You can't even leave a chick alone with her thoughts it seems

[Ugo Ogugwa]

Wednesday: Subject gives homegirl some good dikk, stays the night, goes to work in the morning

Thursday: Subject tries to bring girlfriend to gym with him and show her a thing or two. She acts very silly so he gets frustrated and gives up. Has a minimal amount of conversation after because he is busy at work, tired after a long day and disappointed in the girlfriends work ethic at the gymnasium. However, any mean things the subject may have said earlier as a result of his disappointment are spoken about and the couple makes up

Friday: Wakes up at 5:30 am to commute to a conference downtown which lasts from 8 to 5 pm. Has no conversation during the conference as his phone is off. Subject receives a call from Canada's best investment bank for an interview after the weekend and shares this news with his girlfriend. Girlfriend seems a little less excited than she should as a result of the lack of communication. She's feeling a way and perhaps is even jealous

Saturday: After some interview prep, the subject msgs his lady and gets some one word answers. He inquires about her well-being and she isnt happy. Apparently she has been thinking about "us" whatever that means.

Monday: After his interview on Monday, the subject is on cloud 9 and no longer anxious. He decides after his girlfriend asks how it went...to interrogate the subject to see what the fukk the issue is. The lady turns elusive and keeps saying she just has some questions to ask without giving a preview. No matter how many times the subject asks she says theyll talk when they see each other. At this point the subject is thinking the worst...even pregnancy (which he asked about to no answer) which theoretically wasnt possible but who knows? .

After much interrogation, the girl finally asks one question (of what will supposedly be many when the couple meets up later in the week, "Do you have a problem with my expensive taste?"

Tuesday: Subject posts about it on a message board.

Always looking for trouble. What the hell is wrong with women man? This girl had me thinking the worst and then is gonna ask me some buffoonery like that. No intelligence with these women sometimes. I might have to drop her out of spite. If I get this job, I aint taking foolishness from no entity.

Neega she see you as a sucker and a trick o.

 

[Ohene]

Pump and dump her breh. There's better women out there.

She treats me so good though man
Just a little neurotic at times.

Expensive tastes? Wheut le fuque?

I know right. Heres the backstory. She is a lovely girl. Pretty much ideal for me and even treats me like a king but she comes from a rich family and is accustomed to expensive stuff. Prada purses, Ferragamo/Loubiton shoes etc etc. Basically shes a daddy's girl and her dad spoiled her growing up.

I see her act a little foolish with money sometimes and I kinda want to mold her into a financially wise girl. Too many girls out here maxing out their credit cards and shyt at the mall. God forbid I am rich and successful and this girl think she can just spend my/our money however you know?

 

[Guess Who]

1. She lacks mature communication skills.

2. She appears insecure, as her not being able to understand that you can't talk to her for one day because you're busy doing important life shyt, which will benefit BOTH of you.

3. She withholds support due to her bitterness, anger, spite, because you were busy, you know, doing important life shyt.

4. She has expensive tastes.

Now I'm not telling you to leave, but I just felt like I should raise some red flags with you. You are about to be PAID...and she has expensive tastes, doesn't communicate effectively, is insecure, and is selectively supportive. Think about these things bruh.

EDIT: *flag on the play*

My dude, you're 21. No offense, but though you got a lot going for you professionally, at 21 you know fukk all about life, ESPECIALLY women. You say she treats you well? Being unsupportive in ANY circumstance is not being treated well. You sound like you're making excuses for her. Anytime you are making excuses for you're significant other you have to take a reaaaal close look at your relationship, because it is likely that it is not healthy and the person you're dating has some issues that make them unwifeable/unhusbandable at the moment.

And NEVER try to mold a person. You can be teammates. But never try to mold. People will resent you for that. And that will give them less desire to change.

Oh, and she's 18. She's gonna hit her early 20's and want to "have fun" so don't take her too seriously. Don't take many women seriously until they're at least 23, 24 and have had 2-3 boyfriends under their belt. Or you will have a handful on your hands.

 

[Ohene]

Neega she see you as a sucker and a trick o.

The funny thing is that she's Nigerian
In fact, if anything she's the trick in this situation because she spoils me.

 

[Ohene]

So you're cheating on her..?

Nope. Never will. Dap me.

 

[Ohene]

1. She lacks mature communication skills.

2. She appears insecure, as her not being able to understand that you can't talk to her for one day because you're busy doing important life shyt, which will benefit BOTH of you.

3. She withholds support due to her bitterness, anger, spite, because you were busy, you know, doing important life shyt.

4. She has expensive tastes.

Now I'm not telling you to leave, but I just felt like I should raise some red flags with you. You are about to be PAID...and she has expensive tastes, doesn't communicate effectively, is insecure, and is selectively supportive. Think about these things bruh.

Exactly

My Toronto breh gets it.

Last interview round on Friday if they call me back. I aint tryna have no chick get in the way of shyt.

 

[Anothergirl]

1. She lacks mature communication skills.

2. She appears insecure, as her not being able to understand that you can't talk to her for one day because you're busy doing important life shyt, which will benefit BOTH of you.

3. She withholds support due to her bitterness, anger, spite, because you were busy, you know, doing important life shyt.

4. She has expensive tastes.

Now I'm not telling you to leave, but I just felt like I should raise some red flags with you. You are about to be PAID...and she has expensive tastes, doesn't communicate effectively, is insecure, and is selectively supportive. Think about these things bruh.

and this is the main red flag right here. if it's like that now during the young puppy love stage ...imagine how much worse that lack of support will be later on down the line when the "new realtionship smell" wears off.

 

[DarlingNikki]

Nope. Never will. Dap me.

Misunderstood the homegirl part. She's extremely insecure, and she's really young so she has no reason to be.. It will only get worse.

Good luck! With the relationship and the (hopefully) new job.

 

[Rawtid]

She treats me so good though man
Just a little neurotic at times.



I know right. Heres the backstory. She is a lovely girl. Pretty much ideal for me and even treats me like a king but she comes from a rich family and is accustomed to expensive stuff. Prada purses, Ferragamo/Loubiton shoes etc etc. Basically shes a daddy's girl and her dad spoiled her growing up.

I see her act a little foolish with money sometimes and I kinda want to mold her into a financially wise girl. Too many girls out here maxing out their credit cards and shyt at the mall. God forbid I am rich and successful and this girl think she can just spend my/our money however you know?

You're too young to be trying to raise a child. That's not your job but good damn luck if you're still going to take this on.

 

[Numpsay]

What was the point of Wednesday? Is homegirl and your girlfriend the same person?

 

[jalamanta]

She treats me so good though man
Just a little neurotic at times.



I know right. Heres the backstory. She is a lovely girl. Pretty much ideal for me and even treats me like a king but she comes from a rich family and is accustomed to expensive stuff. Prada purses, Ferragamo/Loubiton shoes etc etc. Basically shes a daddy's girl and her dad spoiled her growing up.

I see her act a little foolish with money sometimes and I kinda want to mold her into a financially wise girl. Too many girls out here maxing out their credit cards and shyt at the mall. God forbid I am rich and successful and this girl think she can just spend my/our money however you know?

You never gonna marry her. Your relationship will probably end in a year or two. At this age you do no let any hoe in your heart.

She will want to try some new dikk 100% if you are her first man.

 

[Ohene]

What was the point of Wednesday? Is homegirl and your girlfriend the same person?

Yes. My bad

 

[Dwolf]

*Anticipates I didnt read / you share that girl posts*

You already know

 

[Guess Who]

Exactly

My Toronto breh gets it.

Last interview round on Friday if they call me back. I aint tryna have no chick get in the way of shyt.

We gotta look out for each other man. I had zero older male role models growing up and nobody who could teach me what to look for and what not to look for in terms of women. So I did a lot of trial and error fukking up. You got a lot going on man, and I know at 21 the temptation of a pretty girl with a fun personality is hard to resist, but focus on you. Those same girls will be there when you're 25-30 and more established and REALLY ready to have fun.

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

She's only 18, and I'm 21.

your fault for dating an airhead.