would you let your wife go outside like this?

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Knuckles Red said:
"Let"?! I wouldn't "let" my wife do anything. My wife would be her own person free to make her own decisions. I wouldn't own her. She wouldn't be my property. She could dress however she wanted, and I would support her no matter what. Women are human beings. They are not extensions of our egos. Let women do what women want to do. Let women be.
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:heh: Checking your wife isnt owning her breh. Its a pecking order in the family. If you arent the leader in the house, she'll be looking for one.

Y'all out at dinner and shes on the phone the entire time you not gonna say anything?
She comes at you with a crazy tone you just gonna shrug it off?

Your wife and the mother of your children, not some random you're smashing, comes to a work function at your job dressed like that and you just gonna sit and smile it off?

And hopefully it would go both ways, meaning if you get outta pocket she would have the self respect to check you as well.
 
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THE MACHINE said:
:heh: Checking your wife isnt owning her breh. Its a pecking order in the family. If you arent the leader in the house, she'll be looking for one.

Y'all out at dinner and shes on the phone the entire time you not gonna say anything?
She comes at you with a crazy tone you just gonna shrug it off?

Your wife and the mother of your children, not some random you're smashing, comes to a work function at your job dressed like that and you just gonna sit and smile it off?

And hopefully it would go both ways, meaning if you get outta pocket she would have the self respect to check you as well.
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I would recognize, and respect, the reality that any women I’d be married to would have had a whole entire life before the two of us ever met or knew of each other’s existences. How a woman dresses should not dictate how she is treated. Your line of thinking is leaning into a culture of rape where similar arguments are used against women to justify the harmful things that happen to them. Let women dress how they want to dress. It is their decision. You must respect that. You must!
 
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Knuckles Red said:
I would recognize, and respect, the reality that any women I’d be married to would have had a whole entire life before the two of us ever met or knew of each other’s existences. How a woman dresses should not dictate how she is treated. Your line of thinking is leaning into a culture of rape where similar arguments are used against women to justify the harmful things that happen to them. Let women dress how they want to dress. It is their decision. You must respect that. You must!
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Do you think rapists arent out there? Its not the womens fault but a woman walking around like that is asking for trouble - for herself or you. What world are you living in? You're gonna be fighting dudes all the time for being disrespectful when an adjustment to her wardrobe could make for a much more peaceful home.
 
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THE MACHINE said:
Do you think rapists arent out there? Its not the womens fault but a woman walking around like that is asking for trouble - for herself or you. What world are you living in? You're gonna be fighting dudes all the time for being disrespectful when an adjustment to her wardrobe could make for a much more peaceful home.
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Oh my god. Did you really just imply that woman are asking to raped by the way that they dress?! The problem is men feeling entitled to women’s bodies. Your line of thinking is only perpetuating that entitlement. That was my point.
 
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Oh my god. Did you really just imply that woman are asking to raped by the way that they dress?! The problem is men feeling entitled to women’s bodies. Your line of thinking is only perpetuating that entitlement. That was my point.
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No, but you have to be smart.
My point is rapists exist and you’d be a fool to ignore it. Walking down a back alley at night doesn’t give someone the right to your wallet but it’s not a good decision to walk down there.
A woman walking around with her titties out is a recipe for disaster. It wouldn’t be her fault but it wouldn’t be a good idea. And it doesn’t even have to get to rape- groping, pinching, lewd and crude comments are all gonna potentially result from it.
 
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No, but you have to be smart.
My point is rapists exist and you’d be a fool to ignore it. Walking down a back alley at night doesn’t give someone the right to your wallet but it’s not a good decision to walk down there.
A woman walking around with her titties out is a recipe for disaster. It wouldn’t be her fault but it wouldn’t be a good idea. And it doesn’t even have to get to rape- groping, pinching, lewd and crude comments are all gonna potentially result from it.
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Again, where, in your line of thinking, do you hold men accountable for their actions? Who is doing the raping, groping, pinching, and lewd comment making? If gay men starting feeling on your body, because of the way that you dressed, would you start dressing differently?
 
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Hell no, he probably can't say shyt to her or he's into showing the world he's with a 'baddie'
 
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