City, without a doubt. More walkable, more amenities, more restaurants, more events, more cultural, less homogenous, and less dystopian feeling.
The only benefit with suburbs, strangely enough, has become the amount of space you can get for relatively cheap (in comparison with the urban core), and if you're looking for quality of public schools (quality being the percentage of children whose parents are middle-class and need less resource-attention from the school district).
I was looking at some of the houses in a nearby suburb and for the same price as the 2BDR/1.5 BTH townhouse across the street from me, I could get a 4 BDR/3 BTH house that's 3200 sq ft.
As a guy who grew up working class with too many people in too small of a house (though it was a loving space) - I'm very interested in something like that.
Tough choice.
is it?burbs seem boring.
The city is loud, crowded, and full of ignorance. Bums walking around, high cost of living, police harassing you, shytty streets, shytty schools.
The suburbs are the epicenter of capitalism; cheap construction, repetitive architecture, nothing but chain restaurants and businesses, city planning designed to make it as hard to be poor or homeless as possible, neighborhoods designed to ensure only the nuclear family can thrive, no sense of community, virtually no public transportation, often lacking in sidewalks, etc.The city is very dystopia, it's the epicenter of capitalism. Advertisements everywhere, keeping with the joneses, expensive restaurants, bars, and clubs. Lastly high crime and homeless.
The suburbs are the epicenter of capitalism; cheap construction, repetitive architecture, nothing but chain restaurants and businesses, city planning designed to make it as hard to be poor or homeless as possible, neighborhoods designed to ensure only the nuclear family can thrive, no sense of community, virtually no public transportation, often lacking in sidewalks, etc.
Crime is by no stretch of the imagination an urban phenomenon.
The suburbs are the epicenter of capitalism; cheap construction, repetitive architecture, nothing but chain restaurants and businesses, city planning designed to make it as hard to be poor or homeless as possible, neighborhoods designed to ensure only the nuclear family can thrive, no sense of community, virtually no public transportation, often lacking in sidewalks, etc.
Crime is by no stretch of the imagination an urban phenomenon.
The suburbs are the epicenter of capitalism; cheap construction, repetitive architecture, nothing but chain restaurants and businesses, city planning designed to make it as hard to be poor or homeless as possible, neighborhoods designed to ensure only the nuclear family can thrive, no sense of community, virtually no public transportation, often lacking in sidewalks, etc.
Crime is by no stretch of the imagination an urban phenomenon.

Suburban life at this point is the only thing I can deal with.
I feel about the same way. I don't go out as much as I used to and if I do go out, its only on the weekends.Lived in the burbs my whole life pretty much, and I currently live in one. That said one thing I like about being closer to/ in the city is the food options and general activities available a short distance away. I’m single and somewhat young so that stuff still appeals to me; I’m about 35-45 minutes out from the city now so it’s a pretty big commitment if I decide to go out
Suburbs are appealing to those that have never experienced anything else or brainwashed into thinking subdivisions and gated communities is “settling down”.
Suburbs are are soul crushing wastelands and historical mistakes driven by the greed of a few industries.![]()
Y'all think suburbs only consist of those new developments. Cookie cutter houses, uniform grass, and no trees. That's not true at all. Soul crushing?
My house would be swagged the fukk out. Wood floors, brick, a fire place, 77in OLED, surround sound, swimming pool, jacuzzi, bifold patio door that opens to the outside
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