Would you let your daughter have a sleepover with her friend who is from a single dad household?

Would you allow your daughter to sleep over at a single dads house?

  • Yes- not all men are predators

    Votes: 17 32.7%
  • No- not without another woman there

    Votes: 35 67.3%

  • Total voters
    52

dora_da_destroyer

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Damn you caught a stray for no reason. That was kinda f-ed up of mom.

It’s all the same to me and the second term is more all encompassing. If a man tried to make u feel his hard dikk through his pants it may not technically be molestation but it’s inappropriate sexual conduct with a minor. To me it’s all the same. Im not trying to break it down to the nitty gritty as this is not a court room but my point is still the same.
a man making you feel him is molestation/assault...a man catcalling you as you walk is harassment. they are different categories and definitely make sense to delineate when discussing it as examples of why kids may be in danger at someone's house, especially young kids (12 and under). 70% of women would not say they were molested, but you may have 70% say they were harassed
 

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From kindergarten to high school, I've been to probably a hundred plus sleepovers. From my moms friends kids, to kids in my school, to kids on my basketball and football team. Sleepovers were just what we did. I nor a single sole that I know were molested. Hell, the parents only bothered us to tell us its time to come inside, time to eat, or time to go to bed. Being molested by someone was never a fear of mine.
 
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Both my parents were single parents after divorce. When I was with my dad I had friends sleep over. One of them was like a latchkey kid so I don't think her mom gave af. My other friend mom was impressed by my dad actually taking care of his kids alone lol. She would tell me my dad is a good dad and he is doing a good job, etc. So she didn't have a problem with her daughter being at my place.

I would have to move on a case by case basis. But I'm a big believer in "it takes a village to raise a child" so I feel like I would trust my child with other adult friends (key word friend, not just a random parent I haven't interacted with before now). And it's funny because my best friend is actually a single father. I don't think I would have a problem leaving a kid with him, that's my brother.
 
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