Yo Yall Believe In Threesomes While in Relationships?

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i have a cousin who's had a few with his wife and some have gone bad and some good. he told me if the broad is undeniable hot that she's even turned on by her then she gets into it. if its an average looking chick, she starts feeling a certain way when he starts smashing her. these are his words tho. so i dont know. i know my current chick wouldnt be down for it at all. we already spoke about it :to:
 

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ts because I'm the last person she'll ever touch in a romantic or sexual way.

Why?

It's funny because if you have children, or have any children in your life you'll understand the mechanics of the child doing something, or wanting something just because they were told they can't have it, or can't do it.

This idea of "ok, we're married/together, you can't interact with anyone else" actually triggers that response of a free soul wanting to reclaim that autonomy. Of course with enough religion, guilt and shame people can keep their actual feelings at bay but what is the point?

All of this "get married" breh's shyt is just more examples of trying to fit a square peg in a round hole....and ultimately a lot of these "relationships" aren't built how well you actually relate to that person...IE companionship. Once you begin using language like "i'm the last ___ you'll ever do this with" you have now become an owner rather than a companion...and looking at the history of marriage the whole "romance" aspect of it was thrown in well after the fact, it used to be a straight up and down business transaction. Even in prehistory fidelity had nothing to do with happiness, it was more of a non-verbal contract that stated I catch the food, and protect you, give up the p*ssy, bare my children and help me maintain my image as big daddy king shyt.

The fanfare and romanticizing of what basically amounted to indentured servitude was just another way to pacify the emotional holes that being "owned" created. Even people that COULD or even SHOULD spend their lives together would probably be better at maintaining that companionship if they left behind the conditioning that calls for them to relate to one as possessions.
 
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My girl already gave me the green light for a threesome but she wants me to choose the chick
 

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Had a threesome before
Next time I would rather have 2 freaks who don't have any feelings for me as opposed to 2 women who love me because they will catch an attitude while you fukking the other one...and that can mean the difference between a pleasurable experience and a chore
 

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Why?

It's funny because if you have children, or have any children in your life you'll understand the mechanics of the child doing something, or wanting something just because they were told they can't have it, or can't do it.

This idea of "ok, we're married/together, you can't interact with anyone else" actually triggers that response of a free soul wanting to reclaim that autonomy. Of course with enough religion, guilt and shame people can keep their actual feelings at bay but what is the point?

All of this "get married" breh's shyt is just more examples of trying to fit a square peg in a round hole....and ultimately a lot of these "relationships" aren't built how well you actually relate to that person...IE companionship. Once you begin using language like "i'm the last ___ you'll ever do this with" you have now become an owner rather than a companion...and looking at the history of marriage the whole "romance" aspect of it was thrown in well after the fact, it used to be a straight up and down business transaction. Even in prehistory fidelity had nothing to do with happiness, it was more of a non-verbal contract that stated I catch the food, and protect you, give up the p*ssy, bare my children and help me maintain my image as big daddy king shyt.

The fanfare and romanticizing of what basically amounted to indentured servitude was just another way to pacify the emotional holes that being "owned" created. Even people that COULD or even SHOULD spend their lives together would probably be better at maintaining that companionship if they left behind the conditioning that calls for them to relate to one as possessions.
Its not in the sense of ownership, its more along the lines of "We took vows to be the only one for each other," that includes sexually. If I'm not having sex with someone else, she shouldn't either. She wants to fukk somebody else? Divorce me. I went through this shyt for a period of time when it was LDR, she hadn't had sex in a while, there was a casual friend, and even though I gave her the green-light, it still bothers me to this day. I'm not talking about owning, this is just a trust issue.
 

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Ask your wife to be a dyke then raise your kids bruhs :mjlol: Yall gone learn though.
 

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Its not in the sense of ownership, its more along the lines of "We took vows to be the only one for each other," that includes sexually. If I'm not having sex with someone else, she shouldn't either. She wants to fukk somebody else? Divorce me. I went through this shyt for a period of time when it was LDR, she hadn't had sex in a while, there was a casual friend, and even though I gave her the green-light, it still bothers me to this day. I'm not talking about owning, this is just a trust issue.
bytch go buy a vibrator
 

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why do so many of u think threesomes are fmf? most of the ones i've heard of are mfm.
stop looking at her friends and start looking at yours if you really wanna do one
 

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Nope. I don't believe in sharing when it comes to wifey.

Random one-night deal? :manny:
 

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I like seeing my girl getting it in with another woman. Better than a strip club for sure. :yeshrug: However, I do not and would not penetrate another woman. My lady says she wouldn't mind but I know better.
 

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never gonna happen. i wouldnt want to do it with my wife involved tho. i gave up on that dream of a 3some with an asian and a white girl. :mjcry:
 
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