Would you let your girl get a Personal Trainer?

[BigMoneyGrip]

Real shyt it don’t even be the personal trainers making the moves it be the clients making the moves… My cousin a personal trainer and I work out with him all the time, when he has sessions with his female clients them chics be super flirty.. Some be married too and be bold as fukk askin him when he gonna be free so he can be with them in a more intimate setting… I’m like this hoes are ain’t

but my cuzzo disciplined like a shoulin monk.. he said the moment you smash any of these chics you might as well go out of business..

 

[Crude]

Keep that energy after you get married, have kids and have alimony child support on the line. Dont play with fire. Keep that woman in check at All times.

If she wants to do something she’s going to do it regardless of how much I watch.

If she isn’t strapped to your hip 24/7 then there is space and opportunities.

I’m not looking for anything but if something comes to my attention, I’ll act accordingly.

 

[Morose Polymath]

If y’all insecure just say that.

I’ve always had the motto that if another man can take my woman he can have her.

I view myself as an alpha and apex man and also view myself as just as much if not more of a prize than her. I would suggest some of y’all adopt that mindset, y’all worrying about what another mofo “might” do makes you look little and insecure.

There's a fine line between insecure and stupidity

 

[Crude]

There's a fine line between insecure and stupidity

If I got worry about her around other kneegrows, personal trainer or not, I don’t need her

Its evident I’m from a different era and upbringing than some of you.

 

[TripleAgent]

If I got worry about her around other kneegrows, personal trainer or not, I don’t need her

Its evident I’m from a different era and upbringing than some of you.

So...the trainer tries her, she refuses, you don't do anything?

 

[Morose Polymath]

If I got worry about her around other kneegrows, personal trainer or not, I don’t need her

Its evident I’m from a different era and upbringing than some of you.

This nikka missing the point.
All that can be true but STILL you dont lead the sheep to the slaughter.

 

[SheWantTheD]

It is funny that we live in a world where 50% of marriages end in divorce, most relationships end before moving on to divorce, but people are quick to brag about how secure they are.

They allow things to blossom in arrogance. Like they are above being imperfect for 15 minutes, or they cannot build a connection with someone they share ups and downs with, or won't develop an attraction towards someone driving their sense of accomplishment.

We'd do well as a society to stop viewing cheating as something only rotten people do. The moment you recognise that being faithful is a struggle all humans go through is the moment you will stop putting yourself in situations that test you.

I've seen too many instances where people fall into temptation.

People ruin their careers, legacies, break up their families, go to prison, lose millions of dollars off of temptation.

But nah.. not your girl... not your wife.. she's different

 

[Umoja]

If I got worry about her around other kneegrows, personal trainer or not, I don’t need her

Its evident I’m from a different era and upbringing than some of you.

What era are you from fam?


Dunno why you're trying to bring that apex, alpha, old school shyt into the mix.

In the wild, it is not normal. Amongst the older generation, it is normal.

The way that you think is a new way of thinking, one that isn't exactly working out.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I wanted to take private tennis lessons and my husband hit me with the when I told him it was a guy teacher.




Can’t have no fun, I think he’s sexist

 

[Alvin]

I work out constantly and eat right, she wouldn't need one.

 

[CW_1991]

When you get down to the nitty gritty of it, men are programmed to basically view his women as a prized possession. Like property, but not in a derogatory or demeaning way. No man is right mind is going to be comfortable with his woman being around another man up close and personal in private especially when you have enough sense to know how dudes move out here. Nothing insecure about that. That's just protecting what's yours from outside forces and temptations.

If you ask me, a woman in her right mind who respects her man and manhood in general is not going to even be down for something like that anyway. You should want your woman to have a certain level of reticence when it comes to dealing with strange men anyway.

 

[Crude]

What era are you from fam?


Dunno why you're trying to bring that apex, alpha, old school shyt into the mix.

In the wild, it is not normal. Amongst the older generation, it is normal.

The way that you think is a new way of thinking, one that isn't exactly working out.

From an era that men weren’t worried about a woman leaving them for another man.

Shyt is insecure in my opinion a hundred posters can come nitpick my position on it but it isn’t changing.

I’m not sitting up wondering what my woman is doing when I’m not around. That’s weak little man shyt to me, but carry brehs and keep worrying about what another man might do with your woman.

 

[old pig]

If you ask me, a woman in her right mind who respects her man and manhood in general is not going to even be down for something like that anyway. You should want your woman to have a certain level of reticence when it comes to dealing with strange men anyway.

10000%

the onus shouldn’t fall on you to control her/dictate her actions

some women are not gonna bring certain shyt to your table

 

[OsO]

"If she wants to cheat she can, ain't nothing you can do about it". Sure, but there are certain professions and situations where temptation is elevated.

Agreed. Any situation involving alcohol or raised serotonin levels (like after a workout) is going to increase the chances of f*ckery. Some people aren't actively looking to cheat on their partner, but if put in the right situation

 

[Umoja]

From an era that men weren’t worried about a woman leaving them for another man.

Shyt is insecure in my opinion a hundred posters can come nitpick my position on it but it isn’t changing.

I’m not sitting up wondering what my woman is doing when I’m not around. That’s weak little man shyt to me, but carry brehs and keep worrying about what another man might do with your woman.

Time stamp, you fukking moron.

Go and speak to your dad, your grandad and your great grandad. Ask them if what you're suggesting was normal in their era.

It is like a lot of young people try giving this impression of being old school with their outlook without realising how shyt went down back in the day.

Has nothing to do with people being insecure. There is a humility in recognising the conditions that breeds attraction and acting in consideration of it.

Older people understood this. It is the current generation who is stuck in denial and hubris.