Would you let your daughter have a sleepover with her friend who is from a single dad household?

Would you allow your daughter to sleep over at a single dads house?

  • Yes- not all men are predators

    Votes: 17 32.7%
  • No- not without another woman there

    Votes: 35 67.3%

  • Total voters
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dora_da_destroyer

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If I asked 10 women I strongly believe it would still be 7 out of 10 would say they were inappropriately dealt with by an adult as a child. I’m not saying it’s more prevalent I’m accounting for those that are also unreported. Your mom, grandma, auntie, cousin, sister was probably touched and never told a soul because they were led to believe it was their fault.
"inappropriately dealt with" is very different language than "molested" which your original post said, 70% of women def were not molested. i walked home as a middle schooler (had ass & t*ts by then) and definitely had grown men (21+) catcall or try to holler, so yes, that's inappropriate dealings, but that is not molestation, and def not the sick type going after little kids (pre-pubescent).
 

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I don’t let my kids spend the night no where. Maybe when they teens, but I’m not about to be the parent who kid come to them one day and say I put them in harm and they got molested or raped because of my negligence. fukk no. If it ain’t grandma, it’s nobody . My brother doesn’t have any kids , so they wouldn’t be there either. It’s best to be safe then sorry even if you know a man is not weird at all. I was molested by a woman like some others here and it happened because my mom straight let me spend the night at a family member house and didn’t do any real due diligence . I was like 7. Don’t matter what your kid wanna do. Protect them at all cost. It be uncles, cousins, all types of people
 

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No, this guy can send his daughter there if he wants her to have a sleepover
 

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Yeah we had the talk with our daughter.

I asked her does she want her daddy in prison...because I will go animal crazy and not spare ANYONE should anything happen to her.

And it just so happens she believes me.

I've walked in the middle of her dance class and got her teacher right. Her mother, my wife almost met her ending for tapping her. My 120lb Doberman got yoked up like a breh for playing to rough.

I showed her that clip where some kids poured boiling water on another child at a sleepover. And asked her wtf she think I would've done...
Your wife can’t discipline yall daughter? :dahell:
 

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I know some parents who don’t do sleepovers at all. You can never be too careful. And sometimes it’s the moms who are pedos. You never know.
 

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fukk no.
No woder he is a single dad.
If he thinks that shyt is a good idea he is a goofy and don't deserve a wife.

:what:
 

DamienWayne

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So many of our formative experiences good and bad happened at sleepovers.
Different times I suppose :mjcry: we really use to get on a bike and just go . I use to hang out with homeless , hang under bridges, look at playboys in the woods , practice french kissing , all before the street lights came on. My kids arnt allowed to go longer than 2 hours without communicating with me :russ:
 

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Different times I suppose :mjcry: we really use to get on a bike and just go . I use to hang out with homeless , hang under bridges, look at playboys in the woods , practice french kissing , all before the street lights came on. My kids arnt allowed to go longer than 2 hours without communicating with me :russ:


You really got hanging out w the homeless and French kissing in the same sentence…
 

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He needs more self awareness :huhldup:


nikka shouldn’t be suggesting no sleep overs or approving his daughter that she can have any :unimpressed:


Read the room dummy :francis:
 

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i think most dads have the sense to know that its not a good idea in the first place. i generally believe kids, and it seems like the adults doing the most/too much end up being diddlers. like john wayne gacy and south park mexican, both loved in their communities

i remember my grandma and moms arguing in the other room about me and my cousin going to a sleepover. they argued all the damn time but i remember that time because my mom said i was too heavy to get molested

unless the parents were close friends of mine id prolly have to say no
Damn you caught a stray for no reason. That was kinda f-ed up of mom.
"inappropriately dealt with" is very different language than "molested" which your original post said, 70% of women def were not molested. i walked home as a middle schooler (had ass & t*ts by then) and definitely had grown men (21+) catcall or try to holler, so yes, that's inappropriate dealings, but that is not molestation, and def not the sick type going after little kids (pre-pubescent).
It’s all the same to me and the second term is more all encompassing. But any kind of inappropriate behaviour with a child is all the same to me it’s all the same. If a man tried to make u feel his hard dikk through his pants it may not technically be molestation but it’s inappropriate sexual conduct with a minor. I wouldn’t put cat calling in this bracket at all and by being pedantic we may veer off course. Im not trying to break it down to the nitty gritty as this is not a court room but my point is still the same.
 
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