"You made me settle." - her

[Rusty Kuntz]

Sounds like she lost

No one can make you "settle"; if you're about something, then you'll always get back on your feet and find someone on your level.

 

[SouthernBelle]

The silly part is, most of the chicks aren't actually "in love" with these guys. They just love the image and how they are perceived by everyone else when she's coupled up with a dude like that….

I agree. It seems like everyone wants to be the next Barack and Michelle.

 

[Dwolf]

"After dealing with you I've come to the conclusion that all men who are a 'catch' will never be ready to be serious any time soon. A guy with a good career and drive, no kids, etc. is gonna continue to play the field. Because of that I only deal with a certain type of guy from now on."

:wow2:


How is this my fault tho?

Whats wrong with her that you don't want to settle?

 

[nineteeneightysix]

The worst thing society ever did for women, was making them believe they can actually pick a mate on their own...

Nature is a tricky genius b+tch...

She made so that the average woman is more strongly attracted to guys who have "cheater" personalities...

Guys with "cheater" personalities are those with a lot of charm and charisma, guys want to be their friends, women want to be their lovers...It doesnt matter if their jocks or geeks...because even in the geek circles, there is that one geek all the geeks want to be like, and thus, all the female geeks flock to them...

By wiring women this way, Nature ensures guys with cheater personalities keep having sex with as many women as possible, to diversify the gene pool...

So left to their own devices, women will probably go for dudes they damn well know will dog them, but they can't help it...

If as a guy you don't have that "I am probably going to cheat you" aura, you will notice that you probably are getting women to fall for you as often as guys who have that "cheater" aura...

Nature is genius...

 

[KingHelga]

well what she said is somewhat true. many guys don't want to make serious commitments because they are waiting for something better even when they have something good already.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

she right about that being the case with most black males that have a lot going for themselves. black women that want a "catch" with the great job...drive..ambition..no kids that's gonna actually want to "settle down" need to date out to increase their odds. no way around it.

that's most men, not most black men. You think a white cat making 500k a year is gonna settle for some average run of the mill, slightly overweight broad working as a receptionist?

nikkas will settle down if they meet a women worth settling down with. Stop projecting your insecurities on nikkas hoe

 

[Rocket Scientist]

A man can be picky in choosing a woman. A woman cant be picky in choosing a man.

 

[YEAHitsHER]

"After dealing with you I've come to the conclusion that all men who are a 'catch' will never be ready to be serious any time soon. A guy with a good career and drive, no kids, etc. is gonna continue to play the field. Because of that I only deal with a certain type of guy from now on."

:wow2:


How is this my fault tho?

did you sell her false dreams or hopes ??? if not, no love lost, now if you did, i could understand her frustration

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

The silly part is, most of the chicks aren't actually "in love" with these guys. They just love the image and how they are perceived by everyone else when she's coupled up with a dude like that….

Wish I learned this shyt sooner. Been acting way, way differently since. Gotta move on earlier sooner than later.

 

[Anothergirl]

that's most men,

keep telling yourself that. the marriage rates as compared by races don't lie.

 

[Son Of God]

When you have a variety of options to choose from, you're naturally going to choose the best one.

This has nothing to do with white or black, male or female. It's just human nature.

 

[Liquid]

its one of the dumbest quotes of all time...

how do you go through life not caring about anything? if you can do/say this truthfully (and not be on some innaweb tough-guy shyt)...then imo, you arent living much of a life at all...

quote went WAY over your head breh. Nobody said not care about anything lol

 

[Grand Eeezus Maxwell]

Women in America are confused.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

did you sell her false dreams or hopes ??? if not, no love lost, now if you did, i could understand her frustration

No selling dreams. I stopped doing that a long time ago. All I do is let women into my world, show them what a young black male who is a leader and confident in himself is like, treat them good, engage in thoughtful conversation, etc.

Sometimes it doesn't work out. I meet a lot of good girls. I enjoy the time we spend together. But that doesn't make me obligated to have a future with them.

Like dude said, I think chicks just fall in love with the image. I will leave you guys with this powerful quote...

"I don’t want love. when I was young, some women told me they loved me for my long eyelashes. I accepted. Later it was for my wit. Then for my power and money. Then for my talent. Then for my mind–deep. ok, I can handle all of it. The only woman who scares me is the one who loves me for myself alone"

Mario Puzo da gawd

 

[Reid2Achieve]

Black men with charisma, ambition, and stability are always gon eat out here...ladies gotta step their games up if they want that staying power or they're gonna "settle" for someone that's not their dream man (or be blinded by the charm and get cheated on ).

...and sure dating out the race is an option, but we know what you really wanna bring home to the fam