You should always be better than any woman you deal with.

[BaldingSoHard]

This is excellent advice for the brehs who are ready to lead and know what it means to lead.

Unfortunately, this won't apply to most brehs here.

The only caveat I'll say is to be careful because you can end up realizing that you don't really need or even want a woman around at all.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Some of yall dudes sitting back wanting your woman to teach you things and then think she gon walk away respecting you afterwards


And I'm not talking about her teaching you minor things. My woman SHARES things with me. But she ain't never had to teach me

Imagine her having to teach me how to drive, or teach me how to manage money or even worse, how to MAKE money?

some of the biggest gripes women have come to me complaining about the men they're with is that... they feel like they're raising the nicca

They feel like they gotta teach him everything

Needless to say, those relationships don't last long. No woman wants to teach a man.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

This is excellent advice for the brehs who are ready to lead and know what it means to lead.

Unfortunately, this won't apply to most brehs here.

The only caveat I'll say is to be careful because you can end up realizing that you don't really need or even want a woman around at all.

Breh! You know it!

But is that necessarily a bad thing? Man I talk to multiple women and I be wanting them broads to leave me alone sometimes.

I be trying to study, work on perfecting my craft and they just want to talk talk talk talk. As I said earlier, them being chatty is necessary cause it means they feeling you, I get it.

But sometimes I be wanting these women to leave me the hell alone. Why? Because I DON'T need them.

And truth of the matter is... they feel that energy from me without me even saying it...and it only makes them want me more.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Breh! You know it!

But is that necessarily a bad thing? Man I talk to multiple women and I be wanting them broads to leave me alone sometimes.

I be trying to study, work on perfecting my craft and they just want to talk talk talk talk. As I said earlier, them being chatty is necessary cause it means they feeling you, I get it.

But sometimes I be wanting these women to leave me the hell alone. Why? Because I DON'T need them.

And truth of the matter is... they feel that energy from me without me even saying it...and it only makes them want me more.

It's a little bit of a difficult place to be in, honestly.

I've long advocated that if brehs want to be "that nikka" that the important thing is to focus on themselves and that's exactly what I did.

This is gonna sound like bragging, but I've followed my own advice and now I'm:

• Handsome (stay in shape)
  
• Intelligent (educate yourself)
• Successful (millionaire)
• With no ex wives..
• No kids
• No criminal history
• No tattoos
• No debt outside of mortgage and car
• 835 credit score
• ...and I can cook better than any woman I've ever met

So at this point in my life, what does a woman bring to the table other than p*ssy, crying, and endless annoying obligations?

The problem then becomes that apparently I'm not allowed to date a woman unless I intend to marry her (I've been told this by most of my female friends). Because, "A man like you changes a woman's life. It's unkind to give her that kind of life and then take it away from her."

But that's not my fukking problem.

Hoes will hashtag #ImThePrize all day every day till they meet a breh who really has his shyt together.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

It's a little bit of a difficult place to be in, honestly.

I've long advocated that if brehs want to be "that nikka" that the important thing is to focus on themselves and that's exactly what I did.

This is gonna sound like bragging, but I've followed my own advice and now I'm:

• Handsome (stay in shape)
  
• Intelligent (educate yourself)
• Successful (millionaire)
• With no ex wives..
• No kids
• No criminal history
• No tattoos
• No debt outside of mortgage and car
• 835 credit score
• ...and I can cook better than any woman I've ever met

So at this point in my life, what does a woman bring to the table other than p*ssy, crying, and endless annoying obligations?

The problem then becomes that apparently I'm not allowed to date a woman unless I intend to marry her (I've been told this by most of my female friends). Because, "A man like you changes a woman's life. It's unkind to give her that kind of life and then take it away from her."

But that's not my fukking problem.

Hoes will hashtag #ImThePrize all day every day till they meet a breh who really has his shyt together.

Nah you in that sweet spot (no dame) that all men should aspire to get to. And not for women. They should do it for themselves.

That's what this thread is about and brehs ain't getting it. Obviously no man wants to feel like a woman is his better. So that should inspire him to get off his butt and make some changes and work to achieve and push himself higher.

I've had woman friends to tell me the same thing yours told you. I'm like not my problem. Yall want to marginalize me in my moment but I ain't going for it.

I just recently came to grips with the fact that women are gonna keep throwing themselves at me... and I'm okay with that.

 

[old pig]

It's a little bit of a difficult place to be in, honestly.

I've long advocated that if brehs want to be "that nikka" that the important thing is to focus on themselves and that's exactly what I did.

This is gonna sound like bragging, but I've followed my own advice and now I'm:

• Handsome (stay in shape)
  
• Intelligent (educate yourself)
• Successful (millionaire)
• With no ex wives..
• No kids
• No criminal history
• No tattoos
• No debt outside of mortgage and car
• 835 credit score
• ...and I can cook better than any woman I've ever met

So at this point in my life, what does a woman bring to the table other than p*ssy, crying, and endless annoying obligations?

The problem then becomes that apparently I'm not allowed to date a woman unless I intend to marry her (I've been told this by most of my female friends). Because, "A man like you changes a woman's life. It's unkind to give her that kind of life and then take it away from her."

But that's not my fukking problem.

Hoes will hashtag #ImThePrize all day every day till they meet a breh who really has his shyt together.

fukk you @ the bold...agree w/ everything else tho lol

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Nah you in that sweet spot (no dame) that all men should aspire to get to. And not for women. They should do it for themselves.

That's what this thread is about and brehs ain't getting it. Obviously no man wants to feel like a woman is his better. So that should inspire him to get off his butt and make some changes and work to achieve and push himself higher.

I've had woman friends to tell me the same thing yours told you. I'm like not my problem. Yall want to marginalize me in my moment but I ain't going for it.

I just recently came to grips with the fact that women are gonna keep throwing themselves at me... and I'm okay with that.

Exactly.

You're literally telling brehs here that not putting women on a pedestal is how you get women, and they're like, "Nah ."

 

[010101]

y'all consume too much weirdo perspectives on relationships/women*

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

y'all consume too much weirdo perspectives on relationships/women*

Which part is weird breh?


Speak on it

 

[010101]

Which part is weird breh?


Speak on it

it's all weird

we need to get back to the original masculine tradition

don't speak on shyte just thug through

the weak will starve & die the chosen will flourish

men are not supposed to give thought to p*ssy like that philosophizing over women is backwards



these are the facts

*

 

[Drip Bayless]

y'all consume too much weirdo perspectives on relationships/women*

it's all weird

we need to get back to the original masculine tradition

don't speak on shyte just thug through

the weak will starve & die the chosen will flourish

men are not supposed to give thought to p*ssy like that philosophizing over women is backwards



these are the facts

*

On bro these nikkas be strategizing bout these hoes man

 

[010101]

On bro these nikkas be strategizing bout these hoes man

i get women because gravity

that's simple science ha

men exist women exist we be fukking that's the whole story

now shut the fukk up ha

*

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

it's all weird

we need to get back to the original masculine tradition

don't speak on shyte just thug through

the weak will starve & die the chosen will flourish

men are not supposed to give thought to p*ssy like that philosophizing over women is backwards



these are the facts

*

On bro these nikkas be strategizing bout these hoes man

Where do you see me strategizing?

Or do you see me sharing my experiences with brehs that may not be as fortunate?

See brehs like yall are happy when it's not as many men eating cause it means more food for you.

I truly want to see brehs succeed in life and so I dont mind sharing whether its online or offline

I'm always trying to hook my real life brehs up with opportunities

 

[MajesticLion]

I see you dapped this, black pearl. I don't disagree, it sort of is an illusion. Like, i could very easily open my own door, but the illusion is that he opens it to lighten my load or whatever. These illusions maintain a tone, one that is helpful in maintaining a long term relationship where you both care for each other even when it's not necessary.

Whoever disagrees, no disrespect, but i need to know how long your longest relationship was/ has been and how y'all work it out among yourselves.

I try to be very specific with the words I use. Words have power. The idea that men have to be "better than" is an ongoing negotiation/equivocation to shore up the self-perception men traditionally like to have of themselves as leaders in all things...when truthfully no man has ever been the leader in EVERYthing. Maybe that's not what OP was trying to get at, but the language itself carries a heavy inference toward traditional ideas of "real men" vs "good women" mind games.

We're well past that at this point.

I don’t know if I would use the term “better”, but me and all of my girls want someone who can “enhance” us. I have to be with someone who enhances many parts of my life. Someone who can teach me something and/or has an understanding of certain concepts that I do not. I’m a young professional woman who just started making a lot of money. My man doesn’t make more than me but he makes enough and knows how to manage it better than I do (saving and investing) so I’m learning from him. We are both intelligent but he is a mechanical engineer and has a completely different skill set than I do. I have an embarrassingly poor understanding of mechanics, and it turns me on watching him work on cars or fix things around the place when prior to meeting him I wouldn’t have to hire someone to do it or try (and fail) at doing it myself.

Everyone is deficient in some aspect of their lives, we should all strive to find someone who complements us.

Nice.



Oversimplified version:

This

and not this

 

[Drip Bayless]

Where do you see me strategizing?

Or do you see me sharing my experiences with brehs that may not be as fortunate?

See brehs like yall are happy when it's not as many men eating cause it means more food for you.

I truly want to see brehs succeed in life and so I dont mind sharing whether its online or offline

I'm always trying to hook my real life brehs up with opportunities

Hook brehs up with an opportunity to get a check
It’s only so much you can say about women you feel me breh? I understand it’s coming from a good place but as a man if your main reason for bettering yourself is to bag women you already lost