What happened
There was a girl I worked with back in the day. Little sloppy physically but mad cute and had a childlike giggle and smile. Real heartwarming type. Well I went to ask her out one day and found out she was married. Since I was crushing on her a bit before then, I was cool with that and cut her off. Before that she told me everything and asked me for advice and whatnot, but i told her I was not interested in being friends. She eventually told me that her marriage was falling apart and burst into tears in our work area, and I told her verbatim "you'll be aiight."
She walked out still teary eyed, and the staff saw it. For months they thought I did something, and she would never deny if I did something. That followed me, and she acted teal snotty for 3 months afterward. Turns out muuuuuuuch later I learn that she wanted to get together but didn't know how to say it after having turns me down.
How did I find this out? A guy I was working with and introduced to her started fukking no-strings, and she told him everything. She didn't know how to cope after being told to kick rocks.