Young men looking to get married should avoid girls from single parent families

[Rocket Scientist]

A womans family and low-key birth order has an effect.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

I disagree. What good is a woman who has a good relationship with her mother if the mother ain't shyt and has poisoned her mind and as a result she has grown up with bitterness and resentment for her father and in turn every men tyhat she now sees as a reflection of him

The phrase "men ain't shyt" isn't only used by women who make terrible relationship/courting decisions and have their hearts broken but also by those whose minds have been filled with toxic ideas about men usually from their bitter mothers

As a rule of thumb, If her mom is well grounded, matured, classy and has no resentment towards men then I say that's far more important than the kind of relationship a woman has with her mother.

There are no absolutes, my friend. No rules. And you are right.

 

[Tiffrock]

I feel like women without fathers or bad fathers can be behind the eight ball . The first male representative is your father and I believe some women without fathers get lost trying to find love in the wrong places because of not having that figure or knowing the game.

 

[Off the Onion]

Negged

hit dogs will holler. LOL



If you only had your mother in your life then your life up till now still lopsided because you don't know what it's like having a father in the home. So even if you're a good catch you still knocked down several Pegs

 

[Off the Onion]

May I ask how long you were married for?

A little over 5 years

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Mine neither. But now that Ive been divorced they wouldnt care.

I told my dad what you said and I was laughing.

He hit me with the "what the fukk is funny?"

 

[Contrefaire]

Why is that such a bad idea though


Do you really want filth in your family?


You and I both know this a lot of stuff out there

You gotta be a cac with this lowkey eugenics bullshyt.

 

[Off the Onion]

You gotta be a cac with this lowkey eugenics bullshyt.

eugenics? No !

That's just my military up bringing in my father talking

Sorry if that offends you

 

[Off the Onion]

The plot thickens....

What was your ex wife's relationship with her dad like? How'd that mess up your marriage?

Her dad was a real strong personality. In fact he didn't like me too much almost to the point I feel he was. But he was a hard-working guy and you was police officer for over 30 years and he just wanted the best for his daughter

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

The phrase "men ain't shyt" isn't only used by women who make terrible relationship/courting decisions and have their hearts broken but also by those whose minds have been filled with toxic ideas about men usually from their bitter mothers

So what's the driver of the "women aint shyt" mentality from brehs here? Especially those with very little success with women?

 

[Jalether]

So what's the driver of the "women aint shyt" mentality from brehs here? Especially those with very little success with women?

You answered your own question. bitterrness and frustration as a result of getting rejected so often by women is one factor

other factors being cheating, heart break, alimony,gold digging,child support (especially when used as a weapon to be vindictive) etc

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

I won't go as far to say two parent home, but a good relationship with her mother is ESSENTIAL! Almost every aint-shyt woman I've ever met had a terrible relationship with their mother. I noticed that shyt a LONG time ago...

Maybe because their mothers weren’t shyt???


Idk bro, I’ve met PLENTY of good women who had shaky relationships with their mothers... maybe they disagree a lot or don’t see eye eye on some things. That’s normal for a lot of women:::: BUT u can ALMOST always pick out a chick that grew up without a father.... it’s a lot more blatant... I havent met too many women of high value who had a bad relationship with her dad...

 

[EndDomination]

Ive heard blk women give this advice to other blk women. Hell, low key this is what my parents feel. They still haven't wrapped their heads around the fact that people grow up without both parents.

Meanwhile this is also why me and none of my female OR male cousins are married or have any children. There are no grandchildren for an entire generation in my family tree. It's b/c our parents are so old fashioned and don't want anybody in their family who comes from divorces, broken homes, has a "ready made family", has been to jail b4, does not have an education or good career, no shacking up...YOU NAME IT!

Lol. Sooooooooooo if blk women avoid blk men who were raised in single homes and blk men avoid blk women who were raised in single homes...that means only 4 people are getting married in our community. Lmao!

My family is the same way. My parents were when I told them one of my girlfriends was raised just by her mother. I didn't have the heart to tell them she hadn't finished college yet (she was 25)

I am wary of women that didn't have that stability though, because there may be some things they just don't have a concept of.
I still have dinner every night at the table with my parents
Most girls/women I know aren't even aware its a legitimate thing, not on television, shyt most of my friends in the same situation were when they realised we didn't just do it when they came over to eat, it was a 7 days a week thing.

 

[EndDomination]

So by this logic, should young women avoid marrying men from single parent families too? Or is this another Coli classic "shyt on (black) women and don't hold anyone else to the same standards" thread.

You already know

 

[Off the Onion]

My family is the same way. My parents were when I told them one of my girlfriends was raised just by her mother. I didn't have the heart to tell them she hadn't finished college yet (she was 25)

I am wary of women that didn't have that stability though, because there may be some things they just don't have a concept of.
I still have dinner every night at the table with my parents
Most girls/women I know aren't even aware its a legitimate thing, not on television, shyt most of my friends in the same situation were when they realised we didn't just do it when they came over to eat, it was a 7 days a week thing.

We need more families like yours breh