Would you stay friends with a girl who just friendzone'd you?

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Ehhhh......Lots of people are saying they'd use a chick for their friends but there are lots of women who don't have many female friends (especially when you're in your late 20s) and are just flat out using nikkas for attention and to talk to when they're bored or need some one to complain to about the man they're dating. I'm good on that. You have to know the difference between a chick who's talking to you because she's lonely & bored and/or just wants to be entertained and a chick who is actually your real friend. Real "friends" add value to your life. Odds are most women who placed you in the "friend zone" just take from it.

There's a clear difference and most women fall under the 1st category. You'll realize what I mean when the your female "friend" gets a boyfriend and into a serious relationship and you barely see or hear from her ever again. I can't tell you how many female friends I've seen get a man & start slow texting their male "friends" and all but disappear.

It's kinda different if I went to school with a chick or we met through work, friends, social situations and I didn't holla right out the gate. Then I know we're actually friends. That's cool.

But if I holla'd, made it clear I was interested in you and you basically said no I'm not interested you're immediately getting thrown in the bushes.
 

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what's the benefit, if she's genuily a good person then cool, but in all honesty you lusting after hear was 90% of the reason you even know her - gonna be hard to supress that. if she got fine friends maybe she can hook it up, but honestly she'll probably hate on GP. you're probably going to friend her up no matter what we say so just make sure the relationship doesn't hurt your pockets, your health, or your overall game
 

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I have a different personality than you other nikkas.

So my situation wouldn't even be the same. But if I'm pursuing a girl. She Def knows about it

Cause I constantly flirt.

I would still be friends. It's few bytches that I roll up with on some Homie shyt

This is where I am at:myman:...but if u sumbody who constantyly flirt and try to touch sumthin getting friendzoned don't hurt ya feelings that bad cuz a chick gon have to give me the :whoa: early on cuz I already tried to fuk early on:mjlol:....ive only met a few chicks who was THAT COOL though who had personality,could talk shyt,who was funny and chill and didn't judge:patrice:...just as cool as any of my homeboys:manny: but that's real rare.

Long as they respect the fact im still gon make flirtatious comments,try to fukk if she lookin real good and im in the mood:shaq:...and probably try to grab or see somthin every once in a while:youngsabo:...i could never like a chick who don't wanna fuk me as much as i like one who does so its no danger in catching feelings....maybe leavin the house wit a woody every once in a while but that's bout as bad as its gon get:manny:
 

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makes no sense
Basically I wouldnt consider a guy a friend if he tried to get with me. In my experience that has been pretty annoying because the guy doesnt really stop trying to get with you even after you've said youre not interested. I dont want to deal with people who are interested in me, but the feeling isnt mutual. Whats the point? We can be cordial but Im not wanting a friend in you no way.
 

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i could be coo with her, but being 'friends' with her? Nah, unless she all of a sudden went hard and did what friends really do. More times than not, you will turn into the negro listening to her complain about other men and her asking for some kind of favors.
 

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I expect to see a lot of this today :snoop:
 

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Ehhhh......Lots of people are saying they'd use a chick for their friends but there are lots of women who don't have many female friends (especially when you're in your late 20s) and are just flat out using nikkas for attention and to talk to when they're bored or need some one to complain to about the man they're dating. I'm good on that. You have to know the difference between a chick who's talking to you because she's lonely & bored and/or just wants to be entertained and a chick who is actually your real friend. Real "friends" add value to your life. Odds are most women who placed you in the "friend zone" just take from it.

There's a clear difference and most women fall under the 1st category. You'll realize what I mean when the your female "friend" gets a boyfriend and into a serious relationship and you barely see or hear from her ever again. I can't tell you how many female friends I've seen get a man & start slow texting their male "friends" and all but disappear.

It's kinda different if I went to school with a chick or we met through work, friends, social situations and I didn't holla right out the gate. Then I know we're actually friends. That's cool.

But if I holla'd, made it clear I was interested in you and you basically said no I'm not interested you're immediately getting thrown in the bushes.

If it don't apply then let it Fly :yeshrug:
 

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women like what they cant have.

You stick around you are an idiot
 
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