"You made me settle." - her

[Costanza]

its one of the dumbest quotes of all time...

how do you go through life not caring about anything? if you can do/say this truthfully (and not be on some innaweb tough-guy shyt)...then imo, you arent living much of a life at all...

its one thing to say you dont agree with the line... but its not dumb in any way... it makes perfect sense in life and is the premise of a goat film...

 

[Seea]

Lmao at "You made me settle."

Girl please. Sounding like a VH1 chick. (Chrissy, Emily B, Tahiry, etc.)

 

[Cynic]

"After dealing with you I've come to the conclusion that all men who are a 'catch' will never be ready to be serious any time soon. A guy with a good career and drive, no kids, etc. is gonna continue to play the field. Because of that I only deal with a certain type of guy from now on."

:wow2:


How is this my fault tho?

It ain't but she's right..... worst part she will always lust for dudes like that

I'd drop her immediately though, you don't have to settle for this ungrateful wench :whatever:

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

its one of the dumbest quotes of all time...

how do you go through life not caring about anything? if you can do/say this truthfully (and not be on some innaweb tough-guy shyt)...then imo, you arent living much of a life at all...

Who said anything about not caring? It's more about getting out of dodge before suffering the consequences.

 

[Anothergirl]

She is completely misinformed. One guy doesn't represent all guys.

she right about that being the case with most black males that have a lot going for themselves. black women that want a "catch" with the great job...drive..ambition..no kids that's gonna actually want to "settle down" need to date out to increase their odds. no way around it.

 

[Anothergirl]

its one of the dumbest quotes of all time...

how do you go through life not caring about anything? if you can do/say this truthfully (and not be on some innaweb tough-guy shyt)...then imo, you arent living much of a life at all...

pretty much if your mafia or cia or some other high risk jason bourne type person them maybe that logic makes sense.... but to be an average joe with that mentality just = deadbeat. you gonna walk out on your kids in 30 seconds flat too?

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

pretty much if your mafia or cia or some other high risk jason bourne type person them maybe that logic makes sense.... but to be an average joe with that mentality just = deadbeat. you gonna walk out on your kids in 30 seconds flat too?

Let's not jump to the worst conclusions now. How about if someone is displaying warning signs? A type of behavior that is indicative of worse things to come. Disrespect, self destructive behavior, erratic and worrying behavior etc. Actions speak louder than words, and if you try and talk it out, you'll just get a bunch of bs. You also can't change people with words alone, so if some bytch displays disrespectful behavior to me, yeah i'm out.

You mean to tell me if you date some dude, and you find out he has a drug and alcohol problem, and calls you ******, you won't get out of there with the quickness? Even if you liked this guy before discovering all this? Uh huh...

 

[SouthernBelle]

she right about that being the case with most black males that have a lot going for themselves. black women that want a "catch" with the great job...drive..ambition..no kids that's gonna actually want to "settle down" need to date out to increase their odds. no way around it.

I agree black women who are catches might have to date out more (it's something I was finally opening up to before I got with my current boyfriend). However, I can think of a number of black men (phd's and med school students who would love find a good woman to settle down with). It seems like a difficult thing to find off the street, but it pays to have a good social circle.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

"After dealing with you I've come to the conclusion that all men who are a 'catch' will never be ready to be serious any time soon. A guy with a good career and drive, no kids, etc. is gonna continue to play the field. Because of that I only deal with a certain type of guy from now on."

:wow2:


How is this my fault tho?

Leave her. Voila, now she's not settling. She's WELCOME!

 

[Tom Foolery]

Drop her. Already giving you a headache.

 

[Anothergirl]

Let's not jump to the worst conclusions now. How about if someone is displaying warning signs? A type of behavior that is indicative of worse things to come. Disrespect, self destructive behavior, erratic and worrying behavior etc. Actions speak louder than words, and if you try and talk it out, you'll just get a bunch of bs. You also can't change people with words alone, so if some bytch displays disrespectful behavior to me, yeah i'm out.

yeah that's different tho. i don't think that's what these dudes mean when they use that quote. sounds to mean like they talking about just going thru life never fully committing themselves to anyone or anything...maybe i'm wrong...

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

she right about that being the case with most black males that have a lot going for themselves. black women that want a "catch" with the great job...drive..ambition..no kids that's gonna actually want to "settle down" need to date out to increase their odds. no way around it.

The silly part is, most of the chicks aren't actually "in love" with these guys. They just love the image and how they are perceived by everyone else when she's coupled up with a dude like that….

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Leave her. Voila, now she's not settling. She's WELCOME!

Drop her. Already giving you a headache.

LOL. I left awhile back, that's what's causing these emotions.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

yeah that's different tho. i don't think that's what these dudes mean when they use that quote. sounds to mean like they talking about just going thru life never fully committing themselves to anyone or anything...maybe i'm wrong...

We can all interpret quotes in a different way. I'm no criminal, and i'm no longer a dumb teenager getting into some shyt all the time. So I have no use of interpreting such a quote from that perspective. I can however apply it to other areas of life. I think the biggest takeaway from it for me, is to be able to spot red flags in certain situations or in people, that I would do well to heed and gtfo.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

The silly part is, most of the chicks aren't actually "in love" with these guys. They just love the image and how they are perceived by everyone else when she's coupled up with a dude like that….

DING DING DING!