WTF is passive rejection?

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Funny I thought this was a general discussion on passive rejection. But now I guess it is a man vs woman thread b/c ya'll can't seem to think along any other lines; always wanna be a victim. I have been passively rejected before but I guess it's beyond some of ya'll whiney ass dudes to comprehend.

And when it happened do you know what I did? I moved on. I didn't cry, make a speech and whine. I moved on like an emotionally healthy adult.

I swear ya'll spend more time whining than winning.

 

[Hovsta]

Funny I thought this was a general discussion on passive rejection. But now I guess it is a man vs woman thread b/c ya'll can't seem to think along any other lines; always wanna be a victim. I have been passively rejected before but I guess it's beyond some of ya'll whiney ass dudes to comprehend.

And when it happened do you know what I did? I moved on. I didn't cry, make a speech and whine. I moved on like an emotionally healthy adult.

I swear ya'll spend more time whining than winning.

I partially agree with you but you got to understand men are molded by rejection shaped by it. With the recent surge of feminization of the American male and the feminist wanting to be in the leader position. This is what happens. Maybe in ten years it will balance out but the truth is females can't handle rejection because they feel entitled to the top twenty percent even if she is basic. Men just take thier L and try to improve(most maybe not some dudes on here).Women complain and try to make men who don't want them to want them. (Fat shame movement, everybody is beautiful)

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I partially agree with you but you got to understand men are molded by rejection shaped by it. With the recent surge of feminization of the American male and the feminist wanting to be in the leader position. This is what happens. Maybe in ten years it will balance out but the truth is females can't handle rejection because they feel entitled to the top twenty percent even if she is basic. Men just take thier L and try to improve(most maybe not some dudes on here).Women complain and try to make men who don't want them to want them. (Fat shame movement, everybody is beautiful)

What you posted is the exactly opposite of what is happening here. I am a woman and I moved on while the men in here are the ones crying.

 

[Greenhornet]

alot of women test you ... speak on it

how do you pursue without going too far as a man?
cause the line becomes thin and its easy to overstep it
at the same time she wants you to chase ....


so where is the perfect medium for keeping in touch

 

[The M.I.C.]

I partially agree with you but you got to understand men are molded by rejection shaped by it. With the recent surge of feminization of the American male and the feminist wanting to be in the leader position. This is what happens. Maybe in ten years it will balance out but the truth is females can't handle rejection because they feel entitled to the top twenty percent even if she is basic. Men just take thier L and try to improve(most maybe not some dudes on here).Women complain and try to make men who don't want them to want them. (Fat shame movement, everybody is beautiful)

I agree with this to a degree.

Rejection comes along with the territory of being a man. I hate this continued proliferation of emotional weakness and general insecurity in this generation.

I cannot vest emotional energy and also commit time into a woman who is not interested. When will men start valuing their time versus playing a crap shoot with some of these females?

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Nah. Here's an example. Let's say your homie goes out of your way to set up an interview for you. You go, it goes well. You just don't want the job. They try calling you to get you started and you ignore the calls. Not only is it a lack of maturity, it's a lack of respect.

Society has gotten so pussified with indirect contact through social media, text. Etc.

If you explore an option, you should let them know where they stand.

This nikka comparing dating to job interviews

Get this beta male hoe shyt the fukk outta here

 

[Ohene]

Honestly more times than not we as men ...yall as men know that a girl is rejecting you. It doesnt matter if she does it passively or directly. The truth of the matter is that your brain knows the girl aint REALLY feeling you like that but your ego is preventing you from taking the L so you continuously try to contact the woman or make plans hoping youll get another shot to get her to like you. By that time the battle is lost though. it's best to see the situation for what it is and move on to the next girl.

it's all ego.

every single successful relationship I have had with a woman whether it was just fukkin, dating, being committed ...i knew within our first few conversations and encounters where I stood. There was no long ass delay in answering messages, there was no wondering, "how come I always initiate?", there was no flaking on dates without rescheduling etc. Things for the most part were seamless and the games were kept to a relative minimum.

I know most of the guys and girls in here would agree. If you have to wonder whether or not she/he is interested in you or just bored and using you for attn the chances are that you should move on period.

 

[Larry Lambo]

honestly man. more times than not we as men ...yall as men know that a girl is rejecting you. it doesnt matter if she does it passively or directly. The truth of the matter is that your brain knows the girl aint REALLY feeling you like that but your ego is preventing you from taking the L so you continuously try to contact the woman or make plans hoping youll get another shot to get her to like you. By that time the battle is lost though. it's best to see the situation for what it is and move on to the next girl.

What about all the times where "persistence paid off". I'd say about half the married couples I know, the woman was not really providing cooperation at first but eventually grew to like dude.

Even my last gf didn't jump on my nuts right away. There were a couple opportunities for us to hang out that she didn't take advantage of (later on she said she didn't like the way I asked her).

I think you have to make the determination at a certain point on whether she's truly busy or playing hard to get, or if she's not feeling you. It's frustrating when it's the latter because you would rather have heard that upfront, instead of having to get to the point.

 

[Ohene]

What about all the times where "persistence paid off". I'd say about half the married couples I know, the woman was not really providing cooperation at first but eventually grew to like dude.

Even my last gf didn't jump on my nuts right away. There were a couple opportunities for us to hang out that she didn't take advantage of (later on she said she didn't like the way I asked her).

I think you have to make the determination at a certain point on whether she's truly busy or playing hard to get, or if she's not feeling you. It's frustrating when it's the latter because you would rather have heard that upfront, instead of having to get to the point.

sigh its hard man. and like you said its frustrating because there is such a fine line between desperation and persistence

 

[IWunD3r]

Honestly people are allowed to reject you any way they like. People are so entitled. Real talk they might be doing you a favor.

bytch please, it aint about entitlement. Just dont be wasting my time. We go out if u not intrested just let it be known.

 

[SheWantTheD]

+10 take this written out rep plehboi

 

[SheWantTheD]

I've never gone on dates with a chick just for me to go ghost on her and never contact her again. I've had it happen to me though.

 

[Redwood]

Honestly people are allowed to reject you any way they like. People are so entitled. Real talk they might be doing you a favor.

Yeah people need to understand nobody owes you a damn thing in life.

 

[FTBS]

For starters, I highly doubt that the same guys that aren't calling are the same ones sweating chicks and getting no reply. Typical jaded female tactic of holding the "nice guy" accountable for what the "bad boy" has done to you.

The entitlement is hilarious. Chick flat out acknowledged that a guy has to actually exert more effort to get things rolling and still comes with the false equivalence "bu...bu...but we sit by the phone and wait" . Females only spew that bullshyt to guys that they know are silly enough to buy it.

 

[Blackout]

Would be nice if we could go back to the days when people had more manners and decency.

What is done in the OP is the persons right but lets not act like it isnt being rude.