness to overlook and hide it has decreased

If I asked 10 women I strongly believe it would still be 7 out of 10 would say they were inappropriately dealt with by an adult as a child. I’m not saying it’s more prevalent I’m accounting for those that are also unreported. Your mom, grandma, auntie, cousin, sister was probably touched and never told a soul because they were led to believe it was their fault.

 

[Barlow]

Whats sad is everyone saying no to their daughter even being around their own family but would probably send their son off to some random destination just because he’s getting on their nerves

 

[Ironman]

It's 2025 sleepovers are dead

 

[EA]

Times definitely have changed. Growing up in the 90s, kids from school were sleeping over like it was nothing.

With the advancement of tech and exposing these weirdo PDFs on social media, I understand why parents ain’t with it. Shieet back when my sister had sleep overs, all they did was bump Brandy and talk to each other. Now with these smart phones, they might be looking at some bullshyt together.

Yeah we had the talk with our daughter.

I asked her does she want her daddy in prison...because I will go animal crazy and not spare ANYONE should anything happen to her.

And it just so happens she believes me.

I've walked in the middle of her dance class and got her teacher right. Her mother, my wife almost met her ending for tapping her. My 120lb Doberman got yoked up like a breh for playing to rough.

I showed her that clip where some kids poured boiling water on another child at a sleepover. And asked her wtf she think I would've done...

My wife is a teacher and has to deal with safeguarding issues in her school and you’ll be surprised how many interventions she’s done where the issue started at a sleepover or from the kids being unsupervised at inappropriate times.

These kids are doing all kinds of fukkery on Snapchat and sending it to their classmates. Not to mention, you never know whose parents are predators too.

I want to make sure my daughter has a well rounded childhood and doesn’t miss out on key experiences that we had growing up but there’s too much to worry about now.

 

[Mrhateeverything]

As a single father, my kids have never asked me to have sleep overs at our house but I wouldn't want it/ I'd definitely say no
. I Wouldn't want to be accused and I know how society looks at things.

I once had cps called on me because they thought something was going on because I'm a single man raising twin daughters solo.
Disgusted me but people are people..
I look at it like better to be safe than sorry.



Im pretty lax with my twin daughters and have let them have sleepovers with friends..