You gotta earn this much to date an LSA hoe

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I dunno. The demo there seems highly skewed towards educated women living in bigger cities. It's not hard to believe that a good number of them make 6 figures themselves.

Again, how would they know either way? I have never known how much money any of the guys I have dated made. The best you get is a ruff net worth.

All you can really go by is what he tells you or how he lives. Like I got a friend who paid off his home which because of where it is located is now worth $1M. He also told me he made a few Ms off of bitcoin. Also he went in with an investment house in Baltimore with his homie whom he gave 8k off the rip few questions asked. Also the financial advices he gives is that of someone who can sit and wait. I still have no idea what he makes. lol

I have another friend with a nice home probably in the 300/400s. Has a really fancy job as a system engineer. Travels all the time. Owns a 80k car. Will go out and drop $700/$800 on a night out no problem. I still have no idea what he makes.

Women look for lifestyle. Of course, we as women know that but you men wanna ease drop on our conversations, take the shyt too literally and then get ruffled
 

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Again, how would they know either way? I have never known how much money any of the guys I have dated made. The best you get is a ruff net worth.

All you can really go by is what he tells you or how he lives. Like I got a friend who paid off his home which because of where it is located is now worth $1M. He also told me he made a few Ms off of bitcoin. Also he went in with an investment house in Baltimore with his homie whom he gave 8k off the rip few questions asked. Also the financial advices he gives is that of someone who can sit and wait. I still have no idea what he makes. lol

I have another friend with a nice home probably in the 300/400s. Has a really fancy job as a system engineer. Travels all the time. Owns a 80k car. Will go out and drop $700/$800 on a night out no problem. I still have no idea what he makes.

Women look for lifestyle. Of course, we as women know that but you men wanna ease drop on our conversations, take the shyt too literally and then get ruffled
This is the most sensible post you ever made :ehh:
 

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I haven't posted there yet, but I don't see the big deal with 100-200k a year. I am within that range.

Now the women that are asking for the moon and stars without even being remotely close to that, is another things. But again, those women are typically more traditional, want to be taken care of and SAHMs.

Not that simple. Do you want kids? How many hours do you work to achieve your salary?

If you want kids are you going to hire a nanny? Are you willing to work part time?

It is easier for a single person to grind and make 100k plus but when you are married with kids you may have to sacrifice time for your family.

You make 100k plus now but as a mother you may be making 40k.
 

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I read the first few pages of the thread and got a laugh out of it. Many of those women are in for a rude awakening, the competition at the top is fierce. I make about five times what most of those women are asking, I am short, not traditionally attractive but I probably have everything else in life going for me and I pretty much have a nonstop supply of women. Very attractive women that have their shyt together vying for my attention, flying in from out of state, setting up dates on their own dime. I have friends that in the same boat, they all have too many options and they string women along for years before dumping them. Any woman that is hellbent on marrying for money better be wise and cutthroat.

This.

A woman with less could still slide in there though. Most women even those whose who "have it together" are overly concerned with money and imagine. They usually have entitlement issues, bossy and dramatic.

You can win a man's heart by being attractive and pretty much the opposite of what I posted. Best way to play these guys is to be cool, ease going, NEVER focus on money, have standards (don't do just anything, respectfully check him if he gets outta line) and have zero drama.

Put in at least a good six months. They will usually float away and get caught up with the other options. Don't sweat it. Still do you (general you for women). They'll get tired of the drama and eventually come back courting you. Works like clock work.
 

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Not that simple. Do you want kids? How many hours do you work to achieve your salary?

If you want kids are you going to hire a nanny? Are you willing to work part time?

It is easier for a single person to grind and make 100k plus but when you are married with kids you may have to sacrifice time for your family.

You make 100k plus now but as a mother you may be making 40k.

I don't really grind, but I work a full-time job and I am in school so I can make even more. My goal is to work part-time (not 40k salary part-time, but more like 80k) if I have kids. But again if my SO is bringing in at least 100k, that should be doable. I am living very well on my own and I manage my money well.

I've said it before and I will say it again, I will not date someone who makes a lot less than me. I don't want to be the bread winner, I have seen how that goes especially when babies are involved.

Take home 6 figures to pull a chick who post on LSA? That's like paying the double the brand new price for an EBAY item in "As is" condition.

I would say, make 6 figures for yourself to live comfortably and then find someone who you like...hey maybe she posts on LSA or she doesn't...some of you are too into the internet world.

I guess it might not be a big deal if you live in a city like NYC, DC or SF etc but if those chicks are planning to stay in Teneseee with those expectations then Hahahhahahahahha lol cause the average American doesn’t make close to six figures.

My question to that all those ladies would be what exactly is their career goals to even demand a salary figure in a man.

:ehh:

That's the problem, people are using the negative stereotypes attached to posters on LSA and using these purposely selected responses about making 100k+and applying it to the stereotype. So who knows who these posters are, maybe they make good money themselves, maybe they are from well off families,or maybe they are delusional.
 
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This.

A woman with less could still slide in there though. Most women even those whose who "have it together" are overly concerned with money and imagine. They usually have entitlement issues, bossy and dramatic.

You can win a man's heart by being attractive and pretty much the opposite of what I posted. Best way to play these guys is to be cool, ease going, NEVER focus on money, have standards (don't do just anything, respectfully check him if he gets outta line) and have zero drama.

Put in at least a good six months. They will usually float away and get caught up with the other options. Don't sweat it. Still do you (general you for women). They'll get tired of the drama and eventually come back courting you. Works like clock work.

This is what women should be teaching daughters and what women should be telling each other. shyt gets awkward really quickly when I get the "what can you buy me vibe" from a woman. When a woman that doesn't drink wine all of a sudden wants to try the most expensive wine on the menu. the funny thing is I usually don't care about silly things like that but one woman straight up asked me to buy her a dress once and that date ended right after laughed at her.

Any glimpse of that fancy lifestyle and too many women really do not know how to act, maybe because it's so foreign and or they reading too much online on how to get shyt from men.
 

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Black people really be living in fantasy island when it comes to the opposite sex and what they should have when it comes to dating

Those same bytches mamas was the same way 20 years ago or hell they might be old hoes today on there with their demands only to have 3 kids by 2 different dudes or still at the clubs at 40 looking for Reginald in the Benz to pick them up
 

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All them hoes want men earning income in the top 10% percentile :pachaha: If I ever hit those levels there’s no way in absolute fukk that I’m settling for an average hoe so I pray every last one of them broads are flawless. I don’t accept that now so I know I’m not if I’m making $150,000. Where are they finding nikkas who make $150,000 but settle for ugly average fat women? I wanna know seriously.
 

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This is what women should be teaching daughters and what women should be telling each other. shyt gets awkward really quickly when I get the "what can you buy me vibe" from a woman. When a woman that doesn't drink wine all of a sudden wants to try the most expensive wine on the menu. the funny thing is I usually don't care about silly things like that but one woman straight up asked me to buy her a dress once and that date ended right after laughed at her.

Any glimpse of that fancy lifestyle and too many women really do not know how to act, maybe because it's so foreign and or they reading too much online on how to get shyt from men.

And fancy not really fancy. 6 figs ain't really life changing like most think. It's comfortable but not life changing. If anything you get cheaper
 

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This is what women should be teaching daughters and what women should be telling each other. shyt gets awkward really quickly when I get the "what can you buy me vibe" from a woman. When a woman that doesn't drink wine all of a sudden wants to try the most expensive wine on the menu. the funny thing is I usually don't care about silly things like that but one woman straight up asked me to buy her a dress once and that date ended right after laughed at her.

Any glimpse of that fancy lifestyle and too many women really do not know how to act, maybe because it's so foreign and or they reading too much online on how to get shyt from men.

Yep I know. It's mainly because women have no game about themselves and don't understand men. They see something they want and don't even have the sense to hold back even a little. lol
 
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