you find out your significant other only dated whites before you....

Oceanicpuppy

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If they don't have a c00n mindset where white is right then it's ok but most likely if their constantly finding themselves only dating one group of women their most likely a c00n or a bigot. That can change if they willing to stop being closed minded and be tolerant and truely accepting of all people.
 

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I'd ask her what made her switch and see what her reasoning behind all that :mjpls: was about.
I'd also have to ask her what about me that made her feel like crossing the colour line and fukking with a breh.
Outside of rock music, skateboarding and Seinfeld I don't come across as a 'c00n' or whitewashed so there has to be SOMETHING she saw in a breh that made her decide to come back home and I'd really like to know.:mjpls:
 

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I have before

One of my longest relationships was with a black girl that grew up in New Hampshire :skip:
Thats different, she had no choice in fukkin new hampsire. Its like being mad if a black person dated out if they lived in Iceland, guatamala, or Japan like da fukk were they supposed to do.
 

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Thats a tough question.

It depends on her circumstances.

If she was the type who preferred black men but only attracted white men then I wouldn't mind being with her since I know the feeling of having a hard time getting your own but if she purposely ignored black men to date white then Id say no.
 

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I normally don't date dudes who are serial IR daters so it's a no for me.
IMO normal people usually date and desire their own over any other group. That doesn't mean others aren't attractive, it just means u like what looks like you the most. It signals a healthy self-esteem. You recognize the strengths of your own ethnicities' beauty, you've grown up with ur own uniquely ethnic culture.

For a man or woman to privilege an entirely different ethnic group usually indicates some deep pathological problems.
Thats why they bash the opposite sex of their own race so much.

I'm also not really attracted to these types either and I can usually spot em. Blk men who date non-blk exclusively have a certain look and vibe. No hate. I've been known to hook these dudes up with my non-blk friends myself b/c God knows i and no other blk chick was checking for them. I won't begrudge anybody a chance for love if u just not getting it. But the c00ns. Nah I ain't built to date em.
 
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