You can almost tell who grew up with a FATHER their home.

[General Mills]

Seriously. Got kicked out the military and everything

Always thinking he can buck up to authority figures


I always wonder if they put hands on him when he tried to buck up in military. I always hear that they will smack the taste out your mouth (literally) in Boot camp.

I never asked him cause he doesn't like to talk about it.

I would say most likely they did not put actual hands on him. Unless he is in his 50's.. that stuff is out.

Now im not putting anything past somebody in a authority position who wears a uniform. We all see these cops out here.

But unlike the police force the military does not have a union protecting the members. In the military they will willfully and gleefully take your cash and get u in trouble if u fukk up.

 

[Sunalmighty]

Mama cant do wrong syndrome many blacks face. Many kids are abused by their mothers whether it be physically or mentally but because their mom had them around feel they cant acknowledge the wrong doings. This abuse creates crazy women and or men who hate women.

Its easy to diss the black man who isnt around but its hard to say something about the woman who was around although tourtured you.

My mom's was mental too. My pops wasn't shyt but growing up watching how she used to start fights and shyt let's me know she was just as bad as he was in some ways. It's a lot of niccas I was in the Navy with who would have to stop by the liquor store to "get right" before they go home just to tolerate a fukking woman. What kind of life is that? Outside of my mom's to this day, I always promised myself i would NEVER deal with an angry black woman. That shyt is TOO MUCH to deal with

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I've seen fatherless dudess not know the difference between a phillips and a flat-head.

 

[El Poyo Loco]

 

[BaldingSoHard]

That's beyond basic, breh.

Even female kids know the difference.

 

[El Poyo Loco]

That's beyond basic, breh.

Even female kids know the difference.

You'd be surprised how many don't because their not around tools or people who grew up around tools

 

[25YOUTHS!!]

Father figure gang

 

[ultraflexed]

I grew up without a father.

I learnt my friends that grew up with dad's in the house are simps. Bend over backwards for p*ssy, just doing the most.

I think growing up without a family structure made me more of a realist in regards to relationships. Those with dad's live in that fairy tale world where you're 9yrs old and never see your parents fight. But in reality they are only together for the sake of you.

But yh, they be simping.

how dumb, I simp for my wife, if I can't simp for my wife then who? Relationship are give in take, and usually you want to make your wife happy

Parents staying together for the sake of the children so they don't become a statistic.....

niccaz on this board.

 

[RAX 010]

My dad was in prison most of my childhood and my mom's struggled with drug abuse but she still kept it together and gave me a pretty decent childhood
My dad had a reputation as a Killer and bank robber and was infamous throughout Jersey City Newark and NYC...his name was Ripper (I can't make this sh1t up)
My mom's tried to actually steer me away from any street sh!t but it kinda backfired when she attempted to shelter me from reality (God Bless Her Soul)...unfortunately I wanted to emulate the Ultra Tough guy image of my pops but my mom's was making me a nerd....so all in all I believe I turned out to be pretty balanced taking into consideration the circumstances involved


That was thereputic thanks OP

 

[K1ngScorp]

I saw the difference when i moved away from home the 1st time. I joined the Navy. We are in Boot Camp and nikkas are on some.

Fatherless nikkas - man i aint marching nowhere b.

Im looking at them like...nikka we are in the military... thats what they do



Man fukk that cuz. They think they run shyt.



Me -




I swear. About 6 cats.. ATTEMPTED to buck at the slightest authority. That shyt dont work in the military. They literally own you.

They had them dudes hemmed up so fast. took away a bunch of cash. Locked them up. Then kicked them out with a dishonorable discharge.

What's you're rate breh. I'm in the navy too

 

[General Mills]

What's you're rate breh. I'm in the navy too

Im no longer in but i was a En3.

 

[Clayton Endicott]

I've noticed they tend to not have realistic expectations about life or what is expected of them as a man.

As a woman, I will say they seem to mirror the entitlement many women are accused of having.

Not all of them, but I've noticed a trend for sure.

Damn, you byke

 

[Marco Zen]

I grew up with my dad at home..

I've had my fair share of fukk ups in life, I don't personally blame him for none of em..

Yea he couldve did more of this or more of that raising me blah blah blah... The dude did the best he could for what he knew..

I think I'm a stand up guy for the most part and I can say its because of how he raised me...

I know nikkaz who didn't have a dad coming up who are world class fukk ups and I also know some who turned out ight



Its life.




My dad is my hero btw

 

[WaveGang]

how dumb, I simp for my wife, if I can't simp for my wife then who? Relationship are give in take, and usually you want to make your wife happy

Parents staying together for the sake of the children so they don't become a statistic.....

niccaz on this board.

Who said you can't simp for your wife fool.

Saying my friends with father's be simping for any bytch they run across. Because they been given the illusion that the dream is real.

 

[Stir Fry]

One thing I want to teach my kids is to know how to do and fix the little things around the house. I've seen fatherless dudess not know the difference between a phillips and a flat-head.

I know people with fathers in their lives that don't know the difference