YALL HAVE BEEN CORRUPTED THROUGH SEX

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I'm not on that "wait til marriage" thing, but hookup culture causes a lot of problems. Forget the epidemic STD rates and single moms, you also end up with people chasing fantasies instead of trying to make their relationships work. People get that mentality that spouses are disposable. "Hey, I'll just hit the club a couple months/years and get a better prospect."
 

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In my opinion...

This whole idea of "purity" and "saving yourself for the one" is nothing more than terms and conditions of a business contract because marriage is a business contract itself.

It's also a power ploy by the ones in charge. People don't realize how much morals, values, and ethics can be used as a power ploy.

I personally think it has caused a complex in people when it comes to sex. A love/hate relationship of sex. We love watching it, having it, and talking about it but, feel guilty/ashamed about it.

That whole purity crap is what causes rape, molestation victims to be shamed (or even killed) and it causes young people to believe something is wrong with them because their natural biological urges are waking up during puberty.

Yeah, you can be a virgin but, still be corrupt and IMPURE because you might be a liar, thief, manipulator, etc;...

I guess the point I'm trying to make is this: There is way more in this world causing problems than consensual sex between consensual adults.

PREACH BROTHER PLAY-DOH, PREACH
 

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If you think abstinence is going to save you from divorce you are fooling yourself.
Stop policing other people's dikks and worry about your own.
 

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People sometimes don't understand the energy exchange that occurs through intimacy. This is a universal truth. That's from a spiritual perspective. I don't think OP intended to shame anyone at all, but is simply sharing facts. Not every person FEELS the same way about sex of after sex, but this isn't necessarily about FEELINGS.

Sex always has consequences in the spirit realm. There's always an energy exchange.

On a physical level, there's no such thing as safe sex.

Usually, if they've got it, you've got it.

People can physically protect themselves from disease and pregnancy, but the energy exchange is no joke.

A person who's depleted their energy/spirit may not have the same reaction as the person who still has "something left," but it's real.

This is why sex workers often have to get high to "work."

Or why men cannot commit to one woman and keep seeking the next conquest.

Our bodies/temples/seed/energy are sacred and people have been tricked into forgetting that.

Our family structures and societies are collapsing because there's no self-regulation as to sexual behavior.

Just because I CAN do something doesn't mean I SHOULD.

If more people saw themselves and their temples as sacred, then the abandoned families, divorce rates and other family breakdown wouldn't be so high.

Our people have been DECEIVED into thinking that sex just is for "feeling good."

It has a much higher purpose and more more serious consequences.

While I agree that sex has a much higher purpose than just feeling good... I really don't feel anything for the people I've had sex with. :yeshrug:

And I have no problem committing myself to 1 woman, so I don't think sex has ruined my ability to be loyal :yeshrug:

Honestly, i've been debating celibacy for a while now... I feel like I don't need sex like I used to :yeshrug:



@Amethyst, Am I empty inside :jbhmm:....:wow:..... :mjcry:


#TeamNoSex? :patrice:
 

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The problem is people only know how to fukk. Here me out, there's a huge difference between fukking and passionate love making. When you fukk your only concern is to bust a nut which is why most of you feel like shyt after sex. Now with passionate sex there's a lot of intimacy involved which builds a real deep connection within a relationship/marriage.
 

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majority of marriages dont end over sex...they end over money

Majority of marriages end over cheating. You wouldn't really know though because lots of people file "no fault" so they won't look bad.

& some poeple put up with cheating until the money is gone.
 

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The problem is people only know how to fukk. Here me out, there's a huge difference between fukking and passionate love making. When you fukk your only concern is to bust a nut which is why most of you feel like shyt after sex. Now with passionate sex there's a lot of intimacy involved which builds a real deep connection within a relationship/marriage.

Yes! That is what I would like to have, which is another reason why I don't want a hoe. Hoes don't know how to do that.
 

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Majority of marriages end over cheating. You wouldn't really know though because lots of people file "no fault" so they won't look bad.

& some poeple put up with cheating until the money is gone.

But do you think that has anything to do with having multiple sexual partners in your past?

I'm sorry I just don't get the correlation the OP is making. I will never ever cheat on anyone I am with. Doesn't matter if I have 1 body or 100
 

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But do you think that has anything to do with having multiple sexual partners in your past?

I'm sorry I just don't get the correlation the OP is making. I will never ever cheat on anyone I am with. Doesn't matter if I have 1 body or 100
Promiscuous people are more likely to cheat.

I'm pretty sure that anyone who has slept with 100 people would either cheat or would choose not to be in a monogamous relationship & continue fcking around. Some of them settle because they're lonely, not because they are in love with the person they're with.
 

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Promiscuous people are more likely to cheat.

I'm pretty sure that anyone who has slept with 100 people would either cheat or would choose not to be in a monogamous relationship.


Honestly I think people who cheat are more likely to cheat.

If a girl told me that she had alot of bodies but has never cheated on a man I would prefer that over the girl who has 1 body but has cheated once.

But hey, I cant disagree with your discernment... I just know me and I'm loyal to a tee. :yeshrug:
 
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