You know.. my friend and I had the same conversation a couple of months ago. We both belief in energy and that energies can be bound together. I believe that because most people have sex with people they are truly not connected to causes problems in their relationships. Most people have lots of negative energies bound to them from previous lovers. Plus society is pushing that monogamy is a joke. That it is ok to go out and have as many sexual partners as you want as long as you are practicing "safe sex." I mean it's your body and do what you will. I'm faaaaaaaaaaarrrrrr from being a virgin... and I am not ashamed of the fact that I'm not, but being a virgin would be hard these days. I praise anybody that has the self control to wait until the time is right for them. Some of us will wait for our prince or princess to arrive and some of will say ahhh what the hell let's do the damn thing already!
People sometimes don't understand the energy exchange that occurs through intimacy. This is a universal truth. That's from a spiritual perspective. I don't think OP intended to shame anyone at all, but is simply sharing facts. Not every person FEELS the same way about sex of after sex, but this isn't necessarily about FEELINGS.
Sex always has consequences in the spirit realm. There's always an energy exchange.
On a physical level, there's no such thing as safe sex.
Usually, if they've got it, you've got it.
People can physically protect themselves from disease and pregnancy, but the energy exchange is no joke.
A person who's depleted their energy/spirit may not have the same reaction as the person who still has "something left," but it's real.
This is why sex workers often have to get high to "work."
Or why men cannot commit to one woman and keep seeking the next conquest.
Our bodies/temples/seed/energy are sacred and people have been tricked into forgetting that.
Our family structures and societies are collapsing because there's no self-regulation as to sexual behavior.
Just because I CAN do something doesn't mean I SHOULD.
If more people saw themselves and their temples as sacred, then the abandoned families, divorce rates and other family breakdown wouldn't be so high.
Our people have been DECEIVED into thinking that sex just is for "feeling good."
It has a much higher purpose and more more serious consequences.