You can't even leave a chick alone with her thoughts it seems

[GhettoTeK]

I don't know what I just read.

I didn't read at all

 

[Ohene]

You never gonna marry her. Your relationship will probably end in a year or two. At this age you do no let any hoe in your heart.

She will want to try some new dikk 100% if you are her first man.

You're too young to be trying to raise a child. That's not your job but good damn luck if you're still going to take this on.

and this is the main red flag right here. if it's like that now during the young puppy love stage ...imagine how much worse that lack of support will be later on down the line when the "new realtionship smell" wears off.

Yea I pretty much hear all of what you guys are saying. If I get to the last round and get the job I will then decide what to do. I was talking to my 34 yr old sister about how pissed off this chick made me on Monday and she was laughing her ass off. Like damn, I really thought I mightta got this chick pregnant against all logic.

It's crazy cause I'm big on loyalty. One day we were at the train station walking to the Brooks Brothers store and I even told her as we were crossing Bay Street into Royal Bank Plaza (for my TO heads) that one day I was gonna work in that building. Low and behold, I am on the brink and shes pulling this buffoonery. These young stupid relationships arent worth it I am kinda starting to think. Even if I'd rather build from the ground up...too much risk and work .

Serious red flag. Last night when she asked the question I told her, "You effed up"

 

[Ohene]

She will want to try some new dikk 100% if you are her first man.

Sad reality eh? I dunno man she's really got that traditional mindset.

But if its one thing I learned it's that you should never think your game is that special and impeccable. Anybody can get it.

If I do break up ill certainly have to spin it so she breaks up with me. I took her virginity and I dont want no problems .

 

[Sinnerman]

It ain't lookin good my Ghanaian brotha. maybe I missed it, but have you sat her down yet?

 

[Ricky Church]

I stopped reading halfway thru, sorry breh.

 

[Ohene]

It ain't lookin good my Ghanaian brotha. maybe I missed it, but have you sat her down yet?

We gon have to talk and see whats up

I stopped reading halfway thru, sorry breh.

you made the effort though

 

[Ohene]

shyt if I am an I-Banker, working 100 hour weeks there is no way its gonna work out. Absolutely no way.
All females in the bushes/

 

[jalamanta]

Sad reality eh? I dunno man she's really got that traditional mindset.

But if its one thing I learned it's that you should never think your game is that special and impeccable. Anybody can get it.

If I do break up ill certainly have to spin it so she breaks up with me. I took her virginity and I dont want no problems .

You should concentrate 100% on yourself and money now.

Don't let any bytches in your heart, please. And don't waste any energy on them. This is not your type of woman, she already giving you trouble and sucks energy off you.

She will be buying her purses and shyt with or without you. Its not about both of you for her, its only about her if you know what I mean.

Don't take this bytches seriously and improve yourself.

 

[Guess Who]

You should concentrate 100% on yourself and money now.

Don't let any bytches in your heart, please. And don't waste any energy on them. This is not your type of woman, she already giving you trouble and sucks energy off you.

She will be buying her purses and shyt with or without you. Its not about both of you for her, its only about her if you know what I mean.

Don't take this bytches seriously and improve yourself.

Excellent advice given. She's too young to know how not to be self-absorbed, especially since her father did her a true disservice in spoiling her. Now she's going to expect that from all men, until she finds a sucker to settle down with or ends up 35, unmarried, wondering why she can't find a good man.

 

[A.V.]

This some fukk shyt.

 

[kash10003]

move on and focus on the job, you are too young to dwell on these issues

 

[Ain't That Something]

Someone throw this shyt in the bushes.

 

[AllHolosEve]

We gotta look out for each other man. I had zero older male role models growing up and nobody who could teach me what to look for and what not to look for in terms of women. So I did a lot of trial and error fukking up. You got a lot going on man, and I know at 21 the temptation of a pretty girl with a fun personality is hard to resist, but focus on you. Those same girls will be there when you're 25-30 and more established and REALLY ready to have fun.

.......I was talking to my 34 yr old sister about how pissed off this chick made me on Monday and she was laughing her ass off..... I'm big on loyalty...... These young stupid relationships arent worth it....

!m s!m!lar breh.... !m !n my th!rt!es & desp!sed male role models grow!n up & hated moms boyfr!ends cause ! was resentful about my dad.... ! was ra!sed around women, ! l!stened & learned from all the!r fukkery up close... !f she cant r!de w!t you & support you wh!le you nav!gate the road of l!fe, throw her out gucc! style soon as you see another red flag & a bush, dont waste your loyalty on someone who returns !t when conven!ent... @Guess Who !s r!ght, get your sh!t good 1st... my s!ster about to be 40, she wouldnt even bother to laugh at you, shed

 

[rapdonttweet]

She's only 18, and I'm 21.

There's your problem right there. How do you expect an 18 year old to be thinking about anything productive?

 

[rapdonttweet]

1. She lacks mature communication skills.

2. She appears insecure, as her not being able to understand that you can't talk to her for one day because you're busy doing important life shyt, which will benefit BOTH of you.

3. She withholds support due to her bitterness, anger, spite, because you were busy, you know, doing important life shyt.

honestly this would go for any 18 year old. Dude needs to just relax, have his fun and not get attached.