Would you let your girl get a Personal Trainer?

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shyt I lost over 100 pounds in two years, I’m all we need
 

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Real shyt it don’t even be the personal trainers making the moves it be the clients making the moves… My cousin a personal trainer and I work out with him all the time, when he has sessions with his female clients them chics be super flirty.. Some be married too and be bold as fukk askin him when he gonna be free so he can be with them in a more intimate setting… I’m like this hoes are ain’t :francis:

but my cuzzo disciplined like a shoulin monk.. he said the moment you smash any of these chics you might as well go out of business..


Low key a lot of black males fail at this. They come into a workplace and want to fukk anything with a vagina not knowing the girl is going to flow to have control over you.
 

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I worked in a gym briefly

Personal trainers were fukking at minimum 75% of their female clients

The female trainers was getting ran through by the male trainers and gym managers as well. 100% of the female trainers.


shyt I wasnt even a trainer and even I got head by a trainers client in the steam room during gym hours (slower hours though) :heh:


so to answer the question, no I wouldnt let my girl get a male trainer. No different then i would never let my girl go on a all girls trip to Miami or Vegas. Its not even about trust, its about not putting yourself in a possible bad situation in the first place :ld:
 

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Personal opinion, the “if she cheat she was always gonna cheat” mantra is too black and white for this situation. When someone is hiring a trainer it’s to better themselves, and in the process it’s very likely this person is also giving them a morale boost that they apparently wasn’t getting elsewhere since they had to pay for it.

Anytime you encourage someone, help them motivate and better themselves and happen to be physically attractive…..usually….that’s how feelings/attraction start to pop up. Just asking for trouble
 

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Personal opinion, the “if she cheat she was always gonna cheat” mantra is too black and white for this situation. When someone is hiring a trainer it’s to better themselves, and in the process it’s very likely this person is also giving them a morale boost that they apparently wasn’t getting elsewhere since they had to pay for it.

Anytime you encourage someone, help them motivate and better themselves and happen to be physically attractive…..usually….that’s how feelings/attraction start to pop up. Just asking for trouble

The biggest problem for me with the bolded is, marriage or relationships are supposed to be good for you for many reasons... One in particular, it keeps you from going out there doing bullshyt that could potentially ruin your life.

You have more responsibilities, and you have another person who is supposed to be there looking out for you to make sure you don't get yourself into something that could fukk up the relationship, which could ruin everyone's happiness...

So this being to cool for school, "I don't worry about it, if he/she gonna do it, they gonna do it anyway" shyt, doesn't make sense.

She probably never thought about fukking some other dude but when you let her put herself in a situation like that with another man...
You're letting her unknowingly set herself up to fail.
Trainers are usually in shape. Usually attractive.
Working out is physical and gets the hormones going. And can seem very sexual with the positions.
Women also are attracted to power and authority.
You see this if you've ever been a supervisor.

This situation would be equivalent to your wife hiring some attractive female house maid or some shyt... Cooking and cleaning, wearing a Lil skimpy maid outfit.

You probly ain't never want to cheat on your woman, but she's basically putting you in a situation to fail.

But both of y'all should understand that it is your responsibility to help make sure your significant other stay on the right track.
Don't put stumbling blocks in front of them, and don't let them do it to themselves
 
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