"Ya'll seriously messing with dudes were breaking bread is optional?" - @TheStripper

[Claudex]

:whoatrice: Lot of good points made here too

But there are def some simps giving away a lot just for a woman's attention

There always have been and there always will be simps giving away a lot just for a woman's attention breh. nikkas ought to be okay with that because just like "joy wouldn't feel so good if it wasn't for pain" (fiddy) "playin' wouldn't feel so good if it wasn't for simps" (claudex).

So asking nikkas to stop simping is foolish at best and unnecessary stress at worst. Let the world turn there's space for everybody out here. Celebrate the diversity because it's usually watching the simps that teaches you what not to do.

edit: unless the simp is your homie, then it wouldn't hurt to offer advice but that's about all you can do anyway.

 

[FTBS]

Bruh playing the game from their position is an L in itself. Sure she makes money but strippers are folks who cannot function in society without selling their sexuality and leeching of nikkas. The money is just a silver lining in a sea of L's and most of that cash will just get pissed away on cosmetics and liquor anyway. To make that she gotta pretend to like, lie to, grind naked on, and constantly interact with some of the sleaziest mfs in the area. If you're really good you can get some overtime fukking some old white greaseball ceo. Maybe if you can make it to the league you can get flown out to dubai to get shytted on by some indian grandpa. All the while there are STILL dudes on the side who pipe these skeezers for FREE (playas, "famous" folks, babydads).

It's just better to stay out of their world in general. Most of those chicks on that pole had to learn this grimy game lesson by painful lesson. Her looking to a dude to pay off the top doesn't surprise me, I doubt chicks afraid of emotional vulnerability would play the game without a lead so she asks men to pay aka supplicate up front. Screen for the simp/trick mentality early.

Thread was a good read tho I learned a lot.

Civilian chicks put themselves through their fair share of bullshyt as well...at least she gets paid for it.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

RMAO @ paying for a babysitter for kids thats NOT mines just to date..

You really got shyt twisted here in these streets...

 

[ellessij]

You're wishing rape upon me. Something is wrong with you. You so mad that you want me to get raped. I feel for you breh. I can't imagine how shytty you must feel about yourself to want that to happen to someone. That is a horrible thing to say.

I don't know you @TheStripper and I don't agree with your opinions at all, but you're entitled to live your life the way you see fit, having someone wishing RAPE on you is disgusting. It's terrible that he said that. I just stopped reading the thread when I saw this. UGH

 

[FeloniousMonk]

ExNat removed 10 reputation points for your post in the thread "Ya'll seriously messing with dudes were breaking bread is optional?" - @TheStripper. With the following comment: sexism

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Surprisingly good thread.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I don't know you @TheStripper and I don't agree with your opinions at all, but you're entitled to live your life the way you see fit, having someone wishing RAPE on you is disgusting. It's terrible that he said that. I just stopped reading the thread when I saw this. UGH

You obviously didn't read the thread then you silly bytch.

 

[ellessij]

You obviously didn't read the thread then you silly bytch.

LUL

 

[Morose Polymath]

so we making up our own definitions for words now??

I just tell chicks in the beginning that I'm about respect and oblation.

Chick: What's oblation?

Me: A woman making contributions and kicking in to the cause. Being generous with her time and resources for a man she deems fit

 

[RiffRaff]

If a chick is really feeling you, you won't have to spend a dime, at least in my generation (young 20's). For this reason alone I don't ever spend money on a girl at first even though I have it. Hell I've had girls cook for me, pay for my Panda Express, let me have their phone charger, and other things without spending any sort of money on them

My ex before we started officially dating would go above and beyond to see if we could do something for free or relatively cheap before we went out somewhere.

If you're spending significant money on a chick in 2014 that isn't your S/O or wife you lost. Mainly because it isn't necessary if she likes you.

 

[Luck]

#yesallwomen

 

[beenz]

Any man paying or giving money to a woman he is not married to or close to being married to is a fool.

I am not paying for sex, I am not paying to spend time with any woman. The way I see it women should be paying for my companionship since I am usually more interesting than they'll ever be.

I do spend money on dates and the likes but nothing overboard, and it is not for the sake of impressing or wooing women. If a woman is into you, she won't care that you aren't wasting money on her. I also weed out entitled bytches.

90% of the time women bragging about guys paying their bills and buying them things without sex are lying.

I agree with all this. a women is a keeper when you start off early in the relationship where she is at least offering to pay for shyt. almost EVERY woman I dealt with seriously did this in some shape or fashion.

I remember going on a first date with a girl, and I legit left my wallet at home and I was on the other side of town. she just and said "don't worry, I'll pay"

that's the kinda initiative I like to see a woman pay. not saying she needs to pay her way, but the fact that she was so cool about it on a first meeting definitely left a good impression in my mind.

 

[-DMP-]

I have no beef the stripper but I absolutely HATE when chick's think dudes is jus doing great shyt "just to be nice".

holding a door -nice

Giving you change at the vending machine -nice

Paying ya bills and yall just met, giving you his employee discount and you not fam, bending over backwards to serve you and he don't get commission from your business - attraction

Good looking chick's are just so use to dudes doing stuff they automatically think that's how it is.

Kinda like non minorities and privilege.

-DMP-

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I salute women like @TheStripper, she's playing the game that way it's meant to be played. If men are willing to break her off without doing something strange for that change, why not take advantage

 

[AkaDemiK]

My single mother friends are running playing fukk buddy with dudes and paying for their own babysitters.

IS SHE fukkIN SERIOUS?!?!?!

wait.....so because you're a single woman who chose to live the fukk buddy life...and I repeat...the fukk buddy life...I....ME...AK....should pay for your baby sitter so you can come get the pipe then eventually kicked out before the night is over?

you muhfukkas live in a fantasy world or yall mess with a bunch of suckas and simps....u out ya fukkin mind if you think imma be doing some shyt like that......for a fukk buddy