This is tough love friends. I love ya'll enough to give it to you straight. Frfr, don't be in your feelings. Suck it up. I'm giving you practical advice that successful black men apply everyday.
I doubt many black women disagree with me. Of course black men who are lames do.
Women, especially black women have no interest in raising a grown ass man. Nobody is going to hold your hand and you're not entitled to one fukking thing in this world. You gotta get off your ass and go get it.
This includes BW. If you want one, go get her. Show her you're worth. If you're not worth shyt, guess what you're not going to get. Solve for X nikka.